So I've only been at working as an SP for a few weeks, and have had little to no advice on what to wear out. I've been told wear something "nice" with little to no elaboration... I'm comfortable wearing pretty much anything, but normally I dress very casually so I pose the question, What would you consider most sexy for your SP to show up in/what would you most like to tear off of her?
Advice from the men?
- Thread starter Mkyla
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In my opinion...
Dress as you would to go to The Keg, and perhaps bring a change of clothes in a small bag. Most men do NOT wish to have attention drawn to themselves.
Dress as you would to go to The Keg, and perhaps bring a change of clothes in a small bag. Most men do NOT wish to have attention drawn to themselves.
Hmmmm... Took my wife to the Keg last night, (Or rather she took me...) She wore a black miniskirt, sexy shoes and a clingy black and white blouse... We just wanted to sit on the patio so the hostess (who was VERY cute) "sure, make your way out there and there are associates to help you find a nice table". So we walk out to the patio, and one of the servers looks at us, winks at Mrs. Cycleguy and says, "Hey, I like your outfit!" She ended up being our server as well... and she was GREAT! She got a very nice tip too!a 1 player said:
(Oh, and the misses decided to tease me all evening... she went commando!)
With the temps we've been having a nice summer dress (there's a thread on that), dress shorts and a nice blouse, and yeah, stay away from the CFMs or ho shoes.......we want sexy but conservative sexy.......something like you'd be going out on a first date with a guy you like but don't want him walking around with a boner all night lol.....
"Sexy" and "show up in" are two different things to me.Mkyla said:
-show up in;
It would not bother me, in fact I would prefer, if she was wearing blue Levi's, a nice tee or casual comfortable blouse(her choice) and shoes that her feet are comfortable in.
- Sexy;
Going out to dinner, then I would like to see her in a sexy dress and heels.
- tear off of her?;
Just for fun. A T-shirt or blouse.
Blend... I agree, if you go too far and it's the afternoon, you'll draw attention. Friday/Saturday night downtown, you can go a little more as all the ladies dress it up for the clubs.
The less attention, the better, and it's all about what's underneath... nice sexy lingerie.
Having said that you can look really, really sexy without going over-board. A hot woman in a business suit? Are you kidding me? I always imagine garter belt, stockings, sexy lacy bra under that outfit... and if the hair's up, I imagine letting it down.
The less attention, the better, and it's all about what's underneath... nice sexy lingerie.
Having said that you can look really, really sexy without going over-board. A hot woman in a business suit? Are you kidding me? I always imagine garter belt, stockings, sexy lacy bra under that outfit... and if the hair's up, I imagine letting it down.
I know you said guys, but from a girl...
Kaitlyn and I wear tight dark straight jeans, heels, and a black tank top during the afternoon with matching lingerie underneath. Nighttime we'll wear the same thing or a little black dress and heels.
No shoes with platforms, no gaudy makeup, no overperfuming, no tacky jewellry, no superlong colourful fake nails, no obvious extensions, nothing that the average woman of your age wouldn't wear.
If there's a clothing request its best to do it in the bathroom at his place. You don't want to be flagged as someone that needs to be stopped and talked to when you walk into the hotel and you definitely don't want to raise eyebrows if you're visiting his house.
Kaitlyn and I wear tight dark straight jeans, heels, and a black tank top during the afternoon with matching lingerie underneath. Nighttime we'll wear the same thing or a little black dress and heels.
No shoes with platforms, no gaudy makeup, no overperfuming, no tacky jewellry, no superlong colourful fake nails, no obvious extensions, nothing that the average woman of your age wouldn't wear.
If there's a clothing request its best to do it in the bathroom at his place. You don't want to be flagged as someone that needs to be stopped and talked to when you walk into the hotel and you definitely don't want to raise eyebrows if you're visiting his house.
It would be difficult for me to recommend what you should or should not wear. Makes it tougher when I don't know what you look like.
To me, a person's attire represents their personality and represents who they are. So wear what you like and what's comfortable for you. IMO, you'd probably look more attractive wearing something you enjoy wearing as opposed to wearing something you're not comfortable wearing. Also, wear something that compliments your body style as well.
I can understand the "work" clothing vs the "after hour party" clothing vs the "casual weekend" clothing. But I think one of the great things about your line of work is you have a very relaxed dress code. Well, to a degree anyways. As long as you don't attract unwanted attention, you can pretty much wear anything you like.
However, if you prefer a specific recommendation... Although all kinds of girls in all kinds of clothing can catch my attention, I've noticed that more often than not, nice girls in a cami and jeans seem to catch my attention a lot. Sundresses are really nice too.
This is just a suggestion for a casual clothing line but I know there's a lot more out there to choose from:
http://www.abercrombie.ca/webapp/wc...toreId=11306&catalogId=10901&categoryId=12203
To me, a person's attire represents their personality and represents who they are. So wear what you like and what's comfortable for you. IMO, you'd probably look more attractive wearing something you enjoy wearing as opposed to wearing something you're not comfortable wearing. Also, wear something that compliments your body style as well.
I can understand the "work" clothing vs the "after hour party" clothing vs the "casual weekend" clothing. But I think one of the great things about your line of work is you have a very relaxed dress code. Well, to a degree anyways. As long as you don't attract unwanted attention, you can pretty much wear anything you like.
However, if you prefer a specific recommendation... Although all kinds of girls in all kinds of clothing can catch my attention, I've noticed that more often than not, nice girls in a cami and jeans seem to catch my attention a lot. Sundresses are really nice too.
This is just a suggestion for a casual clothing line but I know there's a lot more out there to choose from:
http://www.abercrombie.ca/webapp/wc...toreId=11306&catalogId=10901&categoryId=12203
I agree with you except on the nighttime dress and heels part. Unless this is requested from me, I generally just wear black jeans/dress pants, a cute top and runners or dress shoes. My goal when dressing for O/C is to be comfortable and I am most comfortable in pants. While I may look appealing in a mini skirt and heels, I exude ~ UNCOMFORTABLE~ energy - and that is not a good thing.Hiding said:
lol...That reminds me of the first OC that I did. I arrived at the location in a business casual pinstriped one piece dress and heels and realized that I had to walk up a set of super steep stairs to get to the entrance of this gents house (in the rear). Needless to say, I was not happy. lol... I removed my shoes and walked up the stairs in my nylons. The client laughed when I decided to ditch the shoes since he was watching from the doorway. I guess I had a GND/GFE moment...lol. From that moment, I said to myself: Dress comfortably.
So:
- wear something casual and comfortable. A nice pair of jeans and a blouse/top can be sexy. Don't go for super deep plunge tops that show off navel cleavage...lol..
- I agree with Becky! Change into something sexier once you've arrived. It saves a lot of heartache.
....and yet, I have this vision in my head of a sexy redhead, hair loose, wearing snug white jeans, wide black belt, and canary yellow tank top just tight enough to distinguish a pair of lovely round nipple rings hidden seductively just beneath the brushed cotton fabric...slight heels and dark sunglasses to hide her bedroom eyes, and just enough lip gloss to reflect the setting sun...but hey, that's just me.Hiding said:
i have to agree...garter belt, stockings, sexy lacy bra under that outfit but a normal day dress or suit for the world to see.moresex4me said:
i have made specific clothing requests before but the lady changed in the bathroom.---no one wants a scene in a hotel lobby!
If you are just going to the outcall, not dinner or anything, then I think a dressy casual is appropriate, nothing flashy. IMHO
big thank you to everyone!
I really appreciate the feedback from everyone!! I had no idea it was even appropriate to wear pants :O I've pretty much been keeping it sexy but not slutty, but I had no idea if I was doing it wrong since I hadn't met any other girls. So thanks again to everyone!!!!
I think an upgrade of my wardrobe is in order...
I really appreciate the feedback from everyone!! I had no idea it was even appropriate to wear pants :O I've pretty much been keeping it sexy but not slutty, but I had no idea if I was doing it wrong since I hadn't met any other girls. So thanks again to everyone!!!!
I think an upgrade of my wardrobe is in order...
This may have been posted before but a biggie for me if it the bra and panties match. It's not a deal breaker or anything but it is a nice touch if they do......(kind of like when you see a guy and his socks don't match lol)
