never made sense to count for me. I think anyone that does treats women like a trophy collection. But if I had to guess, probably 40-50
I know a few women who treat men like a trophy collection ( victory markings or kill markings or mission markings or mission symbols ). The next level is to take his money and leave him empty. The third level is to take his house + and leave him for death.
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started in 2018, I used to be in long term relationships with normal women, decided they can’t give me what I want so I bounced and been jumping into different ladies since then, I’m close to 100 because I stick to fewer quantity.. I don’t use agencies anymore, I only see submissive broads now.
If you don't use agencies, where do you hobby? Leolist? Tryst? SA/SD?
I starting going to strip clubs in 2001ish, in my mid 20's. Initially it was just to satisfy my intense interest/fastination (later fetish) with fake boobs. As far as I knew, strip clubs were the only place I could have "hands on experience" with breast implants, and I was not disappointed! When I got married, I promised myself I'd the strip clubs. That lasted about one month. 
I did try going to an escort once in my early or mid 30's. I had a nice enough time, but the guilt of being dishonest to my wife was way too much, so I didn't try again for a long time.
Later, around 2017ish, I went to my first massage parlour. Prior to this point, I had the wrong impression of the MP scene - I incorrectly thought it was all very dodgy, dirty, and illegal. And very very dishonest to my wife. Yet, I found myself in Montreal for work, where it somehow didn't seem dodgy, dirty and was somehow more obvious to me that it was legal, so I gave it ago. Coincidently, the attendant was from Toronto, and she was surprised to learn this was my first time. "Why don't you go to the parlours in Toronto? They're way nicer than here." This came to me as such a surprise. Eventually, I did go to Pure for the first time, and holy fuck was I impressed. Apparently the dishonesty part mattered less, though I did (and still) maintain a strict no full service rule. I simply cannot subject myself or my wife to an STI.
Since I had a self-imposed budget of no more than $200 per month for the strip clubs, after that first MP experience I decided I had better maintain that budget even for the now expanded 'hobby' - or else I'd blow everything! That basically meant I could either go to the SC a few times a month, or the MPs once. I kinda liked that restriction, making both forms of the hobby all the more special. I still like SCs. I love the hunt. I love seeing all the girls. I love getting a read on their vibe before getting dances, something you can't really do at a MP. Of course, I also love bodyslides and Russian finishes more than anything on this planet. Both have their perks! I have tried a few more SPs since, but as someone who doesn't want full service, MPs are honestly good enough. Actually, more than good enough - I prefer them because the venue is always a lot more predictable.
When the pandemic started, that obviously meant no SCs for a while. I still went to the MPs, but rarely. Getting the chance to "sneak away" suddenly became difficult too. Unfortunately, that aspect of life hasn't changed since covid restrictions went away. It is now so very very rare I get to partake. Just as well that it's rare now, as my income has never recovered since covid. Now I look back at that $200 budget as a luxury of the past!
I've been back to the Rail a handful of times since the pandemic, first time back was only a year ago. I'd go more often, but again sneaking out and coming home smelling like dancer isn't an option anymore (somehow the pandemic made my wife a night owl... doh!) Maybe once every couple of months I'll manage to get to an MP. Though, as I type this I realize that's not true. It's way less frequent than that! I had to look it up, my last MP was in July with Valerina, and before that... I don't even remember!
I'm really jonesing for an MP experience. Alas, I do live in a sexless marriage. We love each other very much, but we just don't do it for each other in the intimacy department.
I did try going to an escort once in my early or mid 30's. I had a nice enough time, but the guilt of being dishonest to my wife was way too much, so I didn't try again for a long time.
Later, around 2017ish, I went to my first massage parlour. Prior to this point, I had the wrong impression of the MP scene - I incorrectly thought it was all very dodgy, dirty, and illegal. And very very dishonest to my wife. Yet, I found myself in Montreal for work, where it somehow didn't seem dodgy, dirty and was somehow more obvious to me that it was legal, so I gave it ago. Coincidently, the attendant was from Toronto, and she was surprised to learn this was my first time. "Why don't you go to the parlours in Toronto? They're way nicer than here." This came to me as such a surprise. Eventually, I did go to Pure for the first time, and holy fuck was I impressed. Apparently the dishonesty part mattered less, though I did (and still) maintain a strict no full service rule. I simply cannot subject myself or my wife to an STI.
Since I had a self-imposed budget of no more than $200 per month for the strip clubs, after that first MP experience I decided I had better maintain that budget even for the now expanded 'hobby' - or else I'd blow everything! That basically meant I could either go to the SC a few times a month, or the MPs once. I kinda liked that restriction, making both forms of the hobby all the more special. I still like SCs. I love the hunt. I love seeing all the girls. I love getting a read on their vibe before getting dances, something you can't really do at a MP. Of course, I also love bodyslides and Russian finishes more than anything on this planet. Both have their perks! I have tried a few more SPs since, but as someone who doesn't want full service, MPs are honestly good enough. Actually, more than good enough - I prefer them because the venue is always a lot more predictable.
When the pandemic started, that obviously meant no SCs for a while. I still went to the MPs, but rarely. Getting the chance to "sneak away" suddenly became difficult too. Unfortunately, that aspect of life hasn't changed since covid restrictions went away. It is now so very very rare I get to partake. Just as well that it's rare now, as my income has never recovered since covid. Now I look back at that $200 budget as a luxury of the past!
I've been back to the Rail a handful of times since the pandemic, first time back was only a year ago. I'd go more often, but again sneaking out and coming home smelling like dancer isn't an option anymore (somehow the pandemic made my wife a night owl... doh!) Maybe once every couple of months I'll manage to get to an MP. Though, as I type this I realize that's not true. It's way less frequent than that! I had to look it up, my last MP was in July with Valerina, and before that... I don't even remember!
I'm really jonesing for an MP experience. Alas, I do live in a sexless marriage. We love each other very much, but we just don't do it for each other in the intimacy department.
I have to admit it’s probably been a few hundred even with visiting favourites numerous times! Back 20 or so years ago it was not uncommon to visit 2or 3 times a week. A long sexless marriage was the start.
I started hobbying 26 years ago in 2000. I’d dabbled a bit during the 90’s since I was always intrigued by the adult industry in general. I was careful to pace myself, since this hobby can turn into an addiction. I’ve met some incredible people over the years and have a treasure trove of experiences, memories and stories.
I’ve slept with around 155, including some amateur porn stars. It’s a bit of a novelty, I guess… One woman was on the Southern Belles porn site back in the day, and another posted on Pornhub. I’ve slept with hotties from every province in Canada. Other notable geographic locales include Alabama and the U.K. I almost had a chance to see someone from New Zealand, but that’s another story… I’ve had some great times and still keep in touch with regulars even after all these years. I wouldn’t trade it for the world.
I’ve slept with around 155, including some amateur porn stars. It’s a bit of a novelty, I guess… One woman was on the Southern Belles porn site back in the day, and another posted on Pornhub. I’ve slept with hotties from every province in Canada. Other notable geographic locales include Alabama and the U.K. I almost had a chance to see someone from New Zealand, but that’s another story… I’ve had some great times and still keep in touch with regulars even after all these years. I wouldn’t trade it for the world.
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I use leolist, met a lot of nice women and I tried locanto, for some who provide fetishes
Wow that is a surprise. LL is known for 80%+ = fake /scammers
You must have a good eye to find the gems.
Yeah, they're more sincere scammers......maybe not as much as the young ones but I've seen more than a few older women scammers on LL too. That's why I prefer agencies. Not saying you can't get scammed by agencies but a lot less than LL and similar sites.
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Hundred percent, I got robbed once by a 27 year old, so there’s that. I also don’t like LL because too many are asking for only outcalls these days
This is what I'm finding too. Work has kept me extremely busy since COVID hit, and still hasn't returned to the norm of 2019. Trying to run operations in today's world, between the COVID disruption, then the labour shortage, then Trump's BS...it's not easy. Sometimes I get it in my head that I want to see a lady, but the effort and expense involved just doesn't seem to be worth it. I used to enjoy researching ladies I may want to see, reading reviews on them and such, but I can't even really muster the interest to do that, let alone carve out a chunk of time to see her, drive out there, the whole lot just for an hour of time with someone. I used to hobby a lot a decade ago, but life has changed since then. Plus I think the scene has degenerated lately. I've spent enough on too many lackluster sessions that it just doesn't appeal anymore. The hit-and-miss nature of the industry didn't bother me as much when I had time to spare, but now that my time is way more precious, it doesn't make sense.
I started in 2011 and the number is around 400 different SPs - and I've seen many of them on multiple occasions- mostly women of colour and Asian ladies
for me it's about the thrill of hooking up with someone that I would never otherwise have an opportunity to fuck- or would be too risky in terms of relationships- think hot Asian secretary at work or that ddg black girl neighbor
I also really enjoy duos- with my S.O. not into them- so I venture out to find interactive duos instead
btw my marriage is fine and the sex is there as well- I just find that the escape into the world of escorts allows me to satisfy that craving to explore new people and not compromise my marriage with the mess of developing feelings for the other person or having some lady after an affair try to break up my marriage
and yes- it would be equally cool for me if my wife did the same as well- I told her as much and suspect she has ventured out on her own without me as well
the thought of having sex with just one person for the rest of our lives sounds so boring and monotonous to me....so I would actually invite her to do the same
for me it's about the thrill of hooking up with someone that I would never otherwise have an opportunity to fuck- or would be too risky in terms of relationships- think hot Asian secretary at work or that ddg black girl neighbor
I also really enjoy duos- with my S.O. not into them- so I venture out to find interactive duos instead
btw my marriage is fine and the sex is there as well- I just find that the escape into the world of escorts allows me to satisfy that craving to explore new people and not compromise my marriage with the mess of developing feelings for the other person or having some lady after an affair try to break up my marriage
and yes- it would be equally cool for me if my wife did the same as well- I told her as much and suspect she has ventured out on her own without me as well
the thought of having sex with just one person for the rest of our lives sounds so boring and monotonous to me....so I would actually invite her to do the same
I started in 2009 by going to a strip club in my university town. Just so happened the first girl who approached me was an absolute stunner, also a university student but in a different program. God damn, she smelled good! She gave me some mediocre dances, which at the time I thought were amazing. The funniest part was that she was talking dirty to me and asked me to slap her ass, so I did, and then she said "oh, you're not actually supposed to do that in here". Bouncer actually was starting to make his way over before she waved him off. I was thinking, shit...I'm going to get thrown out on my very first strip club experience! Oh, and my friend got pulled on stage and humiliated by one of the other dancers, so that was memorable.
For weeks after that, I couldn't get the memory of that dancer out of my head. It was a crazy turn-on. Suddenly I was looking for what else was out there. Found the Brass Rail and decided to stop by there one night after class. The girls were drop dead gorgeous and I was in heaven. Yeah, it was expensive, but I was practically working full time while doing my studies, so I had the money to make it work. Met a gorgeous MILF who was probably late 30s with the absolute most magnificent pair of natural tits I've seen to this day. Took her to the VIP. Not only was she really sweet, but did that lady ever know how to grind! I had to stop her multiple times for fear of making a mess. But it gave me an idea...could a mere stripper really make me bust? I had to find out, for science! The next week I came back armed with a condom, grabbed the same lady, and conducted the experiment. Conclusion: yes. I visited her weekly until my term ended and I went out of town for half a year. When I came back, she was gone.
I then found my way to the Cannonball, where I had my first experience with extracurricular activities. While that was fun in its own way, I didn't like the high pressure atmosphere and negative attitudes of many of the girls.
Then, while researching strip clubs, I came across the old Fairbank Hotel. I enjoyed how things operated there. The chill atmosphere that didn't have girls constantly pressuring you to go for dances. Could take your time, observe the girls on stage, and then make your choice. I spent an UNGODLY amount of money at that place, which is impressive considering it was effectively half the going rate as other clubs. There was a time period where I had seen every single lady working at the place, my personal favorite being Suzanna. I reckon I spent over 100 hours with her, though some of that was at other clubs.
Fairbanks offered more privacy than some of the other clubs, and I started craving even more. That's when I discovered MPs. After much research I booked an appointment with Adara at Muse. But it wasn't to be. I was working full-time by then, and unexpectedly had to drive hours out of town. It didn't dissuade me. The next week I booked a popular gal (wish I could remember her name) at Perla massage, and was absolutely blown away by the experience. I immediately booked a second appointment, this time with Rosalie, and my expectations were once again smashed. What followed next was a cavalcade of MPA experiences that carried on strong until COVID hit. I did dabble in SPs for a time in the late 2010s, but probably less than 20. Something just felt better in the MP environment to me. More relaxed, less hassle.
COVID changed everything though. Work became more involved and stressful. My time became more precious. I began investing my money more, instead of blowing it on MPAs and SPs. I don't regret the great experiences I had, but right now I have no interest in revisiting the scene.
For weeks after that, I couldn't get the memory of that dancer out of my head. It was a crazy turn-on. Suddenly I was looking for what else was out there. Found the Brass Rail and decided to stop by there one night after class. The girls were drop dead gorgeous and I was in heaven. Yeah, it was expensive, but I was practically working full time while doing my studies, so I had the money to make it work. Met a gorgeous MILF who was probably late 30s with the absolute most magnificent pair of natural tits I've seen to this day. Took her to the VIP. Not only was she really sweet, but did that lady ever know how to grind! I had to stop her multiple times for fear of making a mess. But it gave me an idea...could a mere stripper really make me bust? I had to find out, for science! The next week I came back armed with a condom, grabbed the same lady, and conducted the experiment. Conclusion: yes. I visited her weekly until my term ended and I went out of town for half a year. When I came back, she was gone.
I then found my way to the Cannonball, where I had my first experience with extracurricular activities. While that was fun in its own way, I didn't like the high pressure atmosphere and negative attitudes of many of the girls.
Then, while researching strip clubs, I came across the old Fairbank Hotel. I enjoyed how things operated there. The chill atmosphere that didn't have girls constantly pressuring you to go for dances. Could take your time, observe the girls on stage, and then make your choice. I spent an UNGODLY amount of money at that place, which is impressive considering it was effectively half the going rate as other clubs. There was a time period where I had seen every single lady working at the place, my personal favorite being Suzanna. I reckon I spent over 100 hours with her, though some of that was at other clubs.
Fairbanks offered more privacy than some of the other clubs, and I started craving even more. That's when I discovered MPs. After much research I booked an appointment with Adara at Muse. But it wasn't to be. I was working full-time by then, and unexpectedly had to drive hours out of town. It didn't dissuade me. The next week I booked a popular gal (wish I could remember her name) at Perla massage, and was absolutely blown away by the experience. I immediately booked a second appointment, this time with Rosalie, and my expectations were once again smashed. What followed next was a cavalcade of MPA experiences that carried on strong until COVID hit. I did dabble in SPs for a time in the late 2010s, but probably less than 20. Something just felt better in the MP environment to me. More relaxed, less hassle.
COVID changed everything though. Work became more involved and stressful. My time became more precious. I began investing my money more, instead of blowing it on MPAs and SPs. I don't regret the great experiences I had, but right now I have no interest in revisiting the scene.
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Started in the early 2000’s, probably around 2001. Likely around 150 at this point. Can’t remember all of them but a few very good ones are burned in the memory banks forever. Always the ones where you just know it wasn’t a show and they were really into me. Man, once it happens you just keep chasing the dragon.
I've 40 years as a naughty boy and the number is somewhere between 2000 -3000. Plus I have planted my flag in 39 counties. My best day I had 5 bad girls in a FKK in Germany! Now a married family man that doesn't get out very often anymore.
Started in my late 20s and the number of women I have either had sex or given oral is probably well over 100 in the last 30 years, either paid or as FWB or GF.
It has been reduced because I like the idea of chasing, then fucking a woman, especially a much younger women, so I am now trying that route. Pure sex and FWB without expectation.
My youngest the last 12 months was age 20, the next was 28 and then 31, I have had women in their 40s and 50s also this past year.
It is a rush to fuck women or have them suck my cock dry for no other reason then they feel compelled to do it.
SPs are great in terms of time, quality and skill, I learned a lot especially by giving oral to MPAs.
It has been reduced because I like the idea of chasing, then fucking a woman, especially a much younger women, so I am now trying that route. Pure sex and FWB without expectation.
My youngest the last 12 months was age 20, the next was 28 and then 31, I have had women in their 40s and 50s also this past year.
It is a rush to fuck women or have them suck my cock dry for no other reason then they feel compelled to do it.
SPs are great in terms of time, quality and skill, I learned a lot especially by giving oral to MPAs.
