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Davy.Biggie

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Well since I'm new I may as well start something I would like an answer to.
So here goes.
The question is geared mainly to the SP's but by all means anyone please feel free to put in their opinions and thoughts.
I, and close to a third of my friends, are overweight. Some aren't as tall as I am and don't carry their weight as well. Now my question is, in all sincerity, what are your thoughts about this. I always feel compelled to ask the SP's I have used in the past if me being "overweight or stocky" would be a problem. One did have an issue with it and I didn't have a problem with it. the other 2 didn't and it was a done deal. I always do feel compelled to give more than the normal rate because they have no issues with it.

Now should this be something to mention? (Personally I think it is being 6 feet tall, broad shouldered and around the 350 pound range but most think I'm around 250 I carry it well)

And what are your thoughts about an overweight or underweight client as an SP?

Just being inquisitive.
 
I'm about 5'10 and 250 lbs., not as big as you, but not a small guy either. I have very rarely had an issue with an SP because of my weight. That being said, I would not go missionary on a spinner, as I would not want to seem overpowering.

Most of the women I have met are truly wonderful people who go the extra mile to make us larger guys feel comfortable, so I really wouldn't worry too much about it.
 
Thank you.
That does help a lot.
I'm just worried about how comfortable they are as well. I can pick up on them being nervous about certain positions be they SP's or not.
I just don't like feelign like I'm making them uncomfortable either.
 
a 1 player said:
Totally understood.
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5' 10" and a baby punched you in the sack


I guess we all are just gentlemen
 
Davy.Biggie said:
Well since I'm new I may as well start something I would like an answer to.
So here goes.
The question is geared mainly to the SP's but by all means anyone please feel free to put in their opinions and thoughts.
I, and close to a third of my friends, are overweight. Some aren't as tall as I am and don't carry their weight as well. Now my question is, in all sincerity, what are your thoughts about this. I always feel compelled to ask the SP's I have used in the past if me being "overweight or stocky" would be a problem. One did have an issue with it and I didn't have a problem with it. the other 2 didn't and it was a done deal. I always do feel compelled to give more than the normal rate because they have no issues with it.

Now should this be something to mention? (Personally I think it is being 6 feet tall, broad shouldered and around the 350 pound range but most think I'm around 250 I carry it well)

And what are your thoughts about an overweight or underweight client as an SP?

Just being inquisitive.
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I suggest that most of what you're supposed to be getting out of the interactions with working girls isn't exactly their approval, but instead you're supposed to gain the confidence to approach (women) and offer your physical company while asking (in this case directly) for theirs, all while not feeling the low sense of yourself which keeps you from doing same with (all other women).

The fact that she is clearly selling her sexual services should ideally have the effect on you that greatly reduces those social fears which keep you from seeking an intimate relationship sans money on the night stand.

In addition, because of this new and strange-seeming high likelihood of a woman saying "yes", you should expect of yourself that you not fret so much when the odd female encounter says 'no'.
 
if there is ever some sort of problem, the sp should let you know that... but some treat this a job that has to get done, remain quiet about it and before you know it, you end up having a bad session.
 
As I always say, I'll take an average looking, slightly overweight, and older client who is nice and respectful any time over a good looking, fit and toned young guy who is arrogant and condescending and who thinks he is doing me a favor by hiring me.

I'm not saying appearance doesn't count at all: of course it does. But it's not all that matter. Dress well, be clean, and smile, and that should be enough.

Also, being on the small side myself, I have to say that I find there's something to be said about fucking a guy who is three time my size. Not sure what it is, but it can be kind of hot.
 
Thank you all.

As for the overweight issue. At 13 was over 180 pounds. Always been overweight.
At 20 was tested. Metabolism extremely slow but in Canada not slow enough to legally take drugs to stimulate/increase it. Doctors all said I had to live with it.
Never was a competitive kind of guy. Always been artistic and a thinker.
Work plays a big part in it. Because of the nature of my job there are times I am stuck at my desk working with different agencies for up to 12 hours at a stretch with no breaks. Usually because it is a matter of public safety what I do at work.
As for my issues with women and intimate/romantic relationships. I don't really have any issues with it. I have no problems approaching a woman or being myself. I may be overly respectful of women. I also am funny, flirt like crazy and pretty shameless for the most part. But the issues arise when women assume I am a player. I also am not into dating 20-24 year old women (because of either good genetics or the weight everyone assumes I am between the ages of 24-26). I just feel a serious relationship would get in the way of women that age discovering themselves. My friends call me an idiot because of that but I just don't want to be the guy they blame for not going through that time of self-exploration. Of my last 4 relationships 3 of them ended because I was being accused of cheating. Last one was another reason, completely my choice, because I dealt with a certain kind of treatment and got tired of being blamed for something her ex did to her.
Working with my doctor for years now, and because I'm over 350 pounds and my BMI is so off the charts, the only real cure has been decided to be a Laproscopic band or a gastro-intestinal bypass. Me & my doc went for the Lap band because it is reversible and removable. Now to get things in order to get it done ASAP.
Hope that clears up things.
And Gen I think I have to Suck your toes and give you a rub down as soon as possible. Hopefully before I lose the size.
 
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