Ok had an interesting story happened to me over the weekend and now I am a little twisted inside and dont know what to do next...
Since I had alot of work to do I decided this weekend I was going to dedicate to getting some deep work done, my plan was to start on Saturday afternoon after I had lunch. For lunch, I decided to get some takeout at one of my favourite food spots in the outer boroughs of the city. I got in my car and headed there to pick up my takeout order. After arriving at the restaurant , which is located in a strip mall, I picked up my food and was walking back to my car when I saw a woman who looked familiar. We made eye contact so I figured she recognized me as well. As I walked by her I said "Hey I know you" .
She is a girl who used to work at strip club about 10 years ago and who I hooked up with p4p on a couple occasions. She was always exactly my type, she has dark curly and very curvy (especially the lower half of her body) anyways shes older now and a little heavier but still very attractive in my eyes. I also kind of fell for her in the past, we shared some good times and did have some great sex so I did kind of get a little bit heartbroken when I tried to pursue a relationship with her but she basically explained to me that since we met inside the club and I knew her from the club it could only be about business between us so I respected that and afterwards distanced myself from her.
But when we saw eachother we chatted I told her it was nice to see her after so long and that I recently just moved back into the city after being gone for some years. She said she was waiting for her Uber to arrive so I told her to cancel the Uber and I will give her a ride. We then got into my car which I have to admit is an impressive car for women who are into what kind of car a man drives. While driving in my car I asked her where I should drop her off and she responded "I dont even know" and then asked me what my plans were. I told her I had plans to work and just was here to pick up my lunch. She then asked if she could hang out with me and I said sure if she doesn't mind going back to my place where I needed to work. She said sure, so we drove back to my place.
After arriving at my place I offered her part of my lunch but she declined and instead asked for something to drink. I had some Crown Royale so I poured her a glass with some ice and she drank while I finished my food. I then I showed her around my apartment and told her I needed to work in my office but I have a loveseat sofa in there so I told her she could sit with me there and listen to music/watch TV while I worked. After about another hour or so of me working and having some small talk with her she asks me "Do you mind if I take a shower?" I replied no and got her a fresh towel. After her shower she asked if I had something comfortable she could wear inside my place so I gave her an oversize sweatshirt I had and after that whe was just hanging around with me in my office wearing my sweatshirt and her thong underwear. At this point I really couldn't concentrate on my work anymore so I had a drink with her and sat with her on the couch. We chatted more until our lips finally met... We started making out which was crazy to me because when we hooked up before p4p she would never kiss me we just did the deed. but now here we are making out and touching eachother. Eventually we headed to my bedroom and the rest goes without saying.... After that we watched some movies, had a few more drinks and ordered food later in the night. She ended up staying over for more passionate sex that night and same thing on Sunday.... She ended up staying with me until Monday morning when I dropped her home.
She said she lives with her mom and takes care of her because she currently has some health issues, where she lives is a modest rental apartment building and job wise she said when not taking care of her mom she has a dog walking business and also is a waitress in a restaurant.
Since she left I haven't been able to stop thinking about her and the couple nights of passion we had, we have texted back and fourth since that night and she wants to see me again over this weekend coming up (so far has also not asked me for any $$$ nor has she implied shes looking for that) but I still know what kind of past she comes from and don't know if I want that especially since where I am in my life and career right now. And she did reject me before and my rule has always been if a girl rejects me I just consider her dead (Mr. Wonderful style) and move on.
But this time with her feels a little different especially considering the chemistry we have, so any advice on what I should do next? Should I risk my feelings with this girl or just have fun? Or maybe just enjoy the memory of the couple nights we have but cut her off? I am especially interested in what some of the ladies think I should do... Anyways if anyone has any thoughts or any advice to share I would love to hear it. Thanks in advance.
Since I had alot of work to do I decided this weekend I was going to dedicate to getting some deep work done, my plan was to start on Saturday afternoon after I had lunch. For lunch, I decided to get some takeout at one of my favourite food spots in the outer boroughs of the city. I got in my car and headed there to pick up my takeout order. After arriving at the restaurant , which is located in a strip mall, I picked up my food and was walking back to my car when I saw a woman who looked familiar. We made eye contact so I figured she recognized me as well. As I walked by her I said "Hey I know you" .
She is a girl who used to work at strip club about 10 years ago and who I hooked up with p4p on a couple occasions. She was always exactly my type, she has dark curly and very curvy (especially the lower half of her body) anyways shes older now and a little heavier but still very attractive in my eyes. I also kind of fell for her in the past, we shared some good times and did have some great sex so I did kind of get a little bit heartbroken when I tried to pursue a relationship with her but she basically explained to me that since we met inside the club and I knew her from the club it could only be about business between us so I respected that and afterwards distanced myself from her.
But when we saw eachother we chatted I told her it was nice to see her after so long and that I recently just moved back into the city after being gone for some years. She said she was waiting for her Uber to arrive so I told her to cancel the Uber and I will give her a ride. We then got into my car which I have to admit is an impressive car for women who are into what kind of car a man drives. While driving in my car I asked her where I should drop her off and she responded "I dont even know" and then asked me what my plans were. I told her I had plans to work and just was here to pick up my lunch. She then asked if she could hang out with me and I said sure if she doesn't mind going back to my place where I needed to work. She said sure, so we drove back to my place.
After arriving at my place I offered her part of my lunch but she declined and instead asked for something to drink. I had some Crown Royale so I poured her a glass with some ice and she drank while I finished my food. I then I showed her around my apartment and told her I needed to work in my office but I have a loveseat sofa in there so I told her she could sit with me there and listen to music/watch TV while I worked. After about another hour or so of me working and having some small talk with her she asks me "Do you mind if I take a shower?" I replied no and got her a fresh towel. After her shower she asked if I had something comfortable she could wear inside my place so I gave her an oversize sweatshirt I had and after that whe was just hanging around with me in my office wearing my sweatshirt and her thong underwear. At this point I really couldn't concentrate on my work anymore so I had a drink with her and sat with her on the couch. We chatted more until our lips finally met... We started making out which was crazy to me because when we hooked up before p4p she would never kiss me we just did the deed. but now here we are making out and touching eachother. Eventually we headed to my bedroom and the rest goes without saying.... After that we watched some movies, had a few more drinks and ordered food later in the night. She ended up staying over for more passionate sex that night and same thing on Sunday.... She ended up staying with me until Monday morning when I dropped her home.
She said she lives with her mom and takes care of her because she currently has some health issues, where she lives is a modest rental apartment building and job wise she said when not taking care of her mom she has a dog walking business and also is a waitress in a restaurant.
Since she left I haven't been able to stop thinking about her and the couple nights of passion we had, we have texted back and fourth since that night and she wants to see me again over this weekend coming up (so far has also not asked me for any $$$ nor has she implied shes looking for that) but I still know what kind of past she comes from and don't know if I want that especially since where I am in my life and career right now. And she did reject me before and my rule has always been if a girl rejects me I just consider her dead (Mr. Wonderful style) and move on.
But this time with her feels a little different especially considering the chemistry we have, so any advice on what I should do next? Should I risk my feelings with this girl or just have fun? Or maybe just enjoy the memory of the couple nights we have but cut her off? I am especially interested in what some of the ladies think I should do... Anyways if anyone has any thoughts or any advice to share I would love to hear it. Thanks in advance.
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