A couple of "watch out fors"

[renuck]

I totally struck out today. I texted (<- is that even a real word?) Angela Rose Thursday night to see if she would be available Friday evening around 7 or 8. Text response was delayed but she confirmed she would be available around that time and wanted 1 hour notice. I had no problem with that. Work ran a little late and I ended up sending her a text a little before 7:30 that I was available when ever she was and to give her the notice she wanted - I figured I was pretty close to the approximate time I said . I waited a while and no response.

So I consulted the BP and sent Harley a text to see when she would be available. I don't know what was going on there but her math didn't add up right from the start. My initial text was just before 8:00, her response at just after 8:05 was she was available now or at 10:15 and then stated she had a scheduled appt. at 8:15 and another hh appt. at 9:30. So that left 10 minutes for me to drive there, have our time, and get out? I said thanks but I'll try some other day. Texts back from her while she was supposed to be be busy said that she could do 30 or 45 minutes right now... um what? I didn't like the idea of being in just after someone else left but I figured that's the nature of the business so I ended up agreeing on the 10:15 time - since I wanted an hour unrushed. She confirmed the time and it was set up. I showed up and sent a text with no response. 20 minutes later I left. Two hours later I get a text apologizing that she fell asleep. So in the 15 minutes to get things cleaned up between clients she fell asleep?

So back to Angela Rose... I later see that she is showing as available. I'm curious since I never got a text back from her and I ask if that was correct. She responds yes she is available but I didn't confirm an hour before my booked appt. But I didn't book an appt. I just asked if she would be available around an approximate time and I was to give her 1hr notice. I thought I did that.

I'm new to this hobby and I guess these are the things I need to get used to but I'm quickly finding it very frustrating.

Sorry for the rant!
Breww

 

[bcd]

No apology necessary for 'the rant' brother. Thanks for the information. It is useful as it helps filter out the ads to ignore in the future. I had no interest in Angela Rose anyway but was somewhat curious about Harley as there have been some positive reviews but won't take the chance now.

 

[Jack_attack]

Hey Breww, sorry for the bad luck. I have to take Angela's side a tad because your initial agreement of around 7 or 8:00 with an hour's advanced notice would imply that you'd be texting her that advanced notice between 6-7:00. I can also see where there might be confusion by booking an appointment between 7-8. That's a lot of time for a girl block off.

Harley's fluke works more against her. "Whoops I feel asleep" is maybe code for "whoops, that last rum shot knocked me out" or something along those lines. Don't give someone who flakes on you a second shot unless you already have a good rapport and history.

 

[renuck]

Hey Breww, sorry for the bad luck. I have to take Angela's side a tad because your initial agreement of around 7 or 8:00 with an hour's advanced notice would imply that you'd be texting her that advanced notice between 6-7:00. I can also see where there might be confusion by booking an appointment between 7-8. That's a lot of time for a girl block off.

I understand your point but the inquiry of 7-8 was to see if she was "on the clock" around that time or if she was off, there was no booking of anything. I understand time is money for the SPs as it is with us all which is why I didn't reserve a time because it was an unknown at the time if I'd even be available. I was given instructions to give her 1 hr notice because the appointment time was left as undetermined. I'll admit I may have to learn some new communication skills here.

Take care,
Breww

 

[hemiman]

Methinks you got lucky and saved yourself some hard earned cash OP.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

So for a established escort if she asks for an hours notice. Ask her when she's available agree to a time and confirm an hour before. Someone who doesnt do this is a red flag for us. We have other appointments and we are constantly rearranging our schedule. With new people there is a huge issue with them not showing up. Sometimes i wont even respond to people who text me a hh before an appointment. That hours notice is confirmation that you're coming and if she doesn't get it she has to move on to the next person. If you think about it. If we booked everyone im advance when they said they were coming we'd never be available and we wouldnt make any money. People always book in advance and then plans change, or they forget orbeven worse they lead you on until the last minute and tben dont show up at all (for whatever reason).

It kind of sounds like (from my perspective) that the second woman had a cancellation or a no show and tried to fit you in between her other appointments.

I wouldn't give up on Angela though. Just explain what happened and that you would like to try again. A huge oet peeve of mine is leaving it up to a client to set their own time ( they know their schedule better than i do) and they dont show up on time. Just keep in mind that we're all trying to set our own schedule for appointments and if a lady is really worth seeing she's probably booked for a while. It helps to have a bit of patience at first. Once she's seen you and knows you're serious and she knows you're not a time waster, a no show or consistently late she probably wont make you give an hours notice next time. I hope that helps a bit. Last minute appointments can be ok too, but you're probably going to be squeezed in and rushed between appointments especially if you arrive later than expected.

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

Hey Breww, sorry for the bad luck. I have to take Angela's side a tad because your initial agreement of around 7 or 8:00 with an hour's advanced notice would imply that you'd be texting her that advanced notice between 6-7:00. I can also see where there might be confusion by booking an appointment between 7-8. That's a lot of time for a girl block off.

Harley's fluke works more against her. "Whoops I feel asleep" is maybe code for "whoops, that last rum shot knocked me out" or something along those lines. Don't give someone who flakes on you a second shot unless you already have a good rapport and history.

To me it sounds like she tried to squeeze him in thinking she had a no show and then her no show finally showed up late. That happens sometimes. Guys often make a huge deal about knowing an escort has seen a guy right before they see them. She might have just been avoiding saying that to make sure she didn't lose his business. We all see multiple people in a day, usually back to back but for some reason, a lot of guys don't even want to hear it and they wont book after hearing that. Thats the reality of our job though.

 

[Jack_attack]

To me it sounds like she tried to squeeze him in thinking she had a no show and then her no show finally showed up late. That happens sometimes. Guys often make a huge deal about knowing an escort has seen a guy right before they see them. She might have just been avoiding saying that to make sure she didn't lose his business. We all see multiple people in a day, usually back to back but for some reason, a lot of guys don't even want to hear it and they wont book after hearing that. Thats the reality of our job though.

Thanks for the additional insight! To give context, my comments about Harley come on the heels of multiple reports of her overall quality of service and caring going on a downhill slide. However, your insight does change my mind a little.

In regards to giving Angela Rose another chance, it looks like she's retiring and won't be around for much longer. Take your shot now or forever wonder. http://toronto.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/extended-my-stay-special-on-hh-and-hr-incalls/52383352

 

[Jeffrey93]

Totally disagree with the OPs premise.

Be upfront, honest and specific about - the services, the $, and the time....anything else and you'll be disappointed.

Have a plan, man ...failure to plan is a plan to fail.

Let's also be grown-ups .....you're not the SP's only customer.