Every so often someone comes into our lives that changes the way we think and feel about the things in our life that we probably take for granted. For me Adele was that type of person. I’ve been hobbying for quite a few years. In that time, I’ve met dozens of incredible women with whom I’ve made a strong connection in the context of an MP room (and a few in the “real world”), but I can honestly say I’ve never met anyone as special as Adele.
I first met Adele late last year while she was still working at the MP in the east end. Right from the start I found her to be everything you’ve already read about her: beautiful beyond belief, engaging, warm, kind, generous, extremely sensual, funny, and intelligent. These are attributes I covet in a MPA (obviously), and taken as a set they would have brought me back to see her on a semi-regular basis. However, it was her ability to make me feel like I was the only person in her world, and her desire to do everything she could to make sure I enjoyed 100% of my time with her (which, in my experience, is rare from someone as beautiful as her), that turned what would normally be a semi-regular visit into a weekly habit.
When I heard the news in February that her and the MP had parted ways I was beyond disappointed. I don’t want to get too melodramatic (too late…I know) but I felt like there was a hole in my life. What feeling was going to replace the excitement of anticipating my time with her at the end of the week? How was I going to find the same connection and experience with someone else when I had never experienced it in all those MPA visits prior to meeting Adele? I tried to fill the hole by going to see a couple of other well reviewed MPAs, and as nice as those experiences were I left feeling unsatisfied. I finally came to the conclusion that she was going to be completely irreplaceable, so I stopped trying. As a result, my long time, 2-3 visit/month MPA habit completely stopped; it's now been over a month since I visited a MP. It’s interesting (to me anyway) how getting to spend a relatively small amount of time with someone like Adele altered my perspective on something I had always taken for granted (my MPA visits) and had actually changed the way I felt about them.
Now that she’s coming back to Ottawa I’m filled with feelings of uncertainty and anticipation. The uncertainty isn’t from wondering if time with her would live up to my memories of our previous experiences, because I know it would, instead it comes from not knowing whether or not I’m still worthy of however much of her time she is willing to grace me with (if any).
If you do give her the information she’s requesting (which I have no problem doing), and are lucky enough to be able to spend some time with her, please treat her with the respect and adoration she expects, desires and deserves and she will do the same for you. I doubt very much that you’ve ever met anyone as amazing as her and I doubt you ever will. And don’t take your time with her for granted because it could disappear when you’re least expecting, like it did for me, and next time we might not be so lucky to get a second chance (and only time will tell if my luck has already run out).
