My Significant Other and I have been involved in a monogamous relationship for the last 2+ years.
A few weeks ago, I decided to become a SP. He was fully aware of my decision to enter the biz. We discussed minute details of the work. (Services provided, safety standards, precautions, risks, etc.) and he was always supportive, caring and understanding. We were going to think of my work as just that, work.
Today he informs me that he'd like to see a SP. Just like that, out of the blue!!! He says he's happy, but just wants "variety".
A part of me thinks of it as cheating, but the other part thinks of it as fair. I'm kind of confused, so any thoughts would be appreciated.
My questions are these: SP's -Do you allow your Significant Other to see other SP's or MPA's ? How does this make you feel?
Gentlemen- if you're dating a SP or MPA, do you feel that it's "only fair" for you to be able to see SP's or MPA's? Why do you feel this way?
Thanks again,
Brigitte
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A few weeks ago, I decided to become a SP. He was fully aware of my decision to enter the biz. We discussed minute details of the work. (Services provided, safety standards, precautions, risks, etc.) and he was always supportive, caring and understanding. We were going to think of my work as just that, work.
Today he informs me that he'd like to see a SP. Just like that, out of the blue!!! He says he's happy, but just wants "variety".
A part of me thinks of it as cheating, but the other part thinks of it as fair. I'm kind of confused, so any thoughts would be appreciated.
My questions are these: SP's -Do you allow your Significant Other to see other SP's or MPA's ? How does this make you feel?
Gentlemen- if you're dating a SP or MPA, do you feel that it's "only fair" for you to be able to see SP's or MPA's? Why do you feel this way?
Thanks again,
Brigitte
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