But if I take it down, but... that... no, that I'm not ready for.As always, you give me something to think about
Just throwing this out there, keeping your status or location or whatever as sex addicted gfe/pse creates false hope...
A question on service
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I don't know?? I think you better listen to Joey's advise, this shit is been eating at you for two weeks now.
I'd have to disagree because I don't understand the assumption that she would contact him. I have never once contacted a client unsolicited. I don't understand why she would contact him? Personally, I wouldn't assume that someone who contacted me respectfully was looking for a freebie or was creepy... But that's just me. She could easily think like you are, or could have a totally different take on this than either of us.
That was my thinking too.. If it's bugging you, deal with it, then move on with whatever you learn from the exchange.
A TDL list is a fluid construct, but you're right, I will be crossing the long time number one off the list very soon. After that? Who knowsif only
don't tease me ... I'm sure you've got a nice long tdl ...
Yep. You made that clear. I'm not disagreeing with your right to your opinion, nor asking for a lesson-- I'm merely stating my opinion and experience, which differs from yours. I guess you could call it a "pfffft... not everyone sucks" kind of attitude
Well now I don't know what to think!?'!?!? I guess the three of us should meet and try to come to some sort of agreementYep. You made that clear. I'm not disagreeing with your right to your opinion, nor asking for a lesson-- I'm merely stating my opinion and experience, which differs from yours. I guess you could call it a "pfffft... not everyone sucks" kind of attitude
(a boy can dream...)
LOLWell now I don't know what to think!?'!?!? I guess the three of us should meet and try to come to some sort of agreement
Many voids filled, problem solved.
It's not all that bizarre, really. It was my polite way of saying that you don't need to be so pushy and "disprove" me. We're different. We both have opinions. That's ok. Anyhow, I've offered my advice from MY experience as an SP who knows DB123, and I'm going to step out of this thread so that you can have the last word, the last lesson, and the last passive aggressive dig. Lol. DB, you know what will work for you. Good luck with it!
Today my SO reminded me of something I forgot to do a couple of years ago. It reminded me that the time to complain is in the now.
I just think you have nothing to lose at this point. Not really much to gain either, other than getting it off your chest. But like I suggested earlier, if you think the lady would identify the situation by you posting more info here, then it serves your purpose of letting her know what bothered you, without contacting her directly, and not actually outing her on the board (although I think the jury is out on whether she should be ID'd or not). I guess the circumstances might dictate whether she should be ID'd not. Then she can decide on her own whether she first off, even agrees with the complaint, and then she can decide what to do about it, if anything.
Let it go. I think you should do what a lot of us do. Look for another db certified girl and you should be good!
As it happens, she is/was certified (I suppose is...the distinction is not removable once earned).
Thank you very much. You're a doll
Problem with that is if I encounter an issue, why am I even there? If she says no, I'm just like "well fuck that shit, peace!"?
Years ago I made the mistake of going to a session while being somewhat upset with the SP in question. Waste of time and money, though "Red" was a total waste of time and a (failed, in my case but apparently not others from what I have heard) con artist.
---I don't know, fuck it I'll probably say something (and FWIW I did the math, its only been a week and a half
).I would think that it would be removable. There are many certifications that are not 'one and done' for life. I would think recertification would be one of the best parts of the job!
Sigh...a man's got to do what a man's got to do I suppose. Luckily there are no Certified ladies I haven't seen in the last month (since it only became a thing last month
) so I have some time.Thank to (almost
) everyone for their advice. I decided to let her know what I was thinking and I'm glad I did. I did hear back and my concerns were well received. So for those of you who see this lovely, DB Certified woman in the future without a similar issue arising, you are welcome.
