Any of you have a double life?

[G-Spot Seeker]

Meaning, are you married or have an SO and hobby without anyone else in your circle of friends and family knowing?

It's forums like this that you can express yourself about amazing sessions and lousy ones as well.

The only regret I have in the 10 years of hobbying, mostly SC's up until 3+ years ago before going to MP's and seeing SP's, is that I have been asked by a number of dancers and MPA's to take them out on real dates but I had to decline or make excuses why I couldn't. Usually, I moved on to other SC's or MP's in those cases to avoid the fallout from rejecting them. It's a boost to your ego when a beautiful sex-worker asked you for a real date...makes you want to be single again. All in all, about 5 dancers and 3 MPA's have asked me out. Admittedly, I took one very special MPA out on a few dates and yes we had hot wild sex that I will never forget but sadly that ended quite awhile ago.

How many married or guys in serious relationships out there have gone through this and how far did you go in some cases?

 

[Quirt]

I think it's a phase we all get tempted into from time to time.

A small date can turn into a multi year relationship if you let it, GSS.
If you have the guts for this type of play, the rewards are very attractive. You just have to weigh you risks beforehand.

 

[mike1rotch]

I'm single, but no one knows about my hobbying

well, except for the SPs

 

[The Doctor]

Wow, that silence was defening. I was off in my other life and missed your post. In my other life I'm attractive, successful and incredibly rich.

 

[wrong hole]

...double life

...sometimes at night, i put on a cape and walk around downtown....telling anyone who will listen to me that i'm batman

 

[Maddog]

The Maddog is my alter ego. Thought I left it behind years ago. Everytime I think I'm out....

 

[mike1rotch]

Re: ...double life

...sometimes at night, i put on a cape and walk around downtown....telling anyone who will listen to me that i'm batman

does Batgirl do MSOG, DATY, BBBJ or any other terb language terms?

 

[xarir]

You must be confusing Batgirl with Intern Monica.

 

[mike1rotch]

seriously though, batman should have hit that

all those years in the cave with just robin and alfred hanging around... bad news for men who habitually wear tights

maybe that's why he had such a big belt? to conceal his "batarang"?

 

[fromaway]

G-Spot,

I suspect there are a lot of hobbiests out there that fit your criteria for a double life. None of my friends or colleagues, if I had any would know about my hobbying. I think I have even seen a couple SPs who aren't sure I hobby!

Would I hobby if I wasn't married? Probably not. I might do one of those "adult vacations" to the Caribbean just to experience it. Hobbying is many things to many people. For me I am sure part of the rush is the risk (although I minimize it) There's a risk of many things but Danger is my middle name...actually it's Matthew but I think that derives from the Greek word for Danger.

fa

 

[james t kirk]

G-spot,

With all of three posts to your name.

Are you another reporter? Me thinks you are.

 

[Top Jimmy]

Yes.

 

[G-Spot Seeker]

Yah Right, a reporter. That's a good one.

G-spot,

With all of three posts to your name.

Are you another reporter? Me thinks you are.

I'm not even close to being a reporter. Just writing this from my experience. Mind you, if I was a screen-play writer for movies, I'd have lots of stories to tell. It would be a romantic sex comedy with some drama. From hot sessions that went a little too far to clumsy moments on the massage table to romantic dinners with lots of sex. Also, all the different peculiar characters that each MPA and SP possesses would be portrayed...from the mind-f**kers who give out their cellphone#'s to the new sex-workers who use surgeon's gloves for hj's and run away from the release. It would be a very interesting realistic movie.

Another concept would be a reality TV version on the SEX channel. Just cover the faces and follow an MPA around in their real life and some sessions as well.

 

[Beretta]

I've had to hire a body double just to be sure the alternate life isn't found out.

 

[corena]

lol funny little story, a month or so ago, i was going out for dinner with one of my fav reg's, and a gentleman and his wife from my dates work.

We arrive and the friend of my date turns out to be someone else i have seen. Me being me, i pretended all was cool, and we sat down to eat. Later in the evening the friend came up to me and asked me if my bf knew what i did for a living....as I had been introduced to him that evening by my real name..

At this point i almost lost it and started laughing...but was able to contain it and muddle through the remainder of the evening wondering if i was about to be "outted" to my date....but of course, without admitting he knew me, it would be difficult to explain HOW he knew who i was ...

 

[goalie000]

Being married no one knows of my hobbying. If I was single I probably wouldn't do as much, as I would have the freedom to pursue other singles.
I have met some wonderful ladies though and would miss that.