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Well the GF & I have started talking about entering the final frontier.

Now she obviously has some concerns, will it hurt, and what happens if she has a bit of a mess after.

So my question to all you knowledgeable ones out there… What is the best position for the first time ( and I don’t mean trying to slip it in the back door while I am pounding away ) and what can she do to make sure things will be clean and not use a whole enema.

And yes there will be a lot of lube.

Thanks
 
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Isn't this discussion a little on the anal side.:eek:
 
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Well, for one thing unless she's got to take a major dump before hand, the most you'll encounter is a nugget on the enda. Just tell her to void an hour or so beforehand and you'll be fine.

There's a website around somewhere that tells you in great detail how to make a go of it. Be prepared however, sometimes no amount of prep or lube will fit your monster wiener in.

If you're average size or below, I've found the best position is a sideways doggie and let HER control how far and fast you enter her brown starfish.

But before any of THAT you should work up to it by starting off with a finger (or two) then a Butt plug and then a vibe that is about the same size as you.

Plus a couple or three drinks helps relax her a LOT.
 
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Anal sex is not painful if it is done correctly. It should not be "messy", if like tboy said, she goes to the bathroom before hand.

Make sure you warm her up a fair bit with lots of DATY. Get her good and excited... maybe slip her some digits (in the front) while your DATY as well... then when she's nicely aroused, place a finger at the back door, just on the surface and rub gently (you can also use your tongue if your into that...), but DO NOT enter yet! After a minute or two of teasing the entrance you will find she sort of "opens" up to you... then slip a finger in gently. Hold it in the for a minute until she gets used to something entering and otherwise exit door... After a few minutes of this... THEN she be ready for more!:eek:

There's a very good instructional DVD available that you may wanna try...

http://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Guide-Anal-Sex-Women/dp/1573440280

Patience is also VERY IMPORTANT, but after a while, your patience WILL be rewarded!

HAVE FUN! And PLAY SAFE!
 
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Because you can. Why do men do most of the things they do, because we can. We think with our dicks .. it's what most of us do. And btw Canada-man, try it, you might like it, feces exit path or not. And did you ever think maybe the woman likes it too?? You know there aren't a bunch or martyrs out there allowing guys to bang their assholes even though there is no peasure. Many women try it and have great orgasms.

But if you have a squeamish stomach stick to covered vaginal intercourse. Don't do DATY, cause they piss from down there. And don't kiss because there are tons of ugly bacteria in their mouths too. And don't suck on a nipple unless the woman has wiped it with a handy wipe, because it might have some germs too.
 
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as others have said. Lots of lube go slow, and only try after she is good and warmed up eve after a nice daty/o induced orgasm. Lots of ass massage, buttocks and anus before sticking anything in. Lots of lube. Best are silicone based ones. Start wilth a lubes finger or small buttplug. Then the best position for beginners is spoon- easiest for her to relax and control the pace. It will sting somewhat at first - if it does stop and let her get used to the feeling. Once she accompdates to you wacth out - she will likely love it. But remember she is not an sp/pornstar so you need to go at her pace.

A good site is "analsexyes.com"
 
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Anal sex can be enjoyable, there is a few thigns to pre-pare first Duckly Doolittle is a sex educator she has clips on youtube about anal sex,

http://www.youtube.com/user/duckydoolittle

At Seductions there is a brochure abotu it as well. Remember lots of lube, and make sure she is very relaxed and go in on an angle pointing down.

it might be a good idea for her to pratice on her own alone time. with butt plugs, and lubes she can get use to it.
 
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canada-man said:
not interested in anal sex and it is dumb to compare anal sex with kissing and sucking on a nipple
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My point is that all sex involves exchange of germs. You draw the line one place, others draw it elsewhere. For you to question why others draw their lines in a different place than you shows your provincial outlook. As for dumb, thanks for being the first to name call. I would have expected no less a response from someone with a clearly narrow-minded outlook on life.
 
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We are speaking of a woman that has not had anal before ever. THe first time of course is always going to hurt. Also she will not be feeling like doing anal the second or third time either because her ass hole will be hurting too much after the first anal encounter. She will have to continue with anal no matter how painful her ass is after that or she will lose it. As the saying goes use it or lose it. The case is you will have to get her in the right mental state of mind to accept anal the first few times. Do not lie to her her ass will hurt after her first anal sexual encounter and will hurt for the next few times too.

I recommend alcohol, lots of lube, compassion, carressing, foreplay and loving. Plus when she is in the right state of mind.
 
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My point is that all sex involves exchange of germs. You draw the line one place, others draw it elsewhere. For you to question why others draw their lines in a different place than you shows your provincial outlook. As for dumb, thanks for being the first to name call. I would have expected no less a response from someone with a clearly narrow-minded outlook on life.
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i did not call you dumb describing a comparison is not name calling
 
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