Advice for Hobbyists

[justsayso]

Advice for Hobbyists​

NO SECRETS

Every hobbyist should know that what you say in private to an sp will be spoken again to other SPs. SPs are friends with each other - they network with each other and share information. If you think you can lie about escort B when speaking to escort A, think again. The two escorts will talk about you and nothing will be secret for long. This is not rude behaviour on the part of SPs, it is natural to network and every industry operates under the same circumstances.

EVERY SP HAS FRIENDS

I see some hobbyists attack certain sps and it is easy to tell that the hobbyist has an unfair/untrue beef with that particular sp. Remember though, every SP has hobbyist friends who will come to her defense and attack you if necessary. If you think these ladies are weak and defenseless, think again. You won’t be able to defend yourself against 5 or 6 ‘white knights’ that will come to the aid of the SP if and when she is unfairly attacked. Therefore, be truthful and non-combative in all your dealings with SPs. Yes, you can still give a negative review, but keep it honest and don’t invite attention simply because you are trying to target an SP and hurt her business. In the end, your efforts will cause you more harm than it will the SP.

NO SHOWS COSTS US ALL

I can’t stand guys who call an SP and make fake appointments. This costs the good hobbyists money because we have to pay for the bad behaviour of the no shows. The SP, when determining her price, will factor in all the parameters she has to deal with throughout the month, and of course, will consider how much time she spends dealing with no shows and good clients. The SP will then charge an average rate to make everything worthwhile for herself. If there weren’t bad clients, SPs would probably drop their prices by 10 - 15%. Or, new SPs would enter and other SPs wouldn’t retire if there weren’t so many dick-heads they had to contend with. The additional service providers would have a positive effect on rates for us guys. So, when you book and don’t show, every hobbyist loses, not just the girls.


WATCH THE LANGUAGE

When you are calling to make an appointment with an SP, she doesn’t want to hear you talk X-rated. Think about all the guys who call the typical SP in any given day. Do you think she wants to hear explicit talk time and again, all day long, especially considering more than half the guys are either just ‘kicking the tires’, or likely to not show anways? No! So, watch the lanuage, talk to the SP how you would talk to any other girl and you will get much farther. And remember, no lady, no matter SP or not, likes explicit talk as much as us guys. Yeah, us guys would love to hear a lady call us and say all sorts of dirty stuff - we are guys with dicks! But, again, women are different and they generally don’t like the explicit talk. During the appointment, when you are paying them for their time, then yes, ask for the dirty talk. But, on the phone when making the appointment, keep it respectful and clean.

SPS WANT TO MAKE MONEY

Most SPs didn’t come from a hard life, nor were they abused or riddled with addiction. The majority of SPs I have met do this type of work because they want to make alot of money as quickly as possible. So, remember that when you wonder why your favourite girl isn’t interested in dating you outside her job. Remember that when you have spent thousands on a particular SP and it all ends with little to show - on your end. It is not the fault of the SP - she can’t love every man she sees. Loving each client would be mentally impossible and exhausting if she tried. The SP wants a good relationship with each of her clients because such a positive standing is good for both the SP and the client. People generally want to have good relations with others - regardless of the industry - so it is natural for an SP to show love and affection to her many clients. But, this doesn’t mean she can or wants to be your life-long partner. I know it is tough to not fall in love with your favouirte SP, but remember, in the end, it is impossible for an SP to show true love to every client she sees. The human mind isn’t set up that way.

 

[joe_blown]

Thank you for the good advice.

 

[Carmen Jonesxo]

Advice for Hobbyists​

WATCH THE LANGUAGE

When you are calling to make an appointment with an SP, she doesn’t want to hear you talk X-rated. Think about all the guys who call the typical SP in any given day. Do you think she wants to hear explicit talk time and again, all day long, especially considering more than half the guys are either just ‘kicking the tires’, or likely to not show anways? No! So, watch the lanuage, talk to the SP how you would talk to any other girl and you will get much farther. And remember, no lady, no matter SP or not, likes explicit talk as much as us guys. Yeah, us guys would love to hear a lady call us and say all sorts of dirty stuff - we are guys with dicks! But, again, women are different and they generally don’t like the explicit talk. During the appointment, when you are paying them for their time, then yes, ask for the dirty talk. But, on the phone when making the appointment, keep it respectful and

THIS.

This one should go without saying but I think sometimes guys get carried away. Dirty talk during a session is hot. Dirty talk over text or phone call can be creepy and not cool. I recently lost a client that I had seen for years because I finally got the guts to speak up and ask him to stop texting me explicitly. I put up with it for 3 years politely but I had finally had it one day. I politely told him I enjoy him in person but do not enjoy his texting style. Unfortunately he got offended and decided he would no longer see me. I don't look at it as a loss as it's important to stand up for yourself and I really did not enjoy it. So fellas, save the dirty talk for the bedroom unless you know a certain provider welcomes the explicit talk out of the bedroom.

Cheers!

 

[Titalian]

Advice for Hobbyists​

NO SECRETS

Every hobbyist should know that what you say in private to an sp will be spoken again to other SPs. SPs are friends with each other - they network with each other and share information. If you think you can lie about escort B when speaking to escort A, think again. The two escorts will talk about you and nothing will be secret for long. This is not rude behaviour on the part of SPs, it is natural to network and every industry operates under the same circumstances.

EVERY SP HAS FRIENDS

I see some hobbyists attack certain sps and it is easy to tell that the hobbyist has an unfair/untrue beef with that particular sp. Remember though, every SP has hobbyist friends who will come to her defense and attack you if necessary. If you think these ladies are weak and defenseless, think again. You won’t be able to defend yourself against 5 or 6 ‘white knights’ that will come to the aid of the SP if and when she is unfairly attacked. Therefore, be truthful and non-combative in all your dealings with SPs. Yes, you can still give a negative review, but keep it honest and don’t invite attention simply because you are trying to target an SP and hurt her business. In the end, your efforts will cause you more harm than it will the SP.

NO SHOWS COSTS US ALL

I can’t stand guys who call an SP and make fake appointments. This costs the good hobbyists money because we have to pay for the bad behaviour of the no shows. The SP, when determining her price, will factor in all the parameters she has to deal with throughout the month, and of course, will consider how much time she spends dealing with no shows and good clients. The SP will then charge an average rate to make everything worthwhile for herself. If there weren’t bad clients, SPs would probably drop their prices by 10 - 15%. Or, new SPs would enter and other SPs wouldn’t retire if there weren’t so many dick-heads they had to contend with. The additional service providers would have a positive effect on rates for us guys. So, when you book and don’t show, every hobbyist loses, not just the girls.


WATCH THE LANGUAGE

When you are calling to make an appointment with an SP, she doesn’t want to hear you talk X-rated. Think about all the guys who call the typical SP in any given day. Do you think she wants to hear explicit talk time and again, all day long, especially considering more than half the guys are either just ‘kicking the tires’, or likely to not show anways? No! So, watch the lanuage, talk to the SP how you would talk to any other girl and you will get much farther. And remember, no lady, no matter SP or not, likes explicit talk as much as us guys. Yeah, us guys would love to hear a lady call us and say all sorts of dirty stuff - we are guys with dicks! But, again, women are different and they generally don’t like the explicit talk. During the appointment, when you are paying them for their time, then yes, ask for the dirty talk. But, on the phone when making the appointment, keep it respectful and clean.

SPS WANT TO MAKE MONEY

Most SPs didn’t come from a hard life, nor were they abused or riddled with addiction. The majority of SPs I have met do this type of work because they want to make alot of money as quickly as possible. So, remember that when you wonder why your favourite girl isn’t interested in dating you outside her job. Remember that when you have spent thousands on a particular SP and it all ends with little to show - on your end. It is not the fault of the SP - she can’t love every man she sees. Loving each client would be mentally impossible and exhausting if she tried. The SP wants a good relationship with each of her clients because such a positive standing is good for both the SP and the client. People generally want to have good relations with others - regardless of the industry - so it is natural for an SP to show love and affection to her many clients. But, this doesn’t mean she can or wants to be your life-long partner. I know it is tough to not fall in love with your favouirte SP, but remember, in the end, it is impossible for an SP to show true love to every client she sees. The human mind isn’t set up that way.

No Secrets - Yes there are freinds between sps. but there are also rivals, especially if one sp finds out her friend has been seeing one of her good clients.
Like any other service industry, its very competitive. And all about money. Don't kid yourself.

Every sp has friends - Yes this is very true in negative reviews. These white Knights come out of nowhere. And sometimes the white knights might even be,
the administrators of this board when they decide to delete a certain thread.

No Shows - I find nothing more frustrating, than getting to an incall where by the sp is not responding to the appointment. Please show some consideration for them as well, If you can't make it let them know before hand!!!

Watch The Language - Never understood why guys do this????

Sps Want to make money - Like I said above.. Its all about money!!!! So stop dreaming! Just enjoy the moment.

 

[Viggo Rasmussen]

Not just escorts - it comes down to basic respect that we should have for everyone.