2 months sober now! (SPs)

[fourfooteleven]

And that's a heck of a long time by my past. I used to see 2 to 3 girls a week. Something came over me to just give it up, and I've been able too so far.

Any others on here clean?

 

[Art Mann]

That's not sobriety. That's drought.

 

[dirkd101]

That's not sobriety. That's drought.

Good call.

 

[hushb1]

To quit seeing Sp's but to still read reviews is like quitting drinking but still go to the bar

 

[ultistar]

Any others on here clean?

Yup, been clean for 48hrs, just taking it day by day.

To quit seeing Sp's but to still read reviews is like quitting drinking but still go to the bar

Ain't that the truth.

 

[esoterica]

It has been over a year for me wrt seeing SPs (house repairs and tuition for kids killed my SP budget but c'est la vie).

Praise the lord for PoF and CL.

 

[afterhours]

It has been over a year for me wrt seeing SPs (house repairs and tuition for kids killed my SP budget but c'est la vie).

Praise the lord for PoF and CL.

please tell me that after house repairs and tuition for kids you can only hook up with older less attractive women on POF. otherwise I am doing something wrong.

 

[youwontknow]

5 months and soon to be retiring.

 

[esoterica]

please tell me that after house repairs and tuition for kids you can only hook up with older less attractive women on POF. otherwise I am doing something wrong.

It takes a lot of work and a lot of patience. I won't see unattractive women, smokers, or crass ones. It doesn't happen overnight like booking an SP.

Older is relative. I'm in my 50s so prefer women in their early 40s. I find that *not* bullshitting helps. Bullshit and smooth talk were unsuccessful strategies. Cheeky and charming works extremely well.

 

[LKD]

going year and a half now... thanks to all the women I've been meeting on POF

 

[Hangman]

going year and a half now... thanks to all the women I've been meeting on POF

I should give POF another whirl. Maybe look at the 40+ contestants...

**UPDATE**

NOPE. Never saw a bigger herd of snarling hambeasts and wild Snorlaxes in my life...

 

[Questor]

I haven't bothered in about 9 months. But I was never into frequent visits anyway. What a waste of money that would be.

 

[Amarcord]

And that's a heck of a long time by my past. I used to see 2 to 3 girls a week. Something came over me to just give it up, and I've been able too so far.

Any others on here clean?

So what are your plans, there is so much you you can go jacking? After a while I crave for a pussy in my mouth. Maybe go once a month.. If you have civilians then you're ok...

 

[ExerciseGuy]

It takes a lot of work and a lot of patience. I won't see unattractive women, smokers, or crass ones. It doesn't happen overnight like booking an SP.

Older is relative. I'm in my 50s so prefer women in their early 40s. I find that *not* bullshitting helps. Bullshit and smooth talk were unsuccessful strategies. Cheeky and charming works extremely well.

going year and a half now... thanks to all the women I've been meeting on POF

POF and CL sound interesting. I'm going to read the other recent post about POF as well. But, just two quick questions for you two experienced gentlemen -- how do you deal with confidentiality (i.e., not having SO or friends accidentally finding out) and do you experience a lot of strings attached?

 

[LKD]

POF and CL sound interesting. I'm going to read the other recent post about POF as well. But, just two quick questions for you two experienced gentlemen -- how do you deal with confidentiality (i.e., not having SO or friends accidentally finding out) and do you experience a lot of strings attached?

well.. can't help you in that. I ain't got no SO... Any friends who find me there, well.. i'd question what they're doing on there too

 

[esoterica]

POF and CL sound interesting. I'm going to read the other recent post about POF as well. But, just two quick questions for you two experienced gentlemen -- how do you deal with confidentiality (i.e., not having SO or friends accidentally finding out) and do you experience a lot of strings attached?

I travel for work a lot and meet out of towners.