Grinded too much, now my penis is red. Have I permanently damaged it?

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I kept grinding through my underwear. No lube, nothing

Afterwards, my penis was red and sore

I googled it, and it mentioned the super sensitive nerves and how they can get damaged. How the skin can get calloused etc. All things leading to reduced pleasure

Has this ever happened to you? Did you recover sensation FULLY?

At what point is friction too much, that permanent damage occurs?

And again, it was red

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reviewer_person said:
I kept grinding through my underwear. No lube, nothing

Afterwards, my penis was red and sore

I googled it, and it mentioned the super sensitive nerves and how they can get damaged. How the skin can get calloused etc. All things leading to reduced pleasure

Has this ever happened to you? Did you recover sensation FULLY?

At what point is friction too much, that permanent damage occurs?

And again, it was red

Thanks
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When I was a teenager and "dry runs" were a thing, sometimes I would notice afterwards that the skin of my dick had suffered a bit of abrasion.

Just laid off sexual activity for a few days, and then all was healed and well.

Even the ache of the "blue balls" eventually dissipated!

Absolutely no permanent damage...
 
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xmontrealer said:
When I was a teenager and "dry runs" were a thing, sometimes I would notice afterwards that the skin of my dick had suffered a bit of abrasion.

Just laid off sexual activity for a few days, and then all was healed and well.

Even the ache of the "blue balls" eventually dissipated!

Absolutely no permanent damage...
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perhaps you need a cute girl to kiss it better
 
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xmontrealer said:
When I was a teenager and "dry runs" were a thing, sometimes I would notice afterwards that the skin of my dick had suffered a bit of abrasion.

Just laid off sexual activity for a few days, and then all was healed and well.

Even the ache of the "blue balls" eventually dissipated!

Absolutely no permanent damage...
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Oh I see. My grinding was against my own underwear

So what were your abrasion symptoms?

And good to hear that. I'm never gonna grind again in my life
 
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reviewer_person said:
Oh I see. My grinding was against my own underwear

So what were your abrasion symptoms?

And good to hear that. I'm never gonna grind again in my life
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Of course grinding against your own underwear. That's "dry humping". Usually a young man thing, as experienced guys won't bother.

Just the loss of a layer or two of the skin on the underside of the shaft of my dick near it's head, perhaps .5 inch in diameter. (hard to remember as we're going back over 60 years here...)

But still at least one layer of skin left in that area. Painful to my touch when bare later, but nothing else.

Healed within a couple of days.

OP, you are "making a mountain out of a molehill"...
 
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Give it 2 weeks off.
Had an abrasion myself once. Ya get panicked like ya caught something but tests and direct examinations said no, doc says just give it 2 weeks. And it was fine.
 
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xmontrealer said:
Of course grinding against your own underwear. That's "dry humping". Usually a young man thing, as experienced guys won't bother.

Just the loss of a layer or two of the skin on the underside of the shaft of my dick near it's head, perhaps .5 inch in diameter. (hard to remember as we're going back over 60 years here...)

But still at least one layer of skin left in that area. Painful to my touch when bare later, but nothing else.

Healed within a couple of days.

OP, you are "making a mountain out of a molehill"...
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Yeah I guess I am making a mountain out of a molehill. I guess I read too much online about nerve damage haha

Thanks!
 
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OMG dude... one of my best nights ever with a woman was making out and grinding only. HOURS of it! Like road rash raw! Took a week to be back to normal but the memories last a lifetime of that fiery redhead! Also... no... it will NOT kill nerve endings. Get off the fucking internet and go see an MD if you're worried. We abuse the shit out of our cocks. They're built to take damage!

The only caveat: do NOT have sex with a woman without a condom until it heals. Much more susceptible to everything.
 
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OMG dude... one of my best nights ever with a woman was making out and grinding only. HOURS of it! Like road rash raw! Took a week to be back to normal but the memories last a lifetime of that fiery redhead! Also... no... it will NOT kill nerve endings. Get off the fucking internet and go see an MD if you're worried. We abuse the shit out of our cocks. They're built to take damage!

The only caveat: do NOT have sex with a woman without a condom until it heals. Much more susceptible to everything.
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How bad was the redness for you? Any pain?

And after a week, did you heal fully back to normal? With full sensation and pleasure?
 
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