any tips or advices on open relationship during marriage?
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I do not agree at all. Sometimes the fear of missing out becomes too important. It leads to being unhappy. And eventually most probably separation. Time off to live separately can be very beneficial and does not mean the end of the relationship.
Just take this time to do shit you could barely do before. Play golf. Go on vacation. Down south. The beach. The sea. And fuck everything that moves
And some time geese grow teeth. When she's not willing to fight for the relationship, it's a sure sign. It's better to nip it in the bud than to waste months and years in the hope that this might be different.I do not agree at all. Sometimes the fear of missing out becomes too important. It leads to being unhappy. And eventually most probably separation. Time off to live separately can be very beneficial and does not mean the end of the relationship.
Just take this time to do shit you could barely do before. Play golf. Go on vacation. Down south. The beach. The sea. And fuck everything that moves
I wouldn’t call it an open relationship if you aren’t open to her about seeing sexworkers.
thank you guys for the encouragement. I also spoke to my therapist and he said open relationship is tricky. Better live apart and move out which I plan to do. I am going down south in Miami for xmas and new year to party with my bros. In the mean time, will see sp's for sexual therapy
Your post reads like you’re going to wait it out. She must be a real hot number. Good luck to you.thank you guys for the encouragement. I also spoke to my therapist and he said open relationship is tricky. Better live apart and move out which I plan to do. I am going down south in Miami for xmas and new year to party with my bros. In the mean time, will see sp's for sexual therapy
Fucking bingo.
I'd probably replace the word "many" with the words "pretty much every".
She's looking to trade up.
I figure open relationships work only in 3 cases.
1: The guy is attractive enough or can pay enough to keep up with her numbers.
2: The guy is into the cuck thing and gets off on the idea of his wife being banged like a Salvation Army drum. No judgement, some dudes love that shit.
3: The guy is hard up or the girl is out of his league and is willing to put up with it to keep her.
Anything else and the resentment will just build.
1: The guy is attractive enough or can pay enough to keep up with her numbers.
2: The guy is into the cuck thing and gets off on the idea of his wife being banged like a Salvation Army drum. No judgement, some dudes love that shit.
3: The guy is hard up or the girl is out of his league and is willing to put up with it to keep her.
Anything else and the resentment will just build.
I’d use whatever beauty she has to leverage that into a hotter chick. Make a tindr profile with you both laughing and smiling saying you are in an open relationship and everyone knows. Women who want to upgrade will see it as a challenge.
Even if you have to hire a SP so your wife runs into you at lunch with her she will feel like maybe YOU CAN do better than her. That will show you if she’s already out the door or not.
Even if you have to hire a SP so your wife runs into you at lunch with her she will feel like maybe YOU CAN do better than her. That will show you if she’s already out the door or not.
If he really wants to make her squirm, he can ask his wife’s advice when dressing for a date with a girl.
Women only want what other women have. He may find his wife has a renewed in him or else he’s already dating someone else. Win win for what appears to be a box she’s trying ti stick you in as a back up for “later”.
Dont be in that box. You will never get out. Put her in the box and be the most charming man you can be to other, hotter, women. Hell, they don’t even have to be hot, long as they are interesting and “wow, I had no idea she volunteers with Doctors Without Borders and just got back from a 8 month stint as a nurse there administering polio vaccines in hati!”
Your wife is trying to play you. No one needs that nonsense. Play her right out of the game.
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Would love an update, if you’re up for it?thank you guys for the encouragement. I also spoke to my therapist and he said open relationship is tricky. Better live apart and move out which I plan to do. I am going down south in Miami for xmas and new year to party with my bros. In the mean time, will see sp's for sexual therapy
Wtf is an open marriage?
First, its a loss loss situation for you, no matter how pretty or ugly she is, she will definatley get more dick than you will get pussy.
Second, open marriage will not work simply because either one of you will fall into jealousy and if not then there is no love.
Move on man...
First, its a loss loss situation for you, no matter how pretty or ugly she is, she will definatley get more dick than you will get pussy.
Second, open marriage will not work simply because either one of you will fall into jealousy and if not then there is no love.
Move on man...
Interesting you're using the word "happily" given the wording in your first post. In a later post you said she told your therapist that she needs to have the "open marriage" dating freedom to figure out what is right for her.
So do you think she also feels "happily married" just because Covid is holding her back from experimentation?
