so he's challenging you to a fight in person?? I dunno if you would accept but I guess he is a nut if he's doing that...
affairs in the workplace
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i gave him some options that i doubt he likes that i will leave in private. i am not gonna bring it on here and end up getting banned again. i ain't worried about him. it's not him that is not right in the head though.
i told him from calgary i was going to texas most likely then back to toronto, so maybe we can schedule something then. i have to check my day planner, see who else i need to meet in parking lots across canada. i am a very busy man.
Bud. You arent making sense. Your reply is the answer to yOur own question. Why would she tell you? If you dont know the answer then you dont "need" to know. If you are super close with her, known her for a long time, then my suggestion might, might be legit. But otherwise, stay out of it. Unless you know something bad, ie really bad about the guy that will directly impact on her.
To put it differently. Imagine her thinking "i have this idea that dagwood is seeing escorts, and visiting escort related sites. I really need to know if he is, cuz if he gets caught life at work is going to be a hassle, how can i find out for sure if he is?"
See my point?
People have the right to private decisions- even if you think it is a bad idea, i you are a real friend you may offer advice, with the intent of sparing them harm, not yourself, but otherwise there are situations where you have no right to know thw details, and need to accept that.
Unfortunately he is skirting this issue, and it is key to his first ask for advice. And without the answer, our unanimous answer is that he doesnt need to.
got another message. i skimmed over it but he is mad at me 
wants to me to come meet him at the cannonball. something about cancer and he will listen to me while i talk. i am in toledo orgeon right now, so i doubt i will be back by sunday. so if anyone wants to go for me, feel free. cannonball in brampton he said.
wants to me to come meet him at the cannonball. something about cancer and he will listen to me while i talk. i am in toledo orgeon right now, so i doubt i will be back by sunday. so if anyone wants to go for me, feel free. cannonball in brampton he said.I say confront her with the fact that you know, then demand she blows you or you tell her old man what's up.
Oh, just caught up with the rest of the thread. Man this shit is lame.
Oh, just caught up with the rest of the thread. Man this shit is lame.
now i am a chicken shit coward cuz i won't hop on a plane and fly from oregon to toronto to repeat what i said here, then get back on a plane and fly back to oregon so i can go back to work and drive back to toronto lol. these pm's are classic and full of way to many comma's.
it was pointless the second he sent me a PM telling me he wants to meet me in a parking lot to punish me for my comments lol. shame i am in oregon or i would take him up on that. i will be home soon enough.
Just let it go. Sure his behaviour is stupid, but its not exactly relevant to the thread. Ignore him and he will go away.
well that would be the normal thing to do, but i am having to much fun watching him go into a full meltdown in my pm's. he is gonna drag me to hell and kick my ass. lol. he also wants a plane i am not gonna be on to crash.
wow,,kudos for distorting the truth, perhaps you should elaborate on how you plan on destroying my life from your pms to me?
your first post was insulting and disrespectfull. Its so easy to say shit behind a screen, and I offered you the opportunity like a man to say your stuff to my face without any note of violence,,no mention of parking lots or any shit even close to violence. Your response was to cripple me for life. Sounds like a typical thug to me,,,,
I think there is some emotional neediness going on here. Can't see any good reason to nose in on this woman, but sorry Dagwood, you just seem a little too needy and then evasive about the whole thing. For all we know she isn't having an affair and if you bring it up you'll look like your imagination has gone wild and she'll hate you for the wild insult. Don't wreck your workspace. Keep your mouth shut.
I had an affair at work with a woman who was my boss. Unless you get a crystal clear signal that she wants to talk to you about it, the kindest thing you can do is pretend you are clueless, and keep the secret.
