A GFE is not......

[George OTJ]

Since there doesn't seem to be an agreement on what GFE is, I was wondering what peoples reponses would be if we approached the question from the back-end - trying to define what GFE is not.

When I think of GFE vs PSE, I don't see them as describing the WHOLE experience - that is what the reviews are for. GFE/PSE only describes one aspect of the encounter. I think the reason there is no agreement on what the term means is because too many posters try to use it to describe the entire experience.

There are a lot of different things that can go into whether you had a great time or a losy time. IMHO, GFE should have nothing to do with:

- whether the girl is likable or not (too many variables)
- how well you 'connect' with the lady (again, too many variables)
- whether she is a slim hotty or BBW (different aspect)
- whether she is young, middle aged, or old (different aspect)
- whether she is white, black, asian, latina, or other (different aspect)
- whether she has As, Bs, Cs, Ds or DDs (different aspect)
- whether she's a university grad or grade school drop out

Thoughts gentlemen/ladies?

 

[shack]

GFE should have nothing to do with:

-whether she can beat you in an arm wrestle
-whether she can chug a beer faster than you
-whether her sister will sleep with you also

Come to think of it, you can list a million things that a GFE isn't. The list of things that a GFE is, is shorter even if there is no consensus.

 

[George OTJ]

Re: Re: A GFE is not......

-Come to think of it, you can list a million things that a GFE isn't.

I was thinking more in terms of what you might say on a review that you wouldn't consider as part of being a GFE Definition.

Perhaps I shouldn't have list 'education level' on my previous list.

or perhaps, this is a pointless question. If so, it will die-out soon enough.

 

[Brigitte]

I don't know about you guys, but to me, a girlfriend experience is finding someone (an sp, mp or stripper) that satisfies every minute quirk that you may have; and after everything's said and done, you'd hand over part of your paycheck on a regular basis... just for a few more hours with her.

But that's just me.

 

[seven]

A GFE is not something that happens between a SP/MPA/dancer and you. If you have to leave money on her nightstand then you've not captivated her in any way, and the emotion/passion that flows from the sex will not measure up compared to a real girlfriend experience. I think that term originated when guys tried to think of their fantasy experience as something more than it really was to the girl.

 

[bobistheowl]

I think appearance must be considered a factor when using the term PSE. Above average skills and attitude, along with fewer than average restrictions, might define a GFE.

 

[CyberGoth]

gfe is NOT a girl coming over because she "wants to talk" and taking your money for it.

gfe is NOT some wannabe prodomme poseur trying to play power trips on you.

 

[Kathy P]

Cybergoth, could you clarify what a "wannabee prodomme poseur" is exactly?