A Question *

[Bella6969]

My best friend called me today , her and her boyfriend are having some sexual problems, she was asking me if there is anything she can take that will higher her sex drive ?
Like a Viagra (woman form type thing ) I really couldnt answer her on this so i thought to ask here , seeing that there is a vast amount of info and things shared here*

Thanks for your help
Kisses
Bella*

 

[Bella6969]

THanks Jenna*
They have been together for awhile ,,
but she was telling me that he complains that shes more into her toys then him , which is true*

 

[Annessa]

Alcohol



Annessa
xoxo

 

[jwmorrice]

...shes more into her toys then him...

May be a bit of a control freak! Well, that's not something that's particularly compatible with experiencing a strong sex drive.

jwm

 

[wooly110]

Bella, if her sex drive was high at the beginning of their relationship, but, it has slipped, then I was suggest that it's not a physical drop in her sex drive alone, but, more of a mental drop.

It's hard to say really without know more background on your friends, but, it may be that, sex has become a routine with her. The bf might not be "as romantic, or adventurous" as the gf, and because of that she is losing interest in sex with him. She doesn't see it as something exciting or something to look forward to, and is just something to do.

It's not to say that she doesn't love him or anything, it's just that if he's not meeting her needs on an emotional/mental level with sex, the effects could very well be manifesting itself in the physical sense.

At least, that's the advice I give Dr. Phil. Maybe if he says it, it would be credible.

 

[MuffinMuncher]

Viagra or any of the other "male enhancement" drugs do not address sex drive. They only deal with the ability to ACT on the sex drive!

It is more than likely a mental or physical attraction issue since she has a sex drive (toys)..... just not with her BF.

 

[muddy@TGF]

hmmm

she needs a chance in life, maybe a new Boi, or just take a break..... hahaa see many men........

 

[Bella6969]

thanks for all the info everyone*
I hope it helps her *
O know i wouldnt want to be in
that situation* lol

 

[banshie]

Alcohol



Annessa
xoxo

I know you are joking, but the fact is alcohol reduces sex drive. It also lowers inhibitions, which is why it might seem as if one's sex drive has increased.

Alcohol certainly can impair performance.

 

[sweet guy]

My best friend called me today , her and her boyfriend are having some sexual problems, she was asking me if there is anything she can take that will higher her sex drive ?

WTF?

Aren't the women saying female sexual dysfunction is nothing but a plot from the big pharma to sell their pills?

Originally posted by Bella6969
...shes more into her toys then him...

Is your girlfriend getting "high" on the rabbit?

I suspect your GF is sick and tired of the same old Boy Toy.

 

[sweet guy]

It's hard to say really without know more background on your friends, but, it may be that, sex has become a routine with her. The bf might not be "as romantic, or adventurous" as the gf, and because of that she is losing interest in sex with him. She doesn't see it as something exciting or something to look forward to, and is just something to do.

Just another "chores" to deal with like cleaning, vacuuming or whatnot! I can't believe my boy toy is that dumb and stiff! Damn the missionary!

It's not to say that she doesn't love him or anything, it's just that if he's not meeting her needs on an emotional/mental level with sex, the effects could very well be manifesting itself in the physical sense.

Perhaps she feels better when her boy toy has tongue stud and goes down under.

At least, that's the advice I give Dr. Phil. Maybe if he says it, it would be credible.

Dr. Phil is "male Oprah Winfrey" and he is good as a shrink for women. At least there's a man who can really feel and understand what women want.

 

[Annessa]

I know you are joking, but the fact is alcohol reduces sex drive. It also lowers inhibitions, which is why it might seem as if one's sex drive has increased.
Alcohol certainly can impair performance.

Wow, alcohol is an aphrodesiac for me. Guess I'm one lucky gal. *lol*



Annessa
xoxo

 

[QB7]

annessa - its aphrodesiac - at least I hope it is )

cheers
QB7

 

[Annessa]

annessa - its aphrodesiac - at least I hope it is )

cheers
QB7

Thanks my knight in shinning armor.



Annessa
xoxo

 

[Bella6969]

Wow alcohol doesnt do a thing for me sexually *
Just makes me want to dance LOL