A warning coming from a SP in Kingston

[Localkingstongirl]

Hi all,

I’m not sure what thread to post this in, however I’m trying to get this to reach as many folks as possible (SP & even clients).

I am a provider in Kingston ontario,
I had one of the scariest experiences in my life.
I had a knife pulled on me by a client this week & was sexually assaulted by knife point.
he portrayed himself to be incredibly nervous because he had been robbed previously.
His personality changed very quickly.

Violence of SW is very real,
This is a reminder to ANYONE be vigilant, and try your best to be safe.

 

[Wink99]

Hi all,

I’m not sure what thread to post this in, however I’m trying to get this to reach as many folks as possible (SP & even clients).

I am a provider in Kingston ontario,
I had one of the scariest experiences in my life.
I had a knife pulled on me by a client this week & was sexually assaulted by knife point.
he portrayed himself to be incredibly nervous because he had been robbed previously.
His personality changed very quickly.

Violence of SW is very real,
This is a reminder to ANYONE be vigilant, and try your best to be safe.

Thank you

 

[Capital Amatuer]

A description of the client would be helpful for the other local SWs no?

Yes, thank you. If I'm not mixing up my memory, there was a thread here that only the ladies had access. A 'Bad Client List' or something like that where ladies could share information in confidence. Maybe the thread is out of sight now to members, ask a Mod for insight. If your comfortable, report the incident. That's the intention of Bill C36. https://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/rp-pr/other-autre/c36fs_fi/

 

[Pleasure Hound]

I was shocked to hear that something so terrible happened to such a delightful and lovely lady.

Wishing her a stress-free recovery over the next few months.

 

[Boss Nass]

Did you report it to the police? Don't be afraid to call them, and provide whatever info you can. His phone number may still be retrievable.

 

[KittyCaterina]

Hi all,

I’m not sure what thread to post this in, however I’m trying to get this to reach as many folks as possible (SP & even clients).

I am a provider in Kingston ontario,
I had one of the scariest experiences in my life.
I had a knife pulled on me by a client this week & was sexually assaulted by knife point.
he portrayed himself to be incredibly nervous because he had been robbed previously.
His personality changed very quickly.

Violence of SW is very real,
This is a reminder to ANYONE be vigilant, and try your best to be safe.

Can you please PM me his number and info?

I will pay to advertise again here and put the warning in the SP section.

I will also put it in the other SP bad date lists I have access to.

 

[KittyCaterina]

Did you report it to the police? Don't be afraid to call them, and provide whatever info you can. His phone number may still be retrievable.

And yes, if you are comfortable please report this as Boss Nass has stated.

 

[stepheneight]

This is a very serious crime, and you should not at all be afraid of getting the authorities involved and getting the word out.
I’m so sorry this happened to you.

 

[massman]

How horrible. Very sorry to hear that this happened to you. Hope the scumbag is caught.

 

[lundunguy]

We are all very sorry for your terrible experience. Get well soon.

 

[Blkfrmwaistdwn]

It's awful no one deserves to go through this. Some people are seriously deranged, I am not the violent type but this tottaly infuriates me.

SP's should have someone they can rely on for their security, unfortunately the system and society is not built that way, unless I am wrong. Which I could help.

Sending love

 

[Chloee]

From one SP to another SP you are in my thoughts, you did not deserve that. I am truly sorry this has happened . If you need a vent pls feel free to msg me .

Much hugs

 

[KittyCaterina]

From one SP to another SP you are in my thoughts, you did not deserve that. I am truly sorry this has happened . If you need a vent pls feel free to msg me .

Much hugs

I can confirm you are such a great contact to have in Kingston and would be a great person for her to talk to.

Luv ya.

 

[Chloee]

I can confirm you are such a great contact to have in Kingston and would be a great person for her to talk to.

Luv ya.

I truly appreciate that kitty .

Luv ya

 

[Nesbot]

As Boss Nass has stated. If you're comfortable, please reach out to local law enforcement. That is a life threatening situation and should be investigating and eliminated. The fucking asshole too.

 

[Localkingstongirl]

Did you report it to the police? Don't be afraid to call them, and provide whatever info you can. His phone number may still be retrievable.

I did report it, and the police have been wonderful.
Thank you for the support, I just also wanted to post here for others.

 

[Localkingstongirl]

From one SP to another SP you are in my thoughts, you did not deserve that. I am truly sorry this has happened . If you need a vent pls feel free to msg me .

Much hugs

Thank you very much for your support, I appreciate it very much. I am doing better than I was last week, a little freaked out based on the threats that he used, but it was likely all empty threats of using fear to silence me.
There is zero silence coming from me, especially when it's a risk for other working girls.
Reported last week, he was also charged last week.
I'm going through with this.
Violence of sex workers is real & demands attention.

Stay safe out there.

 

[blacklabdog]

Done and done last week.
Went to the hospital for sexual assault kit, the whole 9 yards.
.

Kudos for having the courage to go to the police. Better for you and your fellow SWs.
Idiots like this have to know there are consequences for assault on a SW.

 

[Capital Amatuer]

I'm glad you were comfortable and courageous to contact authorities. I'm also happy to hear the authorities accepted the seriousness, were compassionate and treated you well. As it should be. We're all in this industry for reasons of our own, but intimidation, violence and control aren't any of them. Take care of yourself and I hope you see the end without further hurt.

 

[Hughlongly]

Bugger that guy! I hope they throw him in a cell with an alligator. I'm very very sorry this happened to you. Sex work IS real work. I've been a client for 30 years. There have been ups and downs, I've met good people and bad. As a community, we need to look out for each other. From the client's side, we need to support the providers and the providers need to out those clients who commit crimes; full stop.

A crime is a crime. And your choice of profession does NOT bar you from full protection under the law like any other citizen of this country.