And Why do men have to make the first move?

[xix]

So this thread is currently active

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/girl-unloads-on-toronto-claims-it-totally-sucks.836444/

I grabbed @thumper18474 post comment last sentence.

I think this may have been covered.

Have any of you men ever been approached by a woman for a DATE? Not sex. I mean a genuine date for a relationship to marriage and kids ideally.
Or
Women have you ever approached a men for a date? Not sex. I mean a genuine date for a relationship to marriage and kids ideally.

3 choices for your votes only.

 

[Valcazar]

Have any of you men ever been approached by a woman for a DATE? Not sex. I mean a genuine date for a relationship to marriage and kids ideally.

Yes.
For dates and for sex.

Not anymore, I'm old and ugly.
But back in the day, sure.
I'd say most of my dates were made by women making the first move.

 

[xix]

Yes.
For dates and for sex.

Not anymore, I'm old and ugly.
But back in the day, sure.
I'd say most of my dates were made by women making the first move.

You must have been the 1% guy, 6'2", 7 packs and not rich.
Good for you.

Yes I have seen woman make move on my German guest. Accent and looks does pay off.

 

[Paprika]

If I had the good looks of Tom Cruise or Justin Beaver, of course I'd be approached by hordes of women and girls, but then you wouldn't find me on a service website.

 

[Valcazar]

You must have been the 1% guy, 6'2", 7 packs and not rich.
Good for you.

Yes I have seen woman make move on my German guest. Accent and looks does pay off.

No.
I'm very, very average. Even when I was young and not ugly I sure as hell wasn't hot.

Maybe Montreal girls at the time were more aggressive.

Women like dating and women like sex.
I must have seemed like a fun date at the time.

Sure, there were absolutely women who later told me I should have made a move and there were women I did make the move.
Maybe things have swung back massively the other way, but for a while there, more and more women were asking men out if they wanted to.

 

[rogerdodger]

Well when I was in my 20's and 30's I found it easier to meet and chat with women. Success rate at bars and social events was around 50% ( defining success rate as at least getting a phone number ) so after doing a bunch of crash and burns I got a little better ( not always ) at screening who was interested and who wasn't. Can't say that now that I'm older .

 

[dchoye]

Easier when I was younger I approach woman I’m interested in. Just like everyone I experience the range of “not interested” , “maybes” “yes”. The maybes turn out to be the best cause they got to know me and usually long term. The “yes” had these unrealistic expectations and leads to disappointments. Not interested hurts when I’m really interested but I respect that they are not wasting my time or hopes.

 

[bazokajoe]

I'm a man and have never been approached by a women. That's why I see escorts.
Yes I am not attractive. Just being honest unlike most people here.

 

[sirspankalot]

Never been approached. Average looking, but on the shorter side of the scale. My opinion/experience, majority of women looking for someone taller. Thanks Disney!

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[out4fun]

Twice. The first one I ended up marrying and then divorcing after decades- and then the second one I ended up marrying. I guess I’m pretty easy to pick up.

 

[BarryT]

A handful of times got woman appoached but all ended up nothing more than some causal chatting.

 

[New World]

Twice is 10 years I have been approached by a women. That's why I have to be proactive.

 

[escortsxxx]

Twice is 10 years I have been approached by a women. That's why I have to be proactive.

Prayer for full.. Lets go out. I usually miss the other versions. I want a girl just buys you a drink. I say thanks Make some conversation and never take it anywhere.. I think they want me to make the next move after that in retrospect. The ones you are obvious and actually ask you out .. There rare.

 

[jeff2]

If I had the good looks of Tom Cruise or Justin Beaver, of course I'd be approached by hordes of women and girls, but then you wouldn't find me on a service website.

If Tom Cruise or Justin Beaver were not rich and famous they probably would only be approached by hordes of grannies at best. By the way, isn't Cruise on the short side?

 

[IM469]

I wish it was different but let's face it - men's sexual libido is much higher than a women's. Women can be much more laid back and discriminating. Left unchecked we would probably have sex with five different women on our subway ride home. Can you imagine not having to pay for anything because the women have a dream of sex at the end of the night ? A woman comes in does your laundry, cleans the apartment and as she looks at you at the end of the night you smile and say 'thanks for everything ... isn't wonderful that we can be just friends ? '

 

[rhuarc29]

I've never gone hunting for a relationship, to be honest. All but one of my relationships stemmed from knowing her in some other way first. Hanging out in a shared friend group, most often, becoming friends ourselves, and then proceeding beyond that.
The one time it didn't go down like that, she approached me and asked me for a date.

 

[escortsxxx]

I've never gone hunting for a relationship, to be honest. All but one of my relationships stemmed from knowing her in some other way first. Hanging out in a shared friend group, most often, becoming friends ourselves, and then proceeding beyond that.
The one time it didn't go down like that, she approached me and asked me for a date.

You are a very special class. Most men Can never entertain friendship... It's only natural to want to be friends... But unless You keep it sexual it ends up in the friend zone. A small and very small subset of men have Continuous sexual energy So even if they make friends The women still have an aversion To the friendzone.

For merbs

Vous êtes une classe très spéciale. La plupart des hommes ne peuvent jamais entretenir une amitié... Il est tout à fait naturel de vouloir être amis... Mais à moins que vous mainteniez une dimension sexuelle, cela se termine souvent dans la zone d'ami. Un tout petit sous-groupe d'hommes a une énergie sexuelle constante, donc même s'ils se font des amis, les femmes ont toujours une aversion pour la zone d'ami.

 

[rhuarc29]

You are a very special class. Most men Can never entertain friendship... It's only natural to want to be friends... But unless You keep it sexual it ends up in the friend zone. A small and very small subset of men have Continuous sexual energy So even if they make friends The women still have an aversion To the friendzone.

For merbs

Vous êtes une classe très spéciale. La plupart des hommes ne peuvent jamais entretenir une amitié... Il est tout à fait naturel de vouloir être amis... Mais à moins que vous mainteniez une dimension sexuelle, cela se termine souvent dans la zone d'ami. Un tout petit sous-groupe d'hommes a une énergie sexuelle constante, donc même s'ils se font des amis, les femmes ont toujours une aversion pour la zone d'ami.

To be fair, most of my female friendships have turned sexual. I think it's less about simply being willing to be friends, and more that I'm a slow burn.
My current girlfriend I was friends with for almost three months before a private outing at my cottage exploded that into much more. I was enjoying some subtle flirting with her for weeks before that, but she is the one who made the big move. She admitted afterwards that the teasing was driving her nuts. So while being bold and confident can work wonders, so can driving her nuts if the right chemistry is there.

 

[escortsxxx]

To be fair, most of my female friendships have turned sexual. I think it's less about simply being willing to be friends, and more that I'm a slow burn.
My current girlfriend I was friends with for almost three months before a private outing at my cottage exploded that into much more. I was enjoying some subtle flirting with her for weeks before that, but she is the one who made the big move. She admitted afterwards that the teasing was driving her nuts. So while being bold and confident can work wonders, so can driving her nuts if the right chemistry is there.

Lol fairly rare From the studies on the subject. Without even doing so consciously You're seducing them. More common in Spanish cultures within the European sphere, Catholic Origins also has a push this way But that's only a hypothesis.

 

[Valcazar]

I wish it was different but let's face it - men's sexual libido is much higher than a women's.

Not in my experience.