Am i doing something wrong? Why do i get ghosted

[terber12121]

Hey everyone, its the guy who can't decide again. I had decided on visiting gianna from all the stuff i posted before.
Now the problem, i keep getting ghosted by her. Like i will text hi, are you working/available. Then get a text back yes then when i ask for anything more like service rates location anything i get ghosted.I have tried with different numbers to no avail.
I use a text app for obvious reasons does that make a difference? Am i missing some etiquette or something? Its not just gianna, same happens with other SPs kaydence dont even responds ;-;

 

[anetel]

Yeah you didn't do enough reading. Granted the noob related sticky threads are a bit hard to find...

Some useful tips.

- Leolist is pretty much a meme. You are looking for hay in a needle stack.
- Independant can sometimes be more expensive for less service options.
- If you are the nervous type. Consider you might have performance anxiety. Aka EE.
- Don't wack off and don't look at porn. Just in case you have performance anxiety. You need to be able to get excited by the SP.
- Probably don't pick the first girl you see. So you don't end up TOFTT as your first time. For example look for a well reviewed girl with some history.
- Consider looking at the different agencies. There are a lot of girls to choose from. Take some time to search "Name @ agency" and read.

There are a few threads already. About other guys and losing their V-card. Assuming you are a V-card holder. Consider reading them also.

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[Kaydence]

Sorry if I don’t reply..
could be for a couple different reasons.
You are texting out side working hours.
Most SPs don’t reply after an hour has passed since we received the text and unable to reply for your discretion reasons.
I personally also won’t reply if a short amount of time has passed and you send multiple question marks… my biggest pet peeve.

Maybe try introducing yourself and send your questions and what you’re looking for in your first text.

 

[Gianna3774]

Hey everyone, its the guy who can't decide again. I had decided on visiting gianna from all the stuff i posted before.
Now the problem, i keep getting ghosted by her. Like i will text hi, are you working/available. Then get a text back yes then when i ask for anything more like service rates location anything i get ghosted.I have tried with different numbers to no avail.
I use a text app for obvious reasons does that make a difference? Am i missing some etiquette or something? Its not just gianna, same happens with other SPs kaydence dont even responds ;-;

Hey there hun, the only way I can see this happening is if I have a client at that time. after 30 minutes I will not answer messages in case u may have a significant other. Also depending on the time as I normally do not work late at all, I could have fallen asleep. I would suggest looking at the time I post my add. Your more likely to catch me when I post Looking forward to meet you

 

[Thumper4U]

It would be great if SP's would post in their add "Available until ?" It would save the guessing that goes on by the people who want to see them. Everyone knows when the add was posted but no one knows when you stop working.

 

[Gianna3774]

It would be great if SP's would post in their add "Available until ?" It would save the guessing that goes on by the people who want to see them. Everyone knows when the add was posted but no one knows when you stop working.

Unfortunately most guys dont read our adds and I myself do not have a fix schedule so I wouldn’t want to give out false information to mislead.

 

[RebelinBed]

Hey everyone, its the guy who can't decide again. I had decided on visiting gianna from all the stuff i posted before.
Now the problem, i keep getting ghosted by her. Like i will text hi, are you working/available. Then get a text back yes then when i ask for anything more like service rates location anything i get ghosted.I have tried with different numbers to no avail.
I use a text app for obvious reasons does that make a difference? Am i missing some etiquette or something? Its not just gianna, same happens with other SPs kaydence dont even responds ;-;

Just to throw in my two cents, it also helps if you add in some pleasantries with your text. A simple "Hey, how are you today? What are your rates and services please?" Can really go a long way. If you haven't heard back within 30-60 minutes, send a polite follow-up message "Hey, babe. Are you still available?". It doesn't take much. Also, if you know the SP has been well reviewed on here and don't have a negative opinion of it such as @Kaydence & @Gianna3774 (some SPs resent TERB) you can provide them your handle and that may help as well.

 

[Mikediamond]

Further, if you’ve been messaging the same ladies more than once with the same inquires but you’re not making an effort to book, they’ll eventually mark your number as “ignore”.

 

[terber12121]

@Gianna3774 @Kaydence That's really thoughtful on ur end, the thing about not messaging back if u see it after 30-60 mins. It has probably saved a lot of guys a painful situation here lmao.
I really never thought about the timing the ads are posted. I usually texted if the ads up for like 1-2 hr but my follow up text was definitely very oddly timed. I am definitely going to keep it in mind the next time, looking forward to meeting you beautiful ladies