It's largely based on your diet and/or how often you nut.
Those of us with vasectomies may also notice a reduction in volume even if all the other recommendations in this thread are followed…
Yes but only bc I've conditioned my body to do it so I don't fully orgasm. I'm usually in for 8-12 80% orgasms per session if I don't cum the first 2 or 3 times it starts up. Once those first few are avoided I'll have dry orgasms for the rest of the time and when I do come at the end it's sometimes really hard to get out but then I'll bust absolute ropes. Helps me stay hard and in the pocket with them if we're having a good time since my refractory period is pretty long.
Health conditions can also contribute to this like Diabeetus, prostate irregularities, heart conditions. Hormonal changes, etc. So on top of what others have said it's a good idea to just get overall health checked.
I got a toy that hits both recently and while it definitely intensifies normal play, but I have not been able to JUST use the toy, though I don't know if that's because my button is not perticularly sensitive, or because of some of the health conditions outlined above (Beetus and Congestive heart failure in my case) or if it's because my prostate has shrunk from hormone treatment
We could start a whole nother thread about prostate orgasms but they will get dry and eventually you’ll be able to come over and over when you get it right but mostly you’ll actually make yourself come fucking buckets when you first hit it correctly.
It may be that. From what I read it was more about doing less. I can come from something that thrusts or vibrates now but starting out, a nicely curled stationary toy and a quiet room were the triggers that I eventually learned. Less like jerking off where you're trying to stimulate it constantly and more of letting the weight of it put even pressure on it and relaxing. The pressure builds if you're still and calm enough to let it roll over you.
Yeah the toy I got is a "static" one, it's a lovense edge 2, haven't used it very often however cause libido hasn't really been there. Though I have to admit I am more looking forward to how the hormone treatment is gonna change orgasms especially if I can get my doc to finally let me have Prog cause that apparently kicks the sex drive back up.
I own three massagers, an Aneros a Lelo Hugo and one that's a combination massager and cock ring/strap.
Yeah, the Aneros Progasm is the one I use the most bc it sits just right and, yeah, it sometimes makes me so hard while being so calm that it sets my nerve endings on fire. So many different ways to come.
Some of the Meds for enlarged prostate apparently do that, if you're on one, that can be the reason.
Yeah, I had something similar a while back. Still got the full sensation but almost nothing came out. For me it was mostly diet and not going as often. Prostate play later on changed the feeling quite a bit too. Still worth getting it checked if it keeps happening.
