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I've found that my 1st shot is quicker than I like, especially if I've not been close with someone in a while. Plus I get so aroused exploring the female body, seeing how she responds to kisses, squeezes, nibbles, erotic talk.... I like my sessions to be a combo of giving & receiving pleasure.
2nd shot lasts longer, and on occasion a 3rd. As I get older, the 3rd is more rare.
 
On the flip side, you could be having difficulties cumming at all, so count your blessings and do MSOG.
 
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Usually 10-15 mins but that's because I'm not Fit as I'd like cardio wise. It starts to become a workout so I let it go.
I can last longer if girl puts in the work too, or if I ate a lot of cereal earlier in the day (more energy).
In 20s, it was a few minutes but not 30s.
I wonder how long other men that are 30+ last.
It also depends on the bed height and the girl's height. If you're sized up perfectly, it's less work and more enjoyable.
Some agencies have notoriously high beds like Sassy Angels.
 
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Varies by decade. Now can go quite a while. In 20s first sog when she turned out the light lol (seriously, 5 strokes on a bbbj and pow)...then ready for 2nd in 10 or less, thus a good time to dive in on her naughty bits till the boy returned. But could easy do 3 an hour. Once 4. But pre internet era, lack of porn access, repressed Catholic guilt, was a heady brew of licenciousness once you drop the daks.
30's...need 20 mins between sog's.
40s...need 30 mins.
50s...could get in 2 sogs in an hour, might need to go into injury time lol.
60...need a few hours. Did book a 1 hour 11am, then a different lady 1 hour at 5pm. Let's see what the decade entails...
 
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Varies by decade. Now can go quite a while. In 20s first sog when she turned out the light lol (seriously, 5 strokes on a bbbj and pow)...then ready for 2nd in 10 or less, thus a good time to dive in on her naughty bits till the boy returned. But could easy do 3 an hour. Once 4. But pre internet era, lack of porn access, repressed Catholic guilt, was a heady brew of licenciousness once you drop the daks.
30's...need 20 mins between sog's.
40s...need 30 mins.
50s...could get in 2 sogs in an hour, might need to go into injury time lol.
60...need a few hours. Did book a 1 hour 11am, then a different lady 1 hour at 5pm. Let's see what the decade entails...
Yup. I agree. 20-49 easy 3 SOG... once in a while 4. Best was 5 in a 90min duo with 2 ladies who were totally bi & taught me a few things. But that was 25yrs ago.
 
Unfortunately your can’t really turn back the clock on your cock . There is nothing quite as sure as change and to everything there is a season including changes in how long you last. So we just have to enjoy it as long as we can, the best we can
 
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Does anyone find you can only finish once because the guilt of infidelity seems to hit as soon as the orgasm ends? For those of us with significant others…
 
Does anyone find you can only finish once because the guilt of infidelity seems to hit as soon as the orgasm ends? For those of us with significant others…
Hey, if you can plan a session, get there, fuck til you cum, then what guilt are you talking about?
 
Hey, if you can plan a session, get there, fuck til you cum, then what guilt are you talking about?
Just the shred of guilt that seeps in after all the built up tension releases. Lol it’s not life destroying. But it’s enough for me to not be able to get hard again. Maybe I’m alone in that.
 
Just the shred of guilt that seeps in after all the built up tension releases. Lol it’s not life destroying. But it’s enough for me to not be able to get hard again. Maybe I’m alone in that.
If you can get hard and keep erection - you already won.

I know that many struggle with it. Could be mental, ED or just getting older.

I personally find it challenging to keep erection throughout entire session and even harder to pop sometimes. Condom dulls sensations, new surroundings make it difficult to relax and let go, many distractions. I've had 1 hour sessions where I couldn't pop while maintaining full erection. It's as if something was holding me be back and wouldn't allow me to release.

No such issues at home so must be mostly mental.
 
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The male organ is a mystery, wrapped in an enigma. It seems to have its own agenda and it won’t share.
 
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