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Then I miss the point of your post if a reaction wasn't what you were going for? So in your opinion, the solution to abuse is to... abuse back ? I miss to see how that would be helpful in any cases, maybe you can enlighten me on your thought process? Before diverting we were discussing how...

That you can afford or not, my opinion is also that you shouldn't feel any pressure in refusing to help. With the rest we are entering new waters though. Regardless of the employment, certain people are independent (a lot of sex workers are) and will do everything themselves without asking...

Agreed and it's even harder when everything in your environment pull you back into it constantly. Expecting someone to respond in a time of war is unrealistic, the most likely to happen is a reaction. Asking someone to change while keeping them on the defensive is either ignorance or sabotage.

"Manipulators also frequently use gaslighting—the process of provoking someone into an extreme or angry reaction, then blaming the other person for his or her reaction." https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/manipulation-coercion-personality-disorder-0322137 Perfect example for my previous post. So...

Well done, you stated that your comment about the rate was a personal opinion :thumb: When they beg on twitter, do you feel guilty to not contribute financially? Do they pressure you directly into contributing financially? Just curious as some providers are very "forward"/"pushy" about wanting...

That was totally unwaranted for. You are reacting with a toxic behavior to a situation that hasn't even happened. Cornering people put them on the defensive, forcing them to react instead of responding. It is definitely not the way to expect a different outcome. There is a difference between...

The way to express it as an opinion is "In my opinon most providers sees clients as a cummin wallet instead of a human being." My goal was to bring the subject without directly targeting any side of the industry, both sides do engage in these behaviors. It would be good if people could bring...

Manipulation and other toxic behaviors. Everyone has the right to a voice, we shouldn’t remove anyone’s voice as this would basically be returning them the ostracization. It is however important to call out these behaviors when we encounter them, mostly to inform the readers of the impacts of...

Why is it so important to be aware of dehumanization ? Let’s first take a look at what dehumanization is. “Dehumanization often ignores the target's individuality and can hinder one from feeling empathy or properly understanding a stigmatized group of people. “ (...

His question is based on curiosity and is fully valid. Yours on the other hand are plain passive aggressiveness. Here's a few ressources if you need help with anger management : https://www.helpguide.org/articles/relationships-communication/anger-management.htm And if you are from Ottawa...

Very well said.