A weirdo's weird thoughts.

[tilting]

- For the client, a good session is based on the fantasy of an attractive provider who is also a nice person. For the SP, a good client is a generous person who is respectful and does not push limits. Unfortunately, we (clients and SPs) are all human and nobody is perfect. The more we reveal about ourselves the further the fantasy gets diluted. Deviating from our client and SP personas on the social media and opining unreservedly more often than not reveals our flaws and makes us less attractive. The fantasy suffers.

- Reviews are helpful. I have learnt to pay attention to what is said in reviews. After hobbying for almost 10 years I have now learnt to appreciate the value of information that is conveyed by omission of some specifics in reviews. Pay attention to what is not said in reviews.

- I live in the maritimes where quality providers are few and far in between. Saw a provider in Toronto a couple days back. The session was so good that I may actually have to stop hobbying because I will mentally compare all future sessions to the one I just had, and will find them lacking in comparison. So TO hobbyists, please realize what a broad range of quality providers you have in your city you fuckers !!!

*sigh*

 

[Mr Bret]

As you say, reviews are helpful.
Are you going to provide us with a helpful review of the gem you saw the other day so we all might benefit from one of her quality sessions?

 

[gtx780]

As you say, reviews are helpful.
Are you going to provide us with a helpful review of the gem you saw the other day so we all might benefit from one of her quality sessions?

+1000:thumb:

 

[Frankfooter]

So TO hobbyists, please realize what a broad range of quality providers you have in your city you fuckers !!!

*sigh*

I've travelled around the country enough to agree.
We've got it good, well, we've got it amazing.
Great ladies with great pricing.

 

[harwell1690]

Don't get too self-satisfied. It can certainly be suggested that Montreal is better than Toronto, at least on price.
Still, I love women in general, and there are definitely beautiful and sexy women in Toronto. I am thinking of one in particular right now. No, two. No, three. (Well, more...)
I have written reviews.
You are lucky!

 

[harwell1690]

- For the client, a good session is based on the fantasy of an attractive provider who is also a nice person. For the SP, a good client is a generous person who is respectful and does not push limits. Unfortunately, we (clients and SPs) are all human and nobody is perfect. The more we reveal about ourselves the further the fantasy gets diluted. Deviating from our client and SP personas on the social media and opining unreservedly more often than not reveals our flaws and makes us less attractive. The fantasy suffers.

- Reviews are helpful. I have learnt to pay attention to what is said in reviews. After hobbying for almost 10 years I have now learnt to appreciate the value of information that is conveyed by omission of some specifics in reviews. Pay attention to what is not said in reviews.

- I live in the maritimes where quality providers are few and far in between. Saw a provider in Toronto a couple days back. The session was so good that I may actually have to stop hobbying because I will mentally compare all future sessions to the one I just had, and will find them lacking in comparison. So TO hobbyists, please realize what a broad range of quality providers you have in your city you fuckers !!!

*sigh*

Reality is my fantasy. In other words, the women I see are quite charming as real people. Yes, with any real person I suppose there are things I do not want to know. But usually I find that the more I get to know the person, the better I like them, the sexier I find them. I think women usually feel the same way. They find it sexier to be with a real person. (I am guessing, they also don't need to know *everything.)

I am intrigued by your comment: "Pay attention to what is NOT said." Hmm. Sounds like I might agree. Can you give us an example?

I will give my example. When I speak of people, I never want to say anything negative. Women are wonderful, but to be fair, no one is perfect. Why talk about the negative??
Just talk about the positive.
Now, I have found a few women lately that ... well, I cannot find anything negative. At least so far. But I do find things that some (stupid, IMO) people might complain about.
Or have complained about. So far, I have tried to avoid those topics or things, because I consider them irrelevant. But, to be fair, to some (stupid? whimsical? different??) people, those factors might be quite relevant.
Word to the wise...

My broader recommendation is: take people as they are. They are quite wonderful, just as they are.
Happy hunting!
"You can't always get what you want, but you just might find, you get what you need."

 

[MissCroft]

The more we reveal about ourselves the further the fantasy gets diluted. Deviating from our client and SP personas on the social media and opining unreservedly more often than not reveals our flaws and makes us less attractive. The fantasy suffers.

I know some guys prefer to know very little about the SP and not do much talking because it 'ruins the fantasy'. But I find most guys like to know a little personal stuff and get to know her personality. Sometimes the best sessions are with someone who you can have a connection with even outside of the bedroom.

 

[Brill]

I know some guys prefer to know very little about the SP and not do much talking because it 'ruins the fantasy'. But I find most guys like to know a little personal stuff and get to know her personality. Sometimes the best sessions are with someone who you can have a connection with even outside of the bedroom.

Knowing a bit about her can enhance the fantasy, as long as it's positive. I don't like to know negative circumstances for getting into the business or how some aspects are unpleasant or degrading, but I like hearing what she enjoys in life. Even the mundane stuff, she's confirming I'm a normal person and worthy of sharing a few moments.