After 2 years finally got laid off of Ashley Madison
- Thread starter Eddie401
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I tried using a dating site once and it was a zoo. I quickly realized that a lot of fat girls were simplly lying about their weight so I put up a notice in my profile that I did not like fat so please be truthful about your weight instead of wasting both our time. That started a large input of abusive responses.
The one attractive date spent the whole time on how life is difficult when you are so beautiful. I heard about what a beautiful baby she was, all the guys always loved her, etc,etc. I think she was looking for a cheerleader for a partner as she began mid-age.
I found it much easier to meet nice girls socially, bars, parties etc.
BTW: If I was evil, I always thought what a great blackmail opportunity AM was. Isn't it a risk for married members ?
The one attractive date spent the whole time on how life is difficult when you are so beautiful. I heard about what a beautiful baby she was, all the guys always loved her, etc,etc. I think she was looking for a cheerleader for a partner as she began mid-age.
I found it much easier to meet nice girls socially, bars, parties etc.
BTW: If I was evil, I always thought what a great blackmail opportunity AM was. Isn't it a risk for married members ?
You're claiming a 40% success ratio on AM? Do you pick them up in your arms and fly them to your fortress of solitude to fuck them or do you give them a lift on your pet dragon?
Nice 2nd post BTW.
The member to which you refer has a long history of insulting other members. Don't place any weight on his insult but it's good that you made it clear to him (and maybe the mods) that his insult is neither welcome nor appreciated.
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus.
Her 'logic' might be this: she's missing a romantic connection with her husband. She just doesn't want to get laid or have only sex. You apparently weren't looking to romance a woman, just fuck her and leave her (or so she thought). So she realized she was wasting her time with you.
This is my educated guess.
I still go on their chat line (Lava Lounge) but there are women from various categories (not just for casual sex).
Some women are wackos. Haven't encountered any 'props' though but there are time wasters.
Good point. Some (many, most almost all, all?) women want to be emotionally satisfied as well.
These dating sites take time, money, patience and work!
Also, like Fuji says, when there are reports of phony profiles, it makes it even worse to use these sites.
Those numbers are highly .... highly impressive. Looks, age, communication being in my favour I still find it quite challenging. But then again I am just a baby.
Looks like Mr. Doyle should post a AM101 for the rest of us who are finding that the odds are definitely not in our favour.
I've used both AM and POF and although I was more successful on POF, my experience with OL "dating" sites is very similar. Lots of wack jobs on both sites, both female AND male (so the ladies tell me- e.g. TONS of douchebags.). I happen to get real lucky with AM though and found a NSA horny wife FB after about 4 months of painstaking searching... and I still see her about once a month now. She's married, but she's a horny minx and her hubby travels a fair bit. She'll send me a BBM, ask if I'm available and we go from there. Usually a nice dinner and then back to her place for "dessert".
I remember I once got contacted by a woman who wanted to be pleased orally. She had full consent from her husband... (so I was told anyway... I guess her husband was unable to for some reason or didn't know WTF he was doing- it was never exp**********d...). Anyway, we set up a meet and greet at a local pub, and if all went well, it would proceed back at their place. I may have "oversold" myself, since after we went back and forth a few times, I made the mistake of sending her a rather detailed and explicit "play by play" of what I planned for her and I guess her husband decided against it and cancelled the meet and greet the day of!
POF was better... met a number of ladies there, which led to some interesting encounters, and even 2 longer "relationships", but the "quality" is no where near that of an SP... hence the desire for me to still see the occasional "professional".
I remember I once got contacted by a woman who wanted to be pleased orally. She had full consent from her husband... (so I was told anyway... I guess her husband was unable to for some reason or didn't know WTF he was doing- it was never exp**********d...). Anyway, we set up a meet and greet at a local pub, and if all went well, it would proceed back at their place. I may have "oversold" myself, since after we went back and forth a few times, I made the mistake of sending her a rather detailed and explicit "play by play" of what I planned for her and I guess her husband decided against it and cancelled the meet and greet the day of!
POF was better... met a number of ladies there, which led to some interesting encounters, and even 2 longer "relationships", but the "quality" is no where near that of an SP... hence the desire for me to still see the occasional "professional".
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I am happily in a relationship at the moment, but I've been in relationships where I wanted out and went looking elsewhere. I know the dating scene is terrible and the married and looking for an affair pond is even smaller. I cringe when I think of POF. My clients know how to talk to me better than the guys on there. I was so disappointed by nearly every person I met on that site. They either lied to me about their work or living situation, their age or they talked to me like a pervert. As soon as they would get my number they would send me a cock shot... without me even asking or the conversation being even slightly erotic.
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Check this to keep topping up your credits when you run out.
The site will automatically charge your CC when @ 30 credits are left - kinda sneaky
I've had some limited success - but not renewing - very time consuming and $$
Check this to keep topping up your credits when you run out.
The site will automatically charge your CC when @ 30 credits are left - kinda sneaky
I've had some limited success - but not renewing - very time consuming and $$
