Interesting thing happened to me...What should I do now? (confused)

onomatopoeia said:

I don't think anyone older than seven would have fallen for the fifty bucks test.

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kona said:

I would have, but then again I still pick up dimes that I come across.

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thalastjedi said:

Sex is a weapon and a tool that gets used against men, even females with maybe the most sincere intentions understand they can barter with this to hook a man, sleeping with you means nothing, sex is her currency, she is efficient at it, she comes from an industry where intercourse and sex acts are rudimentary, don't be under any delusion, they have a masters in it and older women in the industry coach these younger ones the art of attracting clients and extracting resources.

Defaulting to intercourse with you in your apartment is an example and just another pathway to be taken towards this subconsciously or consciously by her, this is the wiring.


This female has been drilled by many a men, and she will continue to drill, even if by opening a relationship with you her claims are to leave the sex work, the transition might not be easy, the juice may not be worth the squeeze and keep in mind women ALWAYS maintain a rolodex, of past and present men. Who will you be?

She will become a strain on your finances, she may have emotional and psychologically trauma, when women as a profession strip in front of men, receive all sorts of men between their legs regularly, some of us men are diabolical in how engage with these women causing trauma, psychologically women have to cope, sometimes they find it hard to form healthy meaningful relationships with men, so keep that in mind

She's delicious I know mate, you want to lick suck and fuck her, but map out a proper plan to get that, no need to purchase the cow.

It sounds like you really like her. Make it clear upfront, that you promise nothing, and you can propose an arrangement where if you invite her over you guys have sex and you pay her for her time. Ultimately the money is what she wants and what she needs. Do not get caught being a sucker.

Above all you should always be in self preservation mode, ask yourself how does she provide value to yourself, because she will undoubtedly take away from you.

Paramount protect yourself, protect what you have worked for and what you have.

I personally think if a relationship is what your after you seek another girl with different resume Also apologies because I've made some sweeping generalization in my post

Govern yourself wisely.

Cheers

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Eli_H2da said:

Who is this? The misogynistic David Attenborough Nephew?

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CH812 said:

Ok had an interesting story happened to me over the weekend and now I am a little twisted inside and dont know what to do next...

Since I had alot of work to do I decided this weekend I was going to dedicate to getting some deep work done, my plan was to start on Saturday afternoon after I had lunch. For lunch, I decided to get some takeout at one of my favourite food spots in the outer boroughs of the city. I got in my car and headed there to pick up my takeout order. After arriving at the restaurant , which is located in a strip mall, I picked up my food and was walking back to my car when I saw a woman who looked familiar. We made eye contact so I figured she recognized me as well. As I walked by her I said "Hey I know you" .

She is a girl who used to work at strip club about 10 years ago and who I hooked up with p4p on a couple occasions. She was always exactly my type, she has dark curly and very curvy (especially the lower half of her body) anyways shes older now and a little heavier but still very attractive in my eyes. I also kind of fell for her in the past, we shared some good times and did have some great sex so I did kind of get a little bit heartbroken when I tried to pursue a relationship with her but she basically explained to me that since we met inside the club and I knew her from the club it could only be about business between us so I respected that and afterwards distanced myself from her.

But when we saw eachother we chatted I told her it was nice to see her after so long and that I recently just moved back into the city after being gone for some years. She said she was waiting for her Uber to arrive so I told her to cancel the Uber and I will give her a ride. We then got into my car which I have to admit is an impressive car for women who are into what kind of car a man drives. While driving in my car I asked her where I should drop her off and she responded "I dont even know" and then asked me what my plans were. I told her I had plans to work and just was here to pick up my lunch. She then asked if she could hang out with me and I said sure if she doesn't mind going back to my place where I needed to work. She said sure, so we drove back to my place.

After arriving at my place I offered her part of my lunch but she declined and instead asked for something to drink. I had some Crown Royale so I poured her a glass with some ice and she drank while I finished my food. I then I showed her around my apartment and told her I needed to work in my office but I have a loveseat sofa in there so I told her she could sit with me there and listen to music/watch TV while I worked. After about another hour or so of me working and having some small talk with her she asks me "Do you mind if I take a shower?" I replied no and got her a fresh towel. After her shower she asked if I had something comfortable she could wear inside my place so I gave her an oversize sweatshirt I had and after that whe was just hanging around with me in my office wearing my sweatshirt and her thong underwear. At this point I really couldn't concentrate on my work anymore so I had a drink with her and sat with her on the couch. We chatted more until our lips finally met... We started making out which was crazy to me because when we hooked up before p4p she would never kiss me we just did the deed. but now here we are making out and touching eachother. Eventually we headed to my bedroom and the rest goes without saying.... After that we watched some movies, had a few more drinks and ordered food later in the night. She ended up staying over for more passionate sex that night and same thing on Sunday.... She ended up staying with me until Monday morning when I dropped her home.

She said she lives with her mom and takes care of her because she currently has some health issues, where she lives is a modest rental apartment building and job wise she said when not taking care of her mom she has a dog walking business and also is a waitress in a restaurant.

Since she left I haven't been able to stop thinking about her and the couple nights of passion we had, we have texted back and fourth since that night and she wants to see me again over this weekend coming up (so far has also not asked me for any $$$ nor has she implied shes looking for that) but I still know what kind of past she comes from and don't know if I want that especially since where I am in my life and career right now. And she did reject me before and my rule has always been if a girl rejects me I just consider her dead (Mr. Wonderful style) and move on.

But this time with her feels a little different especially considering the chemistry we have, so any advice on what I should do next? Should I risk my feelings with this girl or just have fun? Or maybe just enjoy the memory of the couple nights we have but cut her off? I am especially interested in what some of the ladies think I should do... Anyways if anyone has any thoughts or any advice to share I would love to hear it. Thanks in advance.

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thalastjedi said:

Mate I've noticed that you have read my post if you can glean any value from what I've written, then I am satisfied with the outcome of my post. The contribution at the moment seems mocking as more viable a contribution, as we are already distracting from the original post. I'll remove my post so we can stay on topic, I reckon if I begin responding to few of these posts the thread could get overtaken needlessly, there are some great contributors on this forum board I have no doubt you'll get some solid feedback to your question
Cheers

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