What is it about hand jobs?

massman

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One of the only main porn producers in Canada, "Jerky Girls," focuses on hand jobs as their niche. This was my first experience in the industry ever, now this video has 50 million pirated views, last time I checked. Now he is based out of Kingston, ON of all places, as he's one of those dudes that dislikes Toronto. Would be worth his time to grit and bear it and just come do mass shoots here once in awhile, but, alas, people can be stuck in their ways. I've got some fun stories from filming with him and his crew that I enjoy sharing during bookings.
Haha, remember Jerky Girls from back in the day. There were more than a few known Canadian SPs who starred in those videos!
 
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Is it because it was our first girlfrind? Or because we would like a women to do it as well as we do it to ourselves, with the right timing and pressure? There are a lot of guys who rave about the service they get at a massage parlour; no full service, no BJ, just a good date with Ms Palmer and her 5 daughters. Although I prefer more for the money, I just have to admit that a good hand job is hard to beat, pun unintended.
A well executed hj, especially if preceded by a relaxing and teasing massage is an amazing experience. While I will often cave if more than a hj is on offer, a good hj can make me have the most intense orgasm. I see hj as more of a totally orgasm focused experience, vs the more whole body sensual experience of sex. They are different experiences, and I still sometimes specifically seek a total low mileage, even fully clothed (MPA, not me) expert massage and hj. Leave there feeling ultimately relaxed and de-stressed.
 
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Some SPs know but
I have found a lot of SPs are terrible at HJ. I will admit I'm a tuff nut to crack. Takes me a long time to cum.

But if we're near the finish and she doing HJ most are are stroking the shaft and down to the base. This is fine but completely ignoring the head is a big mistake.

Some will go to a jackhammer pace right from the start. This doesn't work for me. Slow with some twisting. Build up to a faster pace. And there is varying grip pressure to.

Any SPs interested DM for a possible consulting session :cool::p
Agree wholeheartedly. I won’t get off by just stroking the shaft up and down. In fact it’s likely to make me go numb and take much longer to cum, just the same way a condom or cock ring that is too tight can do. The nerves that supply the penis are pretty superficial, and rapid firm stroking of the shaft can make you numb. At least for us circumcised guys, head stimulation is very important.
 

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That kind of hand job is what to look for.

Expertly done complete with edging and her use of her thumb on the underside at the tip. Two hands on either side of shaft with both thumbs working the tip is also a good variation.
And if the woman is paying attention to your reactions and not staying on in one particular technique but returning to those techniques where you had the stronger reactions makes for a better HJ
 

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I see a lot of guys talking about technique, and I want to point out, the key is communication. The person giving the HJ has no idea what you are feeling and what feels good, is too hard, too fast etc unless you tell them.

I've either used verbal feedback or even held an SPs wrist (at her request) and guided her hand to show her how I like it. This is where repeating with the same SP is beneficial as they get to know your body.

Just like we like feedback during DATY, they would love feedback during BJ/HJ.
 

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I see a lot of guys talking about technique, and I want to point out, the key is communication. The person giving the HJ has no idea what you are feeling and what feels good, is too hard, too fast etc unless you tell them.

I've either used verbal feedback or even held an SPs wrist (at her request) and guided her hand to show her how I like it. This is where repeating with the same SP is beneficial as they get to know your body.

Just like we like feedback during DATY, they would love feedback during BJ/HJ.
I must say that a lot of women do NOT listen to my communication. Oh, they do initially, I tell them I like it slow, NEVER go fast, but as I get closer they speed up, I remind them, but no, they speed up again.

They think it makes me cum faster, but it doesn't, jackhammer is annoying to me.
 

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I must say that a lot of women do NOT listen to my communication. Oh, they do initially, I tell them I like it slow, NEVER go fast, but as I get closer they speed up, I remind them, but no, they speed up again.

They think it makes me cum faster, but it doesn't, jackhammer is annoying to me.
I've definitely had to tell a couple "when I say I'm getting close, DO NOT CHANGE ANYTHING". I think there's a natural tendency to play off your excitement and go faster or harder

But I can lose it if they do that.
 
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I retired late last year from this hobby. Was seeing 1 or 2 SPs a year past 5 years when I got into this hobby. Almost all ladies don't listen. They enjoy acting like a brat. Most typically hate when told and don't care to listen. It's probably a reason why most can't land a job and keep it. They like to do things their way. And since most dislike men they try to finish off quick.

I've booked ladies for a H or even 2 and prior to asked for slow edging and they act like after 10 mins it's an issue. These women don't care to work. They'd never survive a labour job at a factory or warehouse.

They just wanna make an easy buck similar to folks at carnivals running rigged games. Then when most don't listen they white lie and say just book again.

I find most seem to be single because they act highly selfish. They think a guy asking nicely for something is a turn off. As if he's the problem and trying to be controlling.

At least in the dating world I find women more caring and typically don't dislike men in general.
Looks like the wrong hobby for you bro.
 

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What's the best position to be in for a HJ when with an MPA? The typical lying on my back doesn't give the best view or feel of the goods.
I love sitting up and she is on her knees in front of me or sitting up as well. She is playing with my balls and stroking nice a slow down and up. And, I'm making out with her while she is doing it. I could be playing with her clit, or playing with her boobs, etc. Awesome experience doing it this way!
 
Before I started massaging, I’d never given a partner a handjob or been asked to. Now? I see it’s an art form: theres the anticipation, you must communicate effectively and be totally open/relaxed to “succumb” to a handy, but the right provider brings you to this point naturally and with relative ease. That’s just my opinion though 🤷🏾‍♀️😂😅
 
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