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Hobbying - is it Time?

Moonlight123

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Hello Fellow Terbites.

This topic might have been discussed before, if it discussed before then I apologize.

I recently decided to quit this hobby out of nowhere. I came to the realization that this hobby isn't benefiting me in anyway anymore instead it was damaging me all this time.

My questions are,

What's the longest break y'all took from hobbying?

When did you decided to quit and how did it went?


Thank you
 

bb4boy

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Hello Fellow Terbites.

This topic might have been discussed before, if it discussed before then I apologize.

I recently decided to quit this hobby out of nowhere. I came to the realization that this hobby isn't benefiting me in anyway anymore instead it was damaging me all this time.

My questions are,

What's the longest break y'all took from hobbying?

When did you decided to quit and how did it went?


Thank you
Don’t get the whole quit thing. This hobby isn’t about adding up benefits. Feeling happy and satisfied is already the main one. I’ve taken breaks when cash was low but never felt like I needed to stop.
 

Moonlight123

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Don’t get the whole quit thing. This hobby isn’t about adding up benefits. Feeling happy and satisfied is already the main one. I’ve taken breaks when cash was low but never felt like I needed to stop.
I was seeing SPs mainly to avoid the feeling of loneliness. Don't get me wrong. The pleasure was good and enjoy it and the body craves it after a period. But if quitting can benefit me in then I'll do it.
 
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ogibowt

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i got tired of it..plain and simple
cold turkey..just like when i quit smoking...and make no mistake , smoking was not a hobby....it was an addiction
that was in 2006..and i have never visited with a prostitute since...do i get the urge from time to time ? yes...but i was in my mid 50,s...and at that point, i just wanted casual relationships with women...no dashing here there and everywhere, for satisfaction which lasted until i got to my car..or about 5 minutes after the lady left
 

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Hello Fellow Terbites.

This topic might have been discussed before, if it discussed before then I apologize.

I recently decided to quit this hobby out of nowhere. I came to the realization that this hobby isn't benefiting me in anyway anymore instead it was damaging me all this time.

My questions are,

What's the longest break y'all took from hobbying?

When did you decided to quit and how did it went?


Thank you
Been there. Longest break I took was almost a year when I was actually dating someone regularly. Once that ended I slid right back. The urge still hits, but the post-session emptiness got louder the older I got. If you’re already asking the question, a hard break for a few months might tell you more than another session will.
 

Moonlight123

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Been there. Longest break I took was almost a year when I was actually dating someone regularly. Once that ended I slid right back. The urge still hits, but the post-session emptiness got louder the older I got. If you’re already asking the question, a hard break for a few months might tell you more than another session will.
Thanks, this means a lot. I'm not dating anyone but I still have the loud emptiness feeling. That's why I'm signing off.

Let's see for how long I can pull this off
 
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WillingtoSpend

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Only time I paused in the past decade was for a 2-yr relationship.

I do find the idea of "quitting" the hobby funny. If let's say you love to paint in your off time, but life gets busy and you don't paint for months or years - you wouldn't proclaim that you quit painting. Imo this same sort of thinking and language should be applied here.
 

Dang

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About 1.5 years during COVID-times.

Otherwise, a couple of months at a time when life got busy and/or I am content.

This is an escape for me and I don’t always feel a need to escape.
 

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There was the moment of realization where I got the need to bang hot girls out of my system and later being “ripped off” by a porn star with a subpar experience that was when I said okay no more.

“All I Want Is a Kind 6” Ali Wong #standup #comedian

It is better to reach this in the hobby than doing so in civie dating. In the hobby when you get to this point you have not lost your soul and become angry with women. That is when you start to attract women that is if you work out, dress well, make some good money and hold a decent conversation.
 
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Ryan_Coke

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I was very active 2013 to 2015 then gradually scaled back to a couple times a year until I stopped in 2019. The girl I had seen those last couple years (and only her for 2 years) left the business during covid. We had some family stuff right after covid, then we moved then I had stomach surgery and it was fall 2023 when I decided to see a lady I had last seen about 6 or 7 years earlier. Gradually over the next couple years I started seeing more ladies, kind of broke out of my doldrums in 2025 and went crazy this year. I was feeling burnt out a couple months ago, I saw I lot of Asians and I just wasn't getting that nice sense of post-sexual bliss anymore. I still had my regular white girl that I saw but she was pregnant and she had the baby a month ago. When I last saw her in early September, I said to her that I was going to take a break from the hobby until she was ready to get back to it. So my intention was anyway. We have similar outside interests and I see her out and about quite often. We were having a drink Friday night and as she walked to the washroom I was noticing how she was really getting her figure back and it had been 5 weeks since we last had sex and I was really starting to miss it. She had told me last week she had sex a couple times in the prior few days and figured she was about ready to come back to work. Problem was she didn't have an incall, as she rented a hotel for work, but she did a lot of car calls, usually blow jobs, as an income supplement for right now right after the baby. Car doesn't really work for me, and I really rather just get naked with her on a bed and be comfortable, so I was willing to just bide my time. She didn't to get the incall yet because she never knew how the baby was going to be and having someone to look after the baby while she worked wasn't going to be easy to make an incall worth while. But seeing her now was really getting me amped up.

She comes back to the table and says she has to leave because the baby is being fussy at home and her older kid is looking after the baby and isn't really sure what to do. So I'm sitting there after she leaves and I'm thinking about her and I text her and say if the baby settles down and your kid feels good enough to look after them again, why don't we go get the hotel room and I'll pay for it and we can get back to having some fun. Naturally as it happens, and I remember when we had new babies, she got home, got cuddling the baby and fell asleep so she didn't reply to me. But now I'm sitting there horny and decide if she's had sex already, no need for me to be celibate waiting for her lol and I call up one of my Asian places and off I go for a little midnight rendezvous. So it wasnt a big break, but 5 weeks when I have rarely gone more than 5 days the last 7 months has felt like a long time lol
 
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Great album. :D
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As for quitting - not anytime soon nor do I want to. Its a wonderful hobby where meeting beautiful people never gets old and actually keeps me young at heart.
 

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About 8 months - March 2020 to November 2020. By then a hot provider toured my city and I had to risk it 😊😊
 

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I was seeing SPs mainly to avoid the feeling of loneliness. Don't get me wrong. The pleasure was good and enjoy it and the body craves it after a period. But if quitting can benefit me in then I'll do it.
IMHO that is not a good reason to see SPs IMHO. I see them for sex. Some I am more friendly with then others. But I consider them the same as a massage therapist. or a Barber in terms of relationship.
 

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GO to sex anonymous and they will tell you their stories.
 
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