Have a great time in the room, enjoy it, and savour it. Then leave it in the room when you walk out the door. If you can’t, don’t see her anymore.
Andddd i have a crush on my MPA
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Love is a stretch. When I caught a glimpse of her the first time it was definitely 'infatuation at first sight' though, which made me go back to see her. So infatuation is really all it is, not love lol
Infatuation is fine, it’s amazing TBH, if you realize and accept that it all it is.
Having been in the business years ago and listening to what the girls say about their clients when they're sitting around the lounge you never want to get personally involved. All you are is a source of money and sometimes amusement. So don't embarrass yourself and keep your distance trust me it will not end well if you don't
ya? AND???a part of me thinks we really hit it off during our session (maybe delusion lol) - it was my first time with her, although i saw her once before in passing when leaving after seeing someone else and she mentioned first that she remembered me from that interaction. She also shared her exact condo address but I didn't suggest we do anything or follow up on it.
i don't think I would ever tell her i have a crush on her because that's breaking boundaries.
talk me out of this nonsensical thinking. i did go through a breakup after 4 years not too long ago so maybe that's contributing to my irrationalness. the answer is that i should never go back to see her, right?
Some of these women we see are awesome so it's to be expected.
Honestly I’ve never genuinely understood this. I mean, kind of: I get it for a few different reasons. But personally at the risk of sounding like a snob I’ve kind of always found the women in this industry to be kind of…. Well…. Not exactly relationship material lol now Im a good customer and Im very respectful and I like to have a good time but outside of the bedroom I could NEVER honestly see myself sitting down at a restaurant or going out for a coffee or sitting down at a park with some of these ladies. Between the cell phone/social media addictions and the tattoos and trust issues lol I don’t know…. I don’t want to sound like I’m judging either. I know there are some smoke shows paying their way through medical school and shit but those are unicorns lol likewise, I never thought I’d find myself in a situation where I’d be the kind of person to cheat on his wife but I have to balance my biology with my sociology and the expectations of family and society and shit
Sitting around bitiching and gossiping about customers is pretty much a requirement for all service jobs with co-workers. Though, your point stands.
i haven't gone that deep to know about her personal habits and all, but I'm sure if they weren't desirable, it'd be a huge turnoff haha this is more a case of that unexplainable 'spark' that I feel every now and then towards a person that may only exist for me and isn't always reciprocated. One of those people you just look at once and become smitten by, and then the personality that follows matches your vibe.
Just don’t.
She’s baiting you.
Find someone else to see or get a gf,/fwb/sb.
She’s baiting you.
Find someone else to see or get a gf,/fwb/sb.
Amazing how powerful those little heads actually are
Fuck it, see what's there. She gave you her address for a reason. Maybe it was an opportunity you missed, maybe not. You will get hurt in a failed relationship with a civvie too. I saw a stripper pretty regularly, she was a smoke show. Then she got into escorting and I started sleeping with her. We hung out off the clock, went out for dinner etc. I had a huge crush on her. I would come over for a romp in the hay and then be her slave for the day, taking her here and there as she didn't have a car. I loved spending the time with her. Then it all ended. I was hurt. But I had a ton of fun during that time. Would do it again. If you can get past the fact that she is doing with other guys what she is doing with you, go along for the ride and have some fun.
"Gave me her exact condo address". Girls like that move all the time, and half the condo units in Toronto have multiple people renting just a room inside. Not exactly Classified Information these days....
It's not out of the ordinary to develop feelings for an mpa or sp your seeing. Your partaking in very personal intimate acts with them. If there making you feel that special there just great at their job and that's not a bad thing. Most ladies in the industry will never want a relationship outside of work with their clients but if you really like her no issues with shooting your shot. Just dont get depressed or sad when she will most likely turn you down lol. Another option is maybe try offering an sn arrangement to her. Some mpa's might be open to that kind of relationshipa part of me thinks we really hit it off during our session (maybe delusion lol) - it was my first time with her, although i saw her once before in passing when leaving after seeing someone else and she mentioned first that she remembered me from that interaction. She also shared her exact condo address but I didn't suggest we do anything or follow up on it.
i don't think I would ever tell her i have a crush on her because that's breaking boundaries.
talk me out of this nonsensical thinking. i did go through a breakup after 4 years not too long ago so maybe that's contributing to my irrationalness. the answer is that i should never go back to see her, right?
I fell in love with one. Ended badly. I really liked another one sexually. Which ended badly. Wondering about myself. Not particularly interested in having paid sex with strangers, but you take what you can get. I found that I became sexually "bonded" with a couple of ATF's and was quite happy with that. Oh well.
I fall for my SP or MPA all the time. Torrid affair. However, after an hour or two, we breakup. It's usually me, not her.
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It’s worth knowing that the hormones responsible for the feelings of sexual pleasure and orgasm are involved in feelings of attachment as well. The brain areas responsible for these feelings are also intimately intertwined. All this to say, if you don’t know a girl that well and after sex you feel like you are falling for her, you should view those feelings with a great deal of suspicion.
True, I am getting second-hand embarrassment just from reading this.
Tho we should keep in mind that science has shown that 90% of guys who refer to others as “simps” are actually active incels, or will soon become one.
