“Dating as an Escort was difficult.”

[Tashki]

As a hobbyist, I try my best to fully understand this industry from the lenses of an SP. When I read lines such as “Because I felt nothing for my clients emotionally.” and “the sex itself was a mechanical act.” Were eye-opening. As a hobbyist, I have thought to believe that the main objective of sessions is predicated on having the most overwhelmingly, intense, passionate, emotional sex at its highest peak with mutual chemistry. Of course, that’s not going to happen with every single SP, but when it does that’s how your sessions are suppose to be; A full representation of being with your lover. However, these claims made by author makes me approach sessions as a one-way street. I will approach my sessions with the assumption that SPs are fully numb towards my emotional moans when she makes me cum.

I also didn’t know SPs cared about traditional dating. I’ve thought to believe that they share this philosophy of “Why see men, if they are not going to spend money on me?” “Why spend my free time on a date with a guy when I have men that are willing to pay me to be with them?”




https://medium.com/always-yours/dating-as-an-escort-was-difficult-5003ed5344

 

[shack]

I will approach my sessions with the assumption that SPs are fully numb towards my emotional moans when she makes me cum.

Better late than never.

 

[futt bucker]

why would you have thought that SPs had an emotional connection with you? You pay them for sex. They are there to serve you, not bond with emotionally. May happen on a rare occasion but the very vast majority of interactions are purely business. The good ones are the better actresses.

 

[J.A. Prufrock]

why would you have thought that SPs had an emotional connection with you? You pay them for sex. They are there to serve you, not bond with emotionally. May happen on a rare occasion but the very vast majority of interactions are purely business. The good ones are the better actresses.

Exactly. I've always assumed it's just a job for the SPs, MPAs, and that they don't feel anything for us. I've never deluded myself into thinking a beautiful gal half my age would be doing this with me if I weren't paying her. That's just silly.

I'd like to think I've pleasured many of them, and I'm sure I have, though I'm also sure some were faking it to make me feel good, which I appreciate, because it boosts my ego.

I've always been fascinated by their personal lives, but have never asked any whether they have a steady boyfriend or date, feeling it's not my place.

 

[Goodoer]

I'm sure there is a large portion of us guys that would rather see/date a civilian lady on the side as opposed to seeing an SP. The SP makes it easier and more safe from getting caught.

Either way, the dude spends money... So remove it from the equation.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

As a hobbyist, I have thought to believe that the main objective of sessions is predicated on having the most overwhelmingly, intense, passionate, emotional sex at its highest peak with mutual chemistry.


https://medium.com/always-yours/dating-as-an-escort-was-difficult-5003ed5344

For me, the tip off is when they are engrossed in their cell phone while you are eating them out. Doesn't bother me a bit. We are both there to do a job.
The reason I picked that line from your scribe is that it was the stupidest.

 

[luvyeah]

why would you have thought that SPs had an emotional connection with you? You pay them for sex. They are there to serve you, not bond with emotionally. May happen on a rare occasion but the very vast majority of interactions are purely business. The good ones are the better actresses.

Are you telling me after that $80 bng she doesn't love me???

 

[Jasmina]

Not this again!

As a retired provider with nothing to gain, no! Not every provider is going to feel this way. In fact, that is probably the exception. We are human, we have feelings and we naturally develop attachments over time just like anyone else.

Stop spreading this garbage, this only serves to embitter men against women and nothing more.

As a hobbyist, I try my best to fully understand this industry from the lenses of an SP. When I read lines such as “Because I felt nothing for my clients emotionally.” and “the sex itself was a mechanical act.” Were eye-opening. As a hobbyist, I have thought to believe that the main objective of sessions is predicated on having the most overwhelmingly, intense, passionate, emotional sex at its highest peak with mutual chemistry. Of course, that’s not going to happen with every single SP, but when it does that’s how your sessions are suppose to be; A full representation of being with your lover. However, these claims made by author makes me approach sessions as a one-way street. I will approach my sessions with the assumption that SPs are fully numb towards my emotional moans when she makes me cum.

I also didn’t know SPs cared about traditional dating. I’ve thought to believe that they share this philosophy of “Why see men, if they are not going to spend money on me?” “Why spend my free time on a date with a guy when I have men that are willing to pay me to be with them?”




https://medium.com/always-yours/dating-as-an-escort-was-difficult-5003ed5344

 

[luvyeah]

Not this again!

As a retired provider with nothing to gain, no! Not every provider is going to feel this way. In fact, that is probably the exception. We are human, we have feelings and we naturally develop attachments over time just like anyone else.

Stop spreading this garbage, this only serves to embitter men against women and nothing more.

While I agree...

There is a good number of women who are driven by their hate for men in this industry.
Likewise, with men wanting to abuse women.
It's a never ending shit cycle.

 

[VERYBADBOY]

Did you read any of her other stories? I think it's all fiction maybe with a little bit of truth and not good writing style as well.

I think that by now during your studies you would have come across such literature, it's pretty common. The fact that you haven't raises questions as to your methods of research.

VBB

 

[kherg007]

An over the hill generic looking bloke doesn't cause women of all stripes to cream their jeans? Hmmm....

I said it once, I'll say it again. This world is best understood through an analogy to WWE pro wrestling. As with wrestling, do not ask if it was real. Only ask if you were entertained.

That being said, as in any occupation, you enjoy interacting with some customers/clients more than others.

 

[jcpro]

Real men don't date escorts. Retired escort is a different matter. You don't share a woman with a hundred other guys, if you have any self respect.

 

[oil&gas]

Dating a high-end escort outside her business is
the best deal. You can't possibly have to spend
more than $500 per hour for a date that includes
the most sumptuous dinner. And her response
to your courting is more genuine.

 

[Smallcock]

Real men don't date escorts. Retired escort is a different matter. You don't share a woman with a hundred other guys, if you have any self respect.

Correct. A man only does that for the financial benefit of being a pimp.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Real men don't date escorts. Retired escort is a different matter. You don't share a woman with a hundred other guys, if you have any self respect.

So what's your point?lol

 

[Jasmine Raine]

I use escorting as a form of paid dating.

I enjoy the company of the gentleman I see but I prefer it in a certain way. I prefer the good, not the bad parts of relationships.

I care about my clients as friends and lovers but it is not more then that. I am not in love with any of them. I will never be in love with any of them.

I don't want to fall in love with anyone. If I did I would date normally. This does put an emotional boundary up so love is not something I have to worry about. Which is what I want.

It doesn't mean I don't care about the people I am with. It just means I will never be in love with them and I don't want them to be in love with me.

If you are looking for love, or the simulation of love, you Are in the wrong industry.

 

[J.A. Prufrock]

For me, the tip off is when they are engrossed in their cell phone while you are eating them out. Doesn't bother me a bit. We are both there to do a job.
The reason I picked that line from your scribe is that it was the stupidest.

I like making slurping sounds when I'm eating them out while they're on their phone.

"That's just the TV, mom."

 

[Insidious Von]

I like making slurping sounds when I'm eating them out while they're on their phone.

I do mouth farts on their inner thighs.

Dating is tough in general, never mind sp's. Everything is tough all over now, I nearly went medieval on a dumb guy's ass for carting three boxes of plastic bottled water out while getting my groceries done. And you wanna talk about escorts not givin a shit, WGAF.

Another beating on the markets, I need a diversion.

 

[mellowjello]

lol says the guy with 8700+ posts on TERB and obviously spends a lot of time talking and thinking about escorts. tell us more about what 'real men' are like.

if there's anything this industry has taught me, it's the inferiority complexes that certain men who *have* to pay for sex have. the boyfriends and husbands of escorts i have met are all way more attractive to me.

drop the toxic male attitude, it's not doing you any favours.

Let me get this straight.
Not sharing your woman with hundreds of other guys is toxic masculinity?

 

[esoterica]

Not this again!

As a retired provider with nothing to gain, no! Not every provider is going to feel this way. In fact, that is probably the exception. We are human, we have feelings and we naturally develop attachments over time just like anyone else.

Stop spreading this garbage, this only serves to embitter men against women and nothing more.

I’ve always enjoyed flirting and more with you.