Touching face/hair; generally allowed, or nah?

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I was browsing a few SP forums recently and saw a common complaint was clients touching their faces or hair, with many expressing they don't want to be touched there at all. I was a bit surprised, it seems like a pretty natural and intimate thing to gently run your hands through a girls hair as she blows you or cup her head in missionary, but a lot of people were a firm no on it. I just wanted to get a second perspective; in your experience, is touching a provider's face/hair generally allowed, or is it a big no-no? SPs, feel free to chime in as well.
 
It varies. Some girls don’t want their makeup or hair to get messed up, some guys are too rough too. Others encourage it. I’ve had some who encourage me to grab their ponytail to use as a “handle”. lol.
 
The OP is a young Asian, not of strong stature, but swift of mind; ie: one of the younger kids from Freaks and Geeks. He has a simp eye on his "Peggy Jean", Charlie Brown's crush, but this is not Heather Wold, the "Little Red Haired Girl", with whom she is often mistaken. Peggy Jean is the one who called him "Brownie Charles".

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@downbound123 knew that: https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/◄►-trivia-o-rama-all-subjects-◄►.754024/page-447

Too Slow, @MissCroft; better luck next time. Last call for a Betty shirt!

Kid, if you aren't starting your day with The Trivia threads, start doing so.

The doctor is in. Five cents, please. You have two choices: Grow-a-Pear, and just use your "Spidey sense" to get an idea of what sort of activities interest her. Ideally you'd listen to what she says, maybe in a class. If you're good at science, ask her if she'd like to be your lab partner - That's laboratory, not Labrador, chuckleheads. They thought there was a connection between "Peggy Jean", and 'pegging', because they're Bevis and Butt-head without their 'idiot-savantesque' taste in music.

The other option is to finger Sonny for the Barzini Family. (Spoiler alert: He was behind it, all along).
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Do or do not; there is no try.


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Vhat are you waiting for? Do EET! Do EEt Naow!

Here's why some providers won't accept clientele from some ethnicities: You need to be at least eighteen to see Red Foxx' advice on hygiene, and by that age, adult patterns of behaviour have already been established.

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I'm not going to post a link to a Youtube video which I'm certain would be age restricted.

Here's what you do, kid: watch the video, learn it, teach it to your friends. Don't introduce her to your parents unless you think it's going to last. It won't, but maybe give her number to @Sonic Temple; he'll TOFTT, and get all that information for you. I'm assuming that she's "Legal'; if not, nice try, Officer.

OK, kid, cough up the five cents, and get me a beer before you go; in the garage, geez... Don't these kid watch movies? Go out there, and get off your duck, young man.



The doctor is off duty. That's Howdy Duty, not his sister, Heavy Duty. This stuff just comes naturally to me.

I'll take..... Krazy Kat, for $100,000, Alex. I have a sister like that.
 
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I was browsing a few SP forums recently and saw a common complaint was clients touching their faces or hair, with many expressing they don't want to be touched there at all. I was a bit surprised, it seems like a pretty natural and intimate thing to gently run your hands through a girls hair as she blows you or cup her head in missionary, but a lot of people were a firm no on it. I just wanted to get a second perspective; in your experience, is touching a provider's face/hair generally allowed, or is it a big no-no? SPs, feel free to chime in as well.
Youre Not her boyfriend you’re a patron
 
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@Muchadoaboutnothing : From time to time, the conversation moves from the crowded and loud public drinking area to the patio, or the sidewalk, at least 9 meters from the door. You are never invited.

Ask yourself why. You observe all of the proper protocols within the public arena. You wait your turn, when two are speaking to each other. Your opinion is solicited, when two or more of the adjoining tribe congregate. Trust is demonstrated when one of the adjacent tribe asks YOU to watch their table and their mead while a lower tone is used, to impart private knowledge, among the members of the pariah club, many of whom are cousins, once removed.

Your current place is among the diverse population. Within that area, there are always different groups, each with their own chosen turf. I'll now use the Star Trek analogy.

On some outpost near the border of Empires, an artificial oasis sprouts from former desert land. In most cases, the original proprietor has long since passed on, and at one point, he did not have a successor from his own tribe who wanted to be a barkeep. At that point, he sold his liquid assets to a Ferengi, who hired some Paklets to paint the interior, make short term repairs to the plumbing, and to decorate the exterior with the tribal symbols of the tribes of whom he was trying to attract.

Within close proximity, there are many such establishments. The Klingon-only oasis is not a public place, although it was, within recorded memory. It's now hosted at a private home, and entry requirements include accompanying a member, recognized by the doorman. This private place has no background music, the light is from an open fire, and each of the tables is some distance from each other. the tables are frequently moved together, or apart, but at the cleaning interval, the patrons move the tables back to their original position, before departing in a single file, where the sequence is usually the same, but not always. Sometimes the former leader is absent. Sometimes the positions of the tail end are fluid. Drinks were free in old school establishments. At one time, the protocol was for one to buy for all at the beginning, and the honour of providing for all proceeded in turn.

The establishment is now owned by a Ferengi, who doesn't patronize the establishment himself. He does, however, hire a junior of his clan, with acute aural skills. (continued...)
 
The Ferengi have no empire of their own. They have standing within all neutral zone non-allied worlds. They have little to no presence on the inner interior of the exterior limits of each Empire's turf, with some exceptions. In your chosen public oasis, you frequently sit adjacent to the Klingon table, and you are not politely asked to move. And yet, you are not invited to join the smaller group beyond the establishment.

Why have they excluded you, you may think. They didn't; you excluded yourself, on your first visit, by displaying the mark interpreted as 'do not disturb'. They are respecting your preferred method of acquiring information and entertainment. A choice you made when you arrived is perhaps not the same one that you would make now. The Klingons know nothing of your personal preference settings and customs. Perhaps a re-visit to your chosen preferences might prompt you to change one of more of them, to reflect your current preferences, rather than your former ones.
 
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I've been given non verbal instructions to use more pages, bit to impart less on each page. That was a suggestion, not a demand. It seems that very long posts are not palatable to the majority, so that's an easy adaptation.

The Vulcan party is welcome everywhere. They purchase common beverages for the benefit of neighbouring tables, but they drink only water, themselves. To the descendants of a desert planet, water is a precious commodity. The Vulcan contingent is not looking for intoxication. They wish merely to communicate in an undisturbed way. The beverages purchased for the benefit of the surrounding groups. (topic change) (in another thread).
 
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They hate it. You’re going to give her bad skin and smelly gross oily hair. Have you even washed your hands ?

The sequence of events is often significant, as is/are the grooming ritual(s).

For example, some will urinate prior to a shower or bath. Some will urinate while showering. In some cultures, showering is not customary. It's better to urinate prior to bathing, but in some places, the option or tradition to not perform the functions simultaneously may be still observed, while the additional options may go unused. Sometimes one's body is disobedient. I can't be the only one who has repeatedly needed to take a dump immediately after having completed a shower. I look down at my buttocks, and say "Why didn't you tell me earlier? Stupid asshole." It goes without saying that an additional shower may be required, because of the lack of forethought.

It's also canon to use a cloth for the purpose of eliminating what was once known as 'will nots' or 'kling-ons' I was very fortunate that after having excised the hair between my posterior cheeks, the hair did not grow back more quickly and longer. That was never the case. It was only a prank to reduced the competition pool when a specific female may be coveted by individuals from various age peer groups. Older men wish to assist some, but not all, younger men. All information imparted by elders is not necessarily wisdom. Sometimes it's necessary to separate the wheat from the chaff.

Always use a never-before used razor when self grooming in the groin area. Always use a high quality razor, not one made strictly for export from abroad. Pay now or pay later, is the old school motto. There is some degree of faith involved, when steel and precious flesh mingle. Sufficient lubricant is a good precaution. Experience also helps. This ritual need not be maintained daily. It is essential, however, that one's private areas should be spic and span when the possibility exists that there may be a temporary union of private parts, as a result of of a chance encounter in a public location.

If you have decided that the possibility of such a scenario is statistically impossible, then there's no point in 'mowing the lawn'. It's done for you, but also done for her. When the union is of two of the same, it often doesn't matter; two of the same type often have different protocols, which ought not to interest the curious.

The traditional advice for centuries has been 'When in Rome, do as the Romans do', but that wisdom is no longer taught in schools.

The new way is that each group should maintain their former traditions in their new colonies. The two opposing views, old and new, may be summarized as 'melting pot' vs 'multiculturalism'.

I should not continue this discussion in The Lounge.
 
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Hair yes but ask first 😊
Face no for me just because of how much work it is to reapply makeup.
 
Depends on the girl but generally hair is okay to touch but never the face unless your given the okay to do so. Best option is to ask especially if it's someone new.

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@Muchadoaboutnothing : From time to time, the conversation moves from the crowded and loud public drinking area to the patio, or the sidewalk, at least 9 meters from the door. You are never invited.

Ask yourself why. You observe all of the proper protocols within the public arena. You wait your turn, when two are speaking to each other. Your opinion is solicited, when two or more of the adjoining tribe congregate. Trust is demonstrated when one of the adjacent tribe asks YOU to watch their table and their mead while a lower tone is used, to impart private knowledge, among the members of the pariah club, many of whom are cousins, once removed.

Your current place is among the diverse population. Within that area, there are always different groups, each with their own chosen turf. I'll now use the Star Trek analogy.

On some outpost near the border of Empires, an artificial oasis sprouts from former desert land. In most cases, the original proprietor has long since passed on, and at one point, he did not have a successor from his own tribe who wanted to be a barkeep. At that point, he sold his liquid assets to a Ferengi, who hired some Paklets to paint the interior, make short term repairs to the plumbing, and to decorate the exterior with the tribal symbols of the tribes of whom he was trying to attract.

Within close proximity, there are many such establishments. The Klingon-only oasis is not a public place, although it was, within recorded memory. It's now hosted at a private home, and entry requirements include accompanying a member, recognized by the doorman. This private place has no background music, the light is from an open fire, and each of the tables is some distance from each other. the tables are frequently moved together, or apart, but at the cleaning interval, the patrons move the tables back to their original position, before departing in a single file, where the sequence is usually the same, but not always. Sometimes the former leader is absent. Sometimes the positions of the tail end are fluid. Drinks were free in old school establishments. At one time, the protocol was for one to buy for all at the beginning, and the honour of providing for all proceeded in turn.

The establishment is now owned by a Ferengi, who doesn't patronize the establishment himself. He does, however, hire a junior of his clan, with acute aural skills. (continued...)
I love a bedtime story. I have never heard of mead and I don’t drink so I find it hard to place myself in this setting but I’m enjoying your fabel
 
Wow who would have thought our one point of relationship is about having to go number 2 after a shower. I believe it’s the warm water hitting the spine and nervous system and warmth awakening the body for movement. A second movement.