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jalimon

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I always have ladies express surprise that I'm in my late 40's.

I have a dusting of grey hair at my temples and you know what? I'm not touching it! I've received so many compliments on it.
Grey hair and beard is a winner. Put on a smile and there you go you can attract like never before.

In my late 40's it was awesome. Getting mid 50's now is different. My mind is still 30 or younger, my body is somehow holding together but my sexuality is still stuck to girl in their 20's and it pisses me off. There is beautiful girl in their 50's...
 
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A lot of aging and how you look is to do with genetics. I am 82 and my friends and strangers, even my new lady doctor have told me I look 10 to 15 years younger. My father who died at age 86 also looked younger than his age. I don't smoke but I drink a little beer and at .east one bottle of wine a night. I still go to MPs once a month, strictly to semi legits as I have prostate issues and can't keep it hard, but I have never been refused by an mpa and I get the same kind of service as most of you guys at places such as Greenway, etc. When the day comes that I am refused service, I will quit. By the way, the best thing that helps is the low lighting in the rooms, LOL.
I was about a month ago with my dad and the dad of my ex, me and my ex still travel once a year with our kid, in mexico. I saw my dad, 83, and step dad, 85, play in the ocean together like 2 kids. I was thinking i most probably will not reach their age and fitness because i made different choices... i was and will remain a freak that drank and banged girls all the time. I did and still do what thrives me but seeing these 2 in the ocean gave me doubts.
 

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Genetics plays a big role.

One thing I do notice is how much smoking ages people.

Another challenge with aging is the effects of menopause on some women and ED in men. As you age, it is important to learn how to enjoy making love and or associating sex without physical intercourse.

There are several options such as oral, toys, mutual masturbation, etc. You can also learn to tap into your heart and mind to achieve that rush of sexual gratification, however you have to have the right partner to enjoy that experience.

One of the keys to aging though is to keep yourself engaged physically and mentally. Have a hobby or something to look forward to every day you wake up.
My god you do get it totally right here. The day you wake up without a meaning to look up to is the day you'll start to die.

I personally never used toy on girl. Nudity in itself i always found that boring. But a girl in a nice dress getting her body on me will receive massage from me that can last a full hour. Until my dick is in her pussy, dress still on, panty pushed on the side... grrrr the girl can be a 3 or a 10 i don't really give a fuck 😷
 
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Grey hair and beard is a winner. Put on a smile and there you go you can attract like never before.

In my late 40's it was awesome. Getting mid 50's now is different. My mind is still 30 or younger, my body is somehow holding together but my sexuality is still stuck to girl in their 20's and it pisses me off. There is beautiful girl in their 50's...
I'm at an age where I feel like a dirty old man if I look at any woman under the age of 25. With that said, there are a couple YouTubers who are in their early/mid-20's that I would go to bed with in a heartbeat if they went for older, slightly awkward but handsome guys in their late 40's. Particular Liz Sanchez, you can tell by her videos that she is in a freak in the sack! Great legs and you just know from the way she can do squats that she would ride you Asian cowgirl until you begged for mercy!
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ri6nrnZIjf8

I've noticed that there's also a dusting of grey hair in my pubic hair and I have been thinking of letting it grow back and maintaining a trimmed patch but that seems like too much work so I'm just going to keep shaving it!
 
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I alm 65 now. I was fine till 2 years ago now i have aggressive prostate cancer. I cant even dream of sex.
So sorry for your cancer i truly hope you will beat it.

Its really hard to read this i can't imagine how hard it must be to write it.

Younger i truly tough we were the master of our destiny. The older i get i understand its not the case 😔
 

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Hang in there. Did you get a baseline test years ago? I am 58 and never got a baseline test.
I am being seen at PMH. I was told it is low grade and active surveillance is required. Over the past 5 months, my PSA jumped to 14.6 and now the doctors are being active.
 

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Ghawar
...... With that said though - this hobby keeps me young along with
Interestingly all hobbyist will have to give up their hobby that keep them
young way before they kick the bucket (provided that they live to a ripe old
age of course). For me it would be my other hobbies like reading and listening
to music that I most likely will partake in steadfastly to my last day.
 
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I'd be interested to hear from SPs about what old ppl do when they barely can fuck if at all or if they are diagnosed.

Do they throw wild parties trying to burn through their money?

My school mate went on a cruise around the world with his SB when he was diagnosed with brain tumor...
 

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I am being seen at PMH. I was told it is low grade and active surveillance is required. Over the past 5 months, my PSA jumped to 14.6 and now the doctors are being active.
Too bad, that is high, maybe you should get a biopsy.
 
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I'd be interested to hear from SPs about what old ppl do when they barely can fuck if at all or if they are diagnosed.

Do they throw wild parties trying to burn through their money?

My school mate went on a cruise around the world with his SB when he was diagnosed with brain tumor...
One of montreal legend once told me a dick is a dick. What matters is that you smell good and are polite. That same girl decided to put on a schoolgirl outfit while i was taking an end of session shower. 2 minutes later the skirt was lift up, thong pushed aside and my dick in her pussy. Told her there was a limit to being polite 😷
 
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One of montreal legend once told me a dick is a dick. What matters is that you smell good and are polite. That same girl decided to put on a schoolgirl outfit while i was taking an end of session shower. 2 minutes later the skirt was lift up, thong pushed aside and my dick in her pussy. Told her there was a limit to being polite 😷
One of my favorites actually wore a school girl uniform to my hotel as a surprise. It was winter and her big coat covered it up. She opened her coat and said surprise.

I am not big on sex workers with age limits either on the lower or upper scale.

They are welcome to do that, but my personal opinion is that they are not going to be a favorite that you want to repeat again and again with.

I like the attitude of this lady you describe. A dick is a dick and she is going to serve it well, regardless of the age or any other characteristic of its owner.
 
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One of my favorites actually wore a school girl uniform to my hotel as a surprise. It was winter and her big coat covered it up. She opened her coat and said surprise.

I am not big on sex workers with age limits either on the lower or upper scale.

They are welcome to do that, but my personal opinion is that they are not going to be a favorite that you want to repeat again and again with.

I like the attitude of this lady you describe. A dick is a dick and she is going to serve it well, regardless of the age or any other characteristic of its owner.
Patron that girl I am talking about I am 100% sure you saw her a few times yourself ;) She told me you saw her. But then again things move on, we age, girls move on, and all of a sudden they are gone and we are left with only memory. But fucking good one 😷
 
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Patron that girl I am talking about I am 100% sure you saw her a few times yourself ;) She told me you saw her. But then again things move on, we age, girls move on, and all of a sudden they are gone and we are left with only memory. But fucking good one 😷
id rather be left with a memory of them young. Not many of them age well.
 

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James Gandolfini was 38 when he played Tony. i'm still in my 20's and i'm surprised you guys are still active at 60-70. Although i've had 2 girls point out that i was already hard out the shower, had me thinking of their older clients.
Hey i am now 54 and for some girls I am hard as a rock without viagra. For some, I am completely deflated my dick is down. You would think that what matters is their look. Nah what matter is their willingness to put my dick in their mouth Sorry to be so brutal I'm just being honest ;)
 
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jalimon

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id rather be left with a memory of them young. Not many of them age well.
What you wrote is hard but true. I must say women do not age well as men do. I know saying that will piss off many women.. You may say I am an ass hole saying that but i assume it. Girl tends to age wrong. Sorry.
 
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