A dream date with a companion
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Interesting question. I am commenting so that I can come back and read the answers
No offense but I would rather have a dream date with the love of my life, not an escort.
Then you are answering the wrong question on the wrong website.
For some of us the love of our lives and escorts are the same thing.
I agree with you. Words Date and Provider don't mix.
Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in which two individuals engage in an activity together, most often with the intention of evaluating each other's suitability as a partner in a future intimate relationship. It falls into the category of courtship, consisting of social events carried out by the couple either alone or with others.
Dating - Wikipedia
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Provider - provides a paid service. It's an exchange of $ for companionship. Nothing more to it.
When I choose to spend my time with a provider, I enjoy my time, but at no point in time do I fool myself by thinking there could be a future relationship or romantic attachments. I see a provider because there are none.
Ok...Alex I'll take "paid dream date for 1,000"...the answer is...
What is get 3 or 4 all natural ebony ladies who have the hots for each other, at least one va va va voom natural curvy, at least one sleek athletic, at least one very dark complexion, then book them in a trio/ quad for 2 hours, then the 4 or 5 of us head out for a nice dinner to have a few laughs?
What is get 3 or 4 all natural ebony ladies who have the hots for each other, at least one va va va voom natural curvy, at least one sleek athletic, at least one very dark complexion, then book them in a trio/ quad for 2 hours, then the 4 or 5 of us head out for a nice dinner to have a few laughs?
She pays for everything including my $500/hour fee.
As one fellow terbite pointed out respectfully above, I too would think about a dream date in the context of my private love life (as an eg, I had several "dream dates" when I was married). But I get your point, you are talking about dating SWs and as such, what would be our ideal/preferred type of date. If that is your question, then my answer would be a dinner date right before partaking in the fun I booked the SW for, of course (yeah, I know, a classic choice Lol, but I prefer that).
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Dream session if you prefer, dream encounter if it suits you better.
You get the picture…
Hard to think of just one. But if I had to, without spending hours weighing a couple dozen.
Invite a female I know fairly intimately to some idyllic cabin in the woods in the middle of winter for 3-7 days. Read books, make some meals together, drink wine by a fire, go for walks, decompress, have sex whenever/wherever, take hot showers together, whenever we felt like it rather than some pre-arranged hour where we both knew exactly what and when and how long.
If she was my favourite SP or companion in real life. Six of one, 1/2 dozen of another.
Invite a female I know fairly intimately to some idyllic cabin in the woods in the middle of winter for 3-7 days. Read books, make some meals together, drink wine by a fire, go for walks, decompress, have sex whenever/wherever, take hot showers together, whenever we felt like it rather than some pre-arranged hour where we both knew exactly what and when and how long.
If she was my favourite SP or companion in real life. Six of one, 1/2 dozen of another.
I was planning a few days in Alberta//BC recently to do some hiking/ whale watching with one. We had days planned but she couldn't go those days and then tried to reschedule. Unfortunately I couldnt go because of work. Sucks but there is always next next.
That is very noble and a wonderful lecture on moral rules on provider and client relationships. Looking at your selected definition of a date: ' most often with the intention of evaluating each other's suitability as a partner in a future intimate relationship. That would clearly suggest that you are not currently involved with the person you are dating.I agree with you. Words Date and Provider don't mix.
Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in which two individuals engage in an activity together, most often with the intention of evaluating each other's suitability as a partner in a future intimate relationship. It falls into the category of courtship, consisting of social events carried out by the couple either alone or with others.
Dating - Wikipedia
Provider - provides a paid service. It's an exchange of $ for companionship. Nothing more to it.
When I choose to spend my time with a provider, I enjoy my time, but at no point in time do I fool myself by thinking there could be a future relationship or romantic attachments. I see a provider because there are none.
I am single and I don't see myself in any committed relationship in the near future. I am just enjoying life and it's opportunities as a single man. I have dated both MPA's / stirp club dancers socially and probably more in tune with your definition of dating than dinner with a wife. These are social (unpaid) dinner dates with beautiful interesting companions that may or may not lead to future activities together. Your opening line would be more accurate if you wrote: For me, Words Date and Provider don't mix.
This was a light softball type question as a thought fantasy - not an invitation for a morality debate.
My fantasy date with a beautiful provider would be to visit a new exotic location, staying in a beautiful hotel with unlimited sex encounters. eg: sex on an open balacony in Paris overlooking the city at sunset, sex in a hammock on a beach in Bora Bora, etc.
Maybe its just me, or my old age, but I wouldn't want to do anything more than a regular session with all the conversation, laughs, and sexual things both the escort and I enjoy. Don't need a dinner before, or Netflix & chill after.
Probably my usual 60 minutes, but maybe a bit longer. (Most likely much longer would get boring for both of us.)
Of course the lady would be Scarlett Raye
Probably my usual 60 minutes, but maybe a bit longer. (Most likely much longer would get boring for both of us.)
Of course the lady would be Scarlett Raye
Seems like you made it a morality debate.
He just gave his opinion, not a lecture.
Interesting. I reread it and my interpretation is that it is filled with definitions laced with judgmental platitudes. All for a simple question of a fantasy.
As my life style involves interaction with a variety of women including MPAs and strippers - possibly I am overly sensitive.to criticism against MPA's & dancers.
Trying to return to the original question - if you had a fantasy dream date with your companion (ie: wife) - what would it be ?
Dear providers. While you have interesting thought provoking questions…. This is Terb. And we are simply not capable of giving you basic answers without having a collective complete breakdown and internal pissing match. 
To quote David Spade. "Drive 'em out into the country and tell e'm "scream all you want bitch. Nobody can hear you" .
Sure, I'll reply, why not.
I was neither lecturing nor trying to be condescending/judgmental.
Doctors don't date patients, lawyers don't date clients, law enforcement doesn't date career criminals and sex workers don't provide free sex. There are very few exceptions where rules and barriers are broken.
You, dating SWs multiple times, as per your own admission, makes you a special person, doesn't it? Somehow you managed to become an exception multiple time and SWs broke the code. You're either a client with amazing manipulation skills or someone in the industry (driver, security, management, pimp etc).
What's the end game though? Commited relationship with a bright future?? Obviously not, since you're still single. If you were being sincere but things didn't work out, oh what a surprise.
SW's source of income is providing sexual services and if you manage to get it for free, means you're very likely taking advantage. If you're still providing financial support, then you're not really dating, you're a sugar daddy, she's a sugar baby. If you're in a managerial position and SW is providing free service out of the fear of repercussion, then you're an abuser/predator.
Either way there are no scenarios where you'd look noble. The only one would be where you two fell in love, had kids and you loved her unconditionally no matter what, but that's not the case.
Oh, btw, now you may say that I'm being judgemental.
