About a boy...

Lou Siffer

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A young boy was out one day with his mother.

The boy had recently mastered the art of walking and had progressed to the point where he could run and jump. He was happily running through the local mall, laughing and playing, while his mother watched. He stumbled and fell a couple of times but that seemed normal, given that he was still learning.

A few days later the boy was a little grumpy. This was unusual for this boy. He was almost always happy and loved to laugh but everyone gets a little grumpy sometimes.

After a couple of days, the grumpiness turned to sleepiness and a loss of appetite, so his mother took him to the doctor. The doctor diagnosed the boy as having a cold and prescribed plenty of rest and fluids.

His mother followed the doctor’s instructions but the condition worsened. That night, the boy started vomiting so his mother took him to the local emergency room.

The doctor on call had the boy rushed to Sick Kids, where he was diagnosed with a brain tumor.

The tumor was removed and chemotherapy treatments were undertaken.

The boy made wonderful progress and was able to start back on the road of learning to walk and talk and all the things that little boys do within the limits of the side effects that come with brain surgery and chemotherapy.

One year later, at one of his many checkups, it was discovered that the tumor was back.

This time, the tumor was inoperable. The boy died six weeks later.

That boy was my nephew.

His mother and father are two of the bravest people I have ever known.


If this story touches you at all, I would ask that you do the following…

1. Tell your children you love them everyday. Never take them for granted.
2. Live your life to the fullest. Find time to do the things you enjoy and spend time with the people you love.
3. Treat people with respect and have some tolerance for their actions. You never know what story lies behind what you see.
4. Make a donation to a worthy cause.

There are many worthy causes out there and I don’t mean to promote this one above any others. I give to many charities. This just happens to be one of my favourites for obvious reasons.

Each year, I get involved in something called Megan’s walk. This charity raises money for brain tumor research. You can find out more about it and make donations here:

http://www.meaganswalk.com/

I have seen, first hand, what the wonderful people at Sick Kids can do and the impact they can have on the lives of the children and their families. I don't think you can put your money anywhere better.
 
Lou

The loss of a child is never something we can accept. God calls the best to His side and look down upon their families with pride.


I wish there were something that could have been done for him.
 
Super post Lou.

Not a downer at all.

You remind us of what is important.

I feel the same way.

Someones' death is meant to remind us of our mortality.

There is more to life then showing off your wit in cute postings.

Now, get out there, be nice to people, grab life by the gonads and do not let go!
 
Yes, sick kids is a truly wonderful place. They saved my second sons eye and he has not had a problem since. They had great follow up care. I have been there many times with my sisters daughter who has chrones and everytime she goes back they have everything there for her seeing as her stays are typically long stays each time. Case and point there is many problems inflicting children and sick kids is a great place to send your money.

It was bad enough that day when I thought my son would lose his eye. I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child. God Bless
 
Outstanding post Lou

This is precisely why:

1. I DO tell my children I love them everyday. Without fail.
2. I try to live my life to the fullest. Precisely why I cycle (with my children on MANY occasions), go hiking and camping and take canoe trips with my kids. (Amongst a multitude of other things.)
3. My motto in life is (and I know I have posted this several times before- but it bares repeating) something my Mom taught me as a young boy- "Treat people as you yourself want to be treated."
4. As you all know... I support cancer research and the LiveStrong foundation.

I know we get carried away sometime with our random silliness here in the lounge, but we are all human beings, and it is very important to stop the nonsensical on occasion for these more serious and heart touching issues.

Thanks Lou! :)

(I can't wait to see what you have in store for us for # 1000!)
 
Thanks for the comments. It's still very tough to talk or write about that loss. It's also hard to edit with tears in your eyes. But if, by posting this, someone looks at their life a little differently or makes a contribution to a good charity, then its worth it.

Cycleguy007 said:
(I can't wait to see what you have in store for us for # 1000!)
1000 went to my first and probably last "change a letter"... seemed appropriate somehow.:D
 
Lou Siffer said:
Thanks for the comments. It's still very tough to talk or write about that loss. It's also hard to edit with tears in your eyes. But if, by posting this, someone looks at their life a little differently or makes a contribution to a good charity, then its worth it.
Thanks Lou, for the reminder of what our time in this world is really about ... the gift of life.

1000 went to my first and probably last "change a letter"... seemed appropriate somehow.
I would have preferred a review ... Maybe Noir gets tired of reading them, but I don't. ;)