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Advice : Do not marry a stay at home mom.........................Agree or Disagree.
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Agreed.In this day and age you need 2 people working to even afford a new home etc., Plus having a successful career and being financially independent is definitely fulfilling which makes for a happier person and therefore a happier marriage (provided they are not stuck at work for 20 hours a day).
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I don't agree... There are many Stay-At-Home-Moms/Wives that can separate the roles... Looking after the house, tending to the children, planning parties, etc. as the job and then being a wife at night.
Both the Man and Woman have to realize and appreciate what the other is doing... Successful power couples do. Behind every successful man is a good women has a lot of truth to it. The women are getting things done and the family is advancing.
Both the Man and Woman have to realize and appreciate what the other is doing... Successful power couples do. Behind every successful man is a good women has a lot of truth to it. The women are getting things done and the family is advancing.
There is truth to what she says about couples drifting apart with the wife focusing only on the children and the husband spending more and more time at work. My situation was that my wife could only aspire to admin type of work which would barely cover childcare for the children if she took a job. It was tough for me as the sole income for the family for about 12 years when she stayed home.
We drifted apart and I resented her in the early years for not contributing financially to the house hold. It was hard. Seemed more money going out than coming in year after year. I know it’s me who wasn’t recognizing her contribution being a stay at home mom and I could have been more supportive.
When the children were able to go to school on their own, my wife went back to work for the social aspects of work…ie being with adults and talking about adult stuff. The extra income helps and her income pays for university for the kids and we no longer worry about the next paycheque. Our relationship is much better as we do trips and dinners out together catching up on us, the time that we missed when all we did was focus on the children the first 15 years of their lives.
We drifted apart and I resented her in the early years for not contributing financially to the house hold. It was hard. Seemed more money going out than coming in year after year. I know it’s me who wasn’t recognizing her contribution being a stay at home mom and I could have been more supportive.
When the children were able to go to school on their own, my wife went back to work for the social aspects of work…ie being with adults and talking about adult stuff. The extra income helps and her income pays for university for the kids and we no longer worry about the next paycheque. Our relationship is much better as we do trips and dinners out together catching up on us, the time that we missed when all we did was focus on the children the first 15 years of their lives.
Don't get married period. It's a bad deal for men
I think while the kids are young it's a good idea to have a full-time mother around her. My ex-wife and I both had successful careers and made a shitload of money but once the kids came into the picture she decided to stay home and when the kids went to school she volunteered at school. But I in this day and age to maintain a decent lifestyle both have to work.
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You live in an detached house in an upper-class neighborhood.
You are busy during the night on your job. You either have no kids
or they are in school during the day. What do you expect her to do
to keep herself occupied while you are away? Reading, writing or
shacking up with the postman or the plumber? You must see to it
that she is not to be left idle at home most of the time alone.
You are busy during the night on your job. You either have no kids
or they are in school during the day. What do you expect her to do
to keep herself occupied while you are away? Reading, writing or
shacking up with the postman or the plumber? You must see to it
that she is not to be left idle at home most of the time alone.
Having a stay-at-home spouse, man or woman, is the ultimate luxury.
Women cant do it all—raising kids while working full time and then trying to make husband happy is extremely exhausting. If she has to do all that she will come to resent you eventually. I think division of labour should be a thing again especially if kids are involved.
Why are you taking advice from Richard Cooper who have multiple failed relationships with women?
If you add up the cost of childcare, nanny, maid, tutor, driver, personal chef, personal shopper, etc it ends up being more than most make. The sad reality is that women are expected to work AND do most of these things. It’s bullshit
The average man saw his real earnings/pension coverage starting to go down way back in the 1980s while the real earnings/pension coverage of the average women was rising at the same time(factories automate or outsource, government offices open).
So the whole thing is impossible for most people. I do however know a guy who works at a car assembly plant and his wife stays home with the kids.
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All while being told she doesn’t do enough. She doesn’t make enough money, she doesn’t give enough sex, she doesn’t have the house magazine ready.
Men do all these things too. Who told you only women are expected to do housework ?
Even when men do housework, women have the burden of emotional labour. We are trained from birth to do those kinds of things (just look how gendered toys still are, for example) It was literally only a few generations ago women weren’t even expected to work, society just doesn’t evolve that fast. Is it getting better? Sure. But it’s still got a long way to go.
Its not like men do not put in emotional labor. Women dont do more or less than men in a strong marriage. There is this inflated narrative of women being the supreme sacrificers and men just enjoying the ride, which is utter nonsense.
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