Age Range

[tml]

Generally, 35 to 50. Better attitudes, no rush, good menus, reasonable prices, no rip offs, better conversation, and less judgemet of a client's less than ideal body.

 

[wonderingeye]

In my world, I wish to believe that I would have a chance in a social setting to hook up with the lady. I don't think any early 30 or younger would find me attractive. Nor have enough cash to have her turn a blind eye.

Closer to 40 and ideally above is my playground.

I can appreciate the beauty of youth; yet do so from a far.

 

[tml]

Ah yes, that “mature provider desperation” tends to favour the average hobbyist.

It's the hobbyist that's desperate.

 

[onomatopoeia]

 

[LC18]

However, we wont deny that the sex industry gets tougher as you age,

For whom? I’ve gotten treated better since I’m older and I’m getting more spoiled. Can’t speak for everyone but for me, it definitely didn’t get tougher

When I was young, men treated me like shit and would always try to underpay me or overstay

 

[wonderingeye]

Ah yes, that “mature provider desperation” tends to favour the average hobbyist.

It has been my personal experience that there is no desperation advantage specific to age in general. Within my playground, rates are not impacted, but some have grandfathered them. I am appreciate that gesture.

Actually, I know of a few mature ladies who have been able to increase their rates significantly since covid.

Cheers,

 

[pengwing]

no age range set in stone but usually i try for around 25+

 

[sosinful88]

the best doggy I had was with a 20 yr old. Honestly it didnt end well as the condom broke and we both freaked out and I lost contact with her after I took her to the pharmacy to get the emergency pill but it was the best experience I had.
She looked so young that she brought both her ID and passport to the hotel and I had to verify it myself. I really wish to meet her again but also 28-40 seem to be my nice spot

 

[wonderingeye]

Please do not reply to me LOL.

The fact that Im mid twenties and hot (and, unfortunately for hobbyists, incredibly smart) is why I can get away with doing “nothing” at premium pricing.

Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy giving erotic massages when my boundaries are respected, but being 26, smoking hot and actually having half a brain, i kinda feel like fssw is a last resort (in general—me personally? I’d roll over and die first).

No offence ?? I mean I’m not trying to get banned or jumped by the Johns, but seriously ???

When every other thread is a hobbyist talking about “I need ddg, early twenties, no budget” vs the other half, talking about how much “value” you can get from older providers, are you really oblivious enough to believe that the women on the lower end are dictating their own pricing?

Let’s do this, then. Hobbyist challenge: don’t tell me about the mythical “older sp whos increased her prices,” explain to me why “up to 25” is the most commonly toggled filter on classifieds?

I’ll be waiting ?‍↕

Darling, as much as I know as to what I like, is as much as I known as to what I don't.

I wish nothing but the best for you.

PS, guess replying to yourself asking not to reply means it is OK if I do. And I trust you can honour your wishes for me.

 

[sosinful88]

That’s a pretty disgusting story. Sounds like you either spooked her enough to block you or enough for her to leave the industry entirely. Thanks for sharing.

she was a sugar baby, and was new to this. I hope she stopped doing that lol its disgusting to sell ones body for money

 

[Dawatch]

Is it really though? It's just a job like any other what makes it more disgusting than shovelling pig shit all day?

 

[LC18]

I’m not waiting around for anything; I know a dying industry when I see one. I don’t mean to be rude or come off as condescending, but if you’re an older provider then I know you’re feeling the squeeze at the “upper end/aging out” category of the market which might be why my post upset you.

The fact is, older providers charge less per hour on average for the same or more services, and it’s pretty consistent across the board. Unless you’re one of the less than 15 “high end” older providers in the city, then you represent exactly what I’m talking about. Sorry ??‍

Mais meuf what? I charge more now than I did when I started and was a fresh naive 18.

I love being older, although I’m not young and won’t be until I’m 70 because black don’t crack.

You don’t sound very happy from the few posts I’ve seen from you, maybe you’d like to speak to a therapist or some friends. Stay safe ??

 

[3wire]

Well, this conversation devolved rather rapidly. Too bad. I was about to say "In praise of older women". Experience counts. While it may not be the profession of choice, like all choices, it behooves one to make the best of it. I prefer women who are a bit older. If I can make them laugh (usually happens just after I take my clothes off), I know I'm in for a good time. That's really all I ask. If I can make it seem affirming to them, then all the better.

 

[LC18]

@Cicithemasseuse.com I truly think it’s time for you to hang your thong and retire. You sound miserable and tired

Absolutely no one here is defending hobbyists or however you want to call them.

You took the time to go check my photos, how cute

I am struggling to understand where your hate and malaise is coming from to be honest. Hating on other girls instead of just focusing on your own path, making wild assumptions about older women working the industry.

I have multiple colleagues in Montreal all in their 40s-50s charging more than I do.

Is that your problem? Are you mad that they can, so you try to make it sound like every woman above 40 in this industry is desperate.

Like I said earlier, you sound miserable. It’s ok, sex work isn’t for everyone and I am sure you are capable of finding something more suitable and ideally enjoyable.

 

[tastingyou]

For whom? I’ve gotten treated better since I’m older and I’m getting more spoiled. Can’t speak for everyone but for me, it definitely didn’t get tougher

When I was young, men treated me like shit and would always try to underpay me or overstay

I think that generally speaking that older guys who enjoy the more mature providers make for the best clients. More likely to be repeaters and less likely to run out of money . And many of us try to make the SP's day better each and every time that they see us .

 

[The Options Menu]

And many of us try to make the SP's day better each and every time that they see us .

You might not be the best part of a given provider's day, but any client can at least try not to be the worst.

 

[SexB]

I'm at an age where I feel like a dirty old man if I look at any woman under the age of 25 so I prefer 30+.

Still, there is part of me that thinks it might be fun to see a younger woman and maybe fulfill that Silver Fox/DILF fantasty.

I jokingly say that if I ever get into adult content, my ultimate goal is to do a "Dad fucks the babysitter/girl acts on her crush on her besties' dad" video with Izzy Green.

 

[Dave in Phoenix]

Seeing women that are of an age where I could be their father gives me the jeebs so I tend to see women in their 40's or older.

Grandpa Dave here. Interesting thread. I am 79, but have no physical attraction to women anywhere near my age. I don't believe in the decades (I used to be younger), I have ever seen anyone over 35. As folks who read my reviews know, I am into sensual intimacy and authentic personality, not high-energy sex, and have always been this way.

I have never felt my elderness has hindered my zillions of wonderful experiences with sensual younger women (20-35). Fortunately, no health issues, which I am grateful for.

 

[tygaSTYL]

I like 'em a little more mature if I'm being real but I'm not really that picky