What is it about hand jobs?

It is an age and condom thing when you get older to get a cum.

Same thing in middle age for the second cum in a session.

It is easy and instinctive for a lady to vary the pressure and speed with a handjob. I guess it is more difficult to do that with the mouth. You meet a few miracle girls who can, including varying the saliva level. I find that younger ladies are less talented at varying mouth intensity and saliva. Sometimes they get it when you say sloppy blowjob. A lot go immediately to deep throating, I guess because of porn, where personally I can’t feel a fucking thing.

For some guys, especially as they get older, you just can’t feel enough in vaginal with a condom on to cum. It is still a great warm-up for the hand-job finale. Unfortunately, even getting hard enough to get the condom on to get in vaginally for the first or second cum becomes an issue as guy’s age. That is even more of an issue for anal sex.

And of course there are some young guys with nerves issues and hand jobs are a great way to start sex if erectile issues occur.

And they help the paranoid who are certain that covered vaginal or uncovered oral sex will get them a disease. Ideally, they will someday understand that dealing with a 0.0000000000000000001 percent risk is doable.

But we want everyone to be happy in this activity, and a ladies hand has its place. Other than finding a true fellatio BBBJTCIMNQNS expert, the orgasm lasts longer and until the very end for a handjob compared to finishing in the condom vaginally or anally.

I suppose for the budget limited, a few bucks are saved for hand-only sex. A big thing in reviews for hand-only places is the amount of roaming allowed beforehand.

great answer

Plus the sense of touch from a lady on your body stimulates you more
HJ BJ or FS sends endorphins flowing.
Especially if they are skilled at it

Patron said:

It is an age and condom thing when you get older to get a cum.

Same thing in middle age for the second cum in a session.

It is easy and instinctive for a lady to vary the pressure and speed with a handjob. I guess it is more difficult to do that with the mouth. You meet a few miracle girls who can, including varying the saliva level. I find that younger ladies are less talented at varying mouth intensity and saliva. Sometimes they get it when you say sloppy blowjob. A lot go immediately to deep throating, I guess because of porn, where personally I can’t feel a fucking thing.

For some guys, especially as they get older, you just can’t feel enough in vaginal with a condom on to cum. It is still a great warm-up for the hand-job finale. Unfortunately, even getting hard enough to get the condom on to get in vaginally for the first or second cum becomes an issue as guy’s age. That is even more of an issue for anal sex.

And of course there are some young guys with nerves issues and hand jobs are a great way to start sex if erectile issues occur.

And they help the paranoid who are certain that covered vaginal or uncovered oral sex will get them a disease. Ideally, they will someday understand that dealing with a 0.0000000000000000001 percent risk is doable.

But we want everyone to be happy in this activity, and a ladies hand has its place. Other than finding a true fellatio BBBJTCIMNQNS expert, the orgasm lasts longer and until the very end for a handjob compared to finishing in the condom vaginally or anally.

I suppose for the budget limited, a few bucks are saved for hand-only sex. A big thing in reviews for hand-only places is the amount of roaming allowed beforehand.

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Couldn't have said it better myself. You nailed it. As much as I love PIV and the visuals and sounds, love a good sloppy BJ etc, HJ has so far been the most reliable and most enjoyable way to get this middle aged guy who never used condoms before to the finish line.

I once had a GF that was a master at the combo HJ/BJ, so much so that she once proved to me that once I am very excited, and if she blocked my view of the activities with her body, I had no idea whether she was using her mouth or her hand at any given moment.

That was a skill.

I really like Patron's reply, it's nice to hear some of the "issues" aren't really 'issues if they are wide spread. I'm upper mid 50's now, and been hobbying for about 15 years. When I started, I was a pretty quick fuck even with a condom. Now it's probably 50% of the time where I can even finish in a condom in intercourse. I still feel like a "less than" session if I don't have sex even if I don't finish there. There is something to be said about a big HJ splash though. Not just a usual ejaculation, but some volume distance and speed on it. Last month, a lady I have seen for a while was giving me the HJ at the end and I had several days of build up. As I was cumming, I held the splash back as hard as I could and then gave it an extra push. I ended up covering her chest and upper left arm, fortunately she had me angled the right way or it would have hit her face. I don't know how many "Oh my god, I wasn't expecting that" she said, but it was a pretty good finish.

Another recent example, I saw a lady I have seen several times over the last year and change. Typically I finish inside her but sometimes it's by hand. She had mentioned one time when I wasn't staying hard that she had Viagra for future reference. I said I typically use a Cialis but it had been a couple days so maybe I was at the tail end of the effectiveness. Anyway, it was a hh appt that day so it wouldn't have been enough time to use a V anyway. Well last Sunday I texted her and asked if she thought if I took a V when I got there if it would take affect within an hour appt. She suggested not eating first but that yes she's had several guys do that and be good to go half hour or 45 minutes in and we could do a massage and some other stuff in the meantime. Anyway, it didn't kick in to give me a good solid wood, I was getting the usual semi hardon or the quick hard and then soft thing going on, or where she would give me oral and hand to get me hard to get the condom on but she would get me to the brink. She managed to get me partially in her but I wasn't hard enough to stay in and kept slipping out. She asked if I wanted her to suck it out of me. Sure I said lol. So into 69 we went and started going at each other. I got good and hard again but it felt so good I didn't dare stop this and have her waste another condom to try to fuck again. I warned her I was about to cum and she kept going, man she knows what she's doing with her mouth for sure. I had never cum in her mouth before, didn't even know she did that. She did go and spit but not right away because she was starting to cum herself and she rode my face good and hard for her own finish. I just hope it tasted OK for that extra time she had it in her mouth. Easily the most intense oral orgasm I ever had.

One of the only main porn producers in Canada, "Jerky Girls," focuses on hand jobs as their niche. This was my first experience in the industry ever, now this video has 50 million pirated views, last time I checked. Now he is based out of Kingston, ON of all places, as he's one of those dudes that dislikes Toronto. Would be worth his time to grit and bear it and just come do mass shoots here once in awhile, but, alas, people can be stuck in their ways. I've got some fun stories from filming with him and his crew that I enjoy sharing during bookings.

Boss Nass said:

Is it because it was our first girlfrind? Or because we would like a women to do it as well as we do it to ourselves, with the right timing and pressure? There are a lot of guys who rave about the service they get at a massage parlour; no full service, no BJ, just a good date with Ms Palmer and her 5 daughters. Although I prefer more for the money, I just have to admit that a good hand job is hard to beat, pun unintended.

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Some SPs know but
I have found a lot of SPs are terrible at HJ. I will admit I'm a tuff nut to crack. Takes me a long time to cum.

But if we're near the finish and she doing HJ most are are stroking the shaft and down to the base. This is fine but completely ignoring the head is a big mistake.

Some will go to a jackhammer pace right from the start. This doesn't work for me. Slow with some twisting. Build up to a faster pace. And there is varying grip pressure to.

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Endurance2024 said:

Some SPs know but
I have found a lot of SPs are terrible at HJ. I will admit I'm a tuff nut to crack. Takes me a long time to cum.

But if we're near the finish and she doing HJ most are are stroking the shaft and down to the base. This is fine but completely ignoring the head is a big mistake.

Some will go to a jackhammer pace right from the start. This doesn't work for me. Slow with some twisting. Build up to a faster pace. And there is varying grip pressure to.

Any SPs interested DM for a possible consulting session

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Completely ignoring the head - I couldn't agree more! Why do they do that? Everything is going great then they start going UP TO the head but that's it.

I also feel a good HJ is waaaay better than anything else in a domination type fantasy scenario. There is something psychologically triggering about it for me at least. In a hot way.

I guess the one GREAT thing about very old age I am looking forward to is those sponge baths by sexy young PSWs.....(if only!).

What's the best position to be in for a HJ when with an MPA? The typical lying on my back doesn't give the best view or feel of the goods.

We should appreciate the ladies who are good at it. One of my favorites says it is all about varying the intensity.

This young (German, I think) lady didn’t understand the concept at all.


And my favorite dirty singing girls did an entire video about how difficult a skill it is to learn.

I went to see a lady who finished the session with a nuru massage an HJ.

The technique she used brought on an intense orgasm though I sort of regret not opting for a Russian finish as she was busty and using the warmed gel as lubricant would have felt amazing!

To me, a great hand job is what I call cock worshipping. Similar to pussy worshipping. Not sticking fingers inside the pussy and pumping furiously. Cock and pussy worshipping involve slow and progressive stimulation of the entire area, with focus fluidly changing from one zone to another, with varying degrees of speed and pressure. Lots of lubrication and eye contact and communicating how it feels. It should last a long time with speed and pressure progressively increasing with the level of excitement, with periods of slowing down and picking up again until the “victim” is essentially begging to be brought to an explosive orgasm.

Was with my London favourite yesterday and after she finished me by hand she said "I picked up on the instructions you were giving me with your hand on my back". I was kind of lost in the feeling and didn't even realize I was rubbing her back the way I wanted her to rub my cock. She did have memory of the last time where she wore some of it and angled my dick more to my chest than hers lol.

Personally, I don't like hand jobs. Many times women are too rough. BBJ, yes, love them. Rubbing on nice titties, hard nipples, camel slide, yes, all great. This is also the reason I have never wanted to see a MP, albeit, if I can get to the non hj part, for my he, that would work.

SamanthaJones69 said:

One of the only main porn producers in Canada, "Jerky Girls," focuses on hand jobs as their niche. This was my first experience in the industry ever, now this video has 50 million pirated views, last time I checked. Now he is based out of Kingston, ON of all places, as he's one of those dudes that dislikes Toronto. Would be worth his time to grit and bear it and just come do mass shoots here once in awhile, but, alas, people can be stuck in their ways. I've got some fun stories from filming with him and his crew that I enjoy sharing during bookings.

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I took a look and it seems to be mostly up and down jacking off. Not much cock worshipping with ball play, gentle rubbing of the head and edging. Kinda jackhammering...

That kind of hand job is what to look for.

I find a hand job sexy. But at the massage parlor you usually get a little more like daty touching etc. If I want a plain hand job, I'll go to a chinese place get a good massage and a hand job.

Fritz the Cat said:

I took a look and it seems to be mostly up and down jacking off. Not much cock worshipping with ball play, gentle rubbing of the head and edging. Kinda jackhammering...

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Oh me? LOL, this was 10 years ago before I took my craft seriously!!!

Fritz the Cat said:

That kind of hand job is what to look for.

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Me too, though ideally I’d like her lips wrapped over it when I cum.