Actually, you are entirely incorrect in your assumption regarding how western forces are conducting counter-insurgency operations (COIN) in Afghanistan. They are not conducting conventional operations, nor have they been since the very first day they got there. Conventional ops are a part of COIN, but only a part. The greater emphasis is being placed on the other aspects of winning a CI campaign. But, those other aspects are harder than hell to pull off, and they aren't nearly as sexy (or as deadly) as the conventional fighting that is taking place as a part of the overall campaign.
It is a shame (almost a criminal shame) that Canadian media does not report on the outstanding work that the Canadian Forces, various Canadian police forces, Corrections Canada, CIDA, DFAIT, Agriculture Canada, and others, are doing to provide Afghans a sustainable life, and thus to remove from the average citizen, the impetus to support the Taliban.