Body count in the hobby? What made you start?

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Started about 20 years ago.
A combination of getting married young and feeling like I'd missed out on some fun years and my wife having some health issues made me start looking around.
Can't remember if it was a magazine ad or craigslist, but I met a chick who was trying to get some money together to move away.
We were both pretty nervous but had a good time and saw her a few times before she left.

Since then I've had some great times, met some wonderful women.
But, I've also seen some really bad shit.
This "hobby" can give you a really interesting perspective on life if you let it.

Body count? No idea. Maybe 40 different women in my most active year. Maybe 200-250 total.
When you say you've seen some really bad shit, what have you seen and what are some of those interesting perspectives on life? Would love to hear!
 

Oistins

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An interesting thread. Started in 2016 very ad hoc with Perla Spa. Was having dinner with a friend and he said his personal trainer recommended it. Did that for about 5 years off and on, then jumped to Cupids/TP after the pandemic. Tried Indies about 3 years after and haven’t looked back. Since then, I’ve supplemented with various International. So….about 100+ in all, including 30+ civies. Several repeats in between.
 

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I guess I didn't say why I started. After a long and largely sexless marriage I decided that I wanted to experience the company of some the types women who'd I never had the chance to meet or enjoy physical pleasure with. I'm focused on dates with women from different backgrounds and those who's beauty just captivates me. I'd say the physical part of it is 80% and the rest is getting to know someone from somewhere foreign to me. An easy (if not cheap) way to satisfy my carnal needs that's also a thrill and just plain rewarding.
 

wonderingeye

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I read that most affairs start because of sexless marriages. Was that the case, or do you just eat with your eyes? What makes you feel it may be time to close off this chapter of your life? In case you do, best of luck in your next chapter.

When I started with an affair was having sex at home. Crazy having sex with your lover in the morning and wife at night.

At this point within this world, I have not had that 'thrill' that I would have with a new lady. Nothing wrong with them. Sessions were nice. Just missing that 'it' factor. So that is a sign that perhaps time to find a new hobby.

Lost my count of ladies that I was able to spend time with. Would love to do a goodbye tour with some of them.
 
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Before reading this thread, I was quite "proud" of 35 different agency ladies last year (no repeats) 🙃

Before that, 5 independents with 2/3/4 repeats each, but only once every 2-3 months or so.
What kicked off the hobby for you?
 
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OntGuy2010

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What kicked off the hobby for you?
Without going into the long "sad" story full of my own "excuses", let's just say sexual needs. That was the start, but pretty quickly developed into other things also: I like meeting ladies from all over Canada and other countries also, I like hearing and telling stories, have tried all kinds of providers, etc.! So by now this has become a wonderful "addition" to life, and hope to continue as much as I can.
 

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How long have you been hobbying (what year did you start), and roughly how many providers have you seen since then?

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First time was in a brothel down in Mexico back in the mid 80's. Me and a buddy of mine went on vacation. After clubbing we're in a taxi back to our hotel and the cab driver asked if we wanted to stop at a really good bar that has a lott a hot women. We excepted the offer and pretty surprised at what transpired. Then later on just one partner for many years. Big gap without sex. Just didn't want to start another relationship so started the hobby two years ago. Nervous as hell and started on LL and my first I booked a 2hr session and it was pretty decent. Had a few over that first year that were good but most times got scammed and almost quit. Started last year with agency girls and so much better. I would say 30 different providers total for 2 years. Most repeats was 10 and a handful of others repeats as well. So around 50 visits total guessing
 
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Brown Nose Bear

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I started hobbying 12 years ago this month. I never kept count but if I had to ballpark it, I'd guess around 300 different women. I went through a few phases so there were many new women to see when I tried new things. At first I stuck to the West end and went mainly to spas, but also the occasional indy from BP. Then I discovered Premier and Seduction and started going to those spas almost exclusively, especially after BP shut down. Then during the big lockdown I started using agencies, and I've mostly stopped going to spas over the last few years.

I told the story about my first time here:

Shortly after that I strained a muscle and was looking for a legit massage, but I was surprised to discover spas like HFH, SRM, and Allure that openly advertised erotic massage. I tried those places a few times and got hooked.
 

Lv Wmn

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Not really. It has become routine but I still enjoy it. 95% of the experiences were just ok. Very few girls were over 8/10.

In the late 90s, the choices were limited. Many advertised in magazines. I'd call the number, drive to a nearby location, and call from a phone box, specified by the girl. They obviously knew the number of the pay phone. They did that to ensure that you were in the area.
I 100% remember having to call from a specific pay phone. Being asked, what kind of gas station are you at (happened to be Petro Canada) got the address because I was in fact at the right place.

My "start" happened in Vancouver on a work trip. A bunch of guys were heading to Richards on Richards and that bar was in the heart of the "circuit" for the ladies. I remember they were very aggressive even in a group of men a couple of them would walk up and start handling the "package." With all the other guys around you really couldn't take anyone back to your hotel but I DID on another trip when I was not with a pack of guys.

Back here I was like skiierelite on Now magazine, then tried some MPA's. Stopped for years early in marriage but eventually came back.

I have no idea the number and I am not going to even try to come up with an estimate. if I do that I might add up the $$$ and I do not want to do that :eek::ROFLMAO::LOL:
 

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I 100% remember having to call from a specific pay phone. Being asked, what kind of gas station are you at (happened to be Petro Canada) got the address because I was in fact at the right place.

My "start" happened in Vancouver on a work trip. A bunch of guys were heading to Richards on Richards and that bar was in the heart of the "circuit" for the ladies. I remember they were very aggressive even in a group of men a couple of them would walk up and start handling the "package." With all the other guys around you really couldn't take anyone back to your hotel but I DID on another trip when I was not with a pack of guys.

Back here I was like skiierelite on Now magazine, then tried some MPA's. Stopped for years early in marriage but eventually came back.

I have no idea the number and I am not going to even try to come up with an estimate. if I do that I might add up the $$$ and I do not want to do that :eek::ROFLMAO::LOL:
I remember this happening to me and a buddy on a trip to Vancouver when we were 19. A couple of drunk kids walking down the street were easy marks for these ladies.

One did as you said and started fondling my friends ass and dick at the same time.

5 minutes later he realized his wad of cash was missing from his back pocket!

We went back to confront her but thought better when she started motioning for someone to come.

Hightailed it out of there minus a couple hundred bucks.
 

seanzo

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I stopped counting after I rapidly reached 100 less than a year after starting with this. 15 years later I couldn't tell you what the count is at now. If I had to guess it would be somewhere between 500 and 1000 but I honestly can't be sure about that estimate. I have definitely slowed down over the years as I prefer seeing regulars over some random escort
 

JeanGary Diablo

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2018 - started at Backpages - found Leo and then found TERB and loving it ever since. AS for SP count - I don't think I have reached the century mark just yet as repeats wouldn't count. :love:
I'm like you; I'm also big on repeats.

I'm definitely an introvert, so I like the familiarity that comes from repeats and not having to get the layout of the land every time I book a session.

In a way, my relationships with SPs are much like my relationships with my friends: I have only a select few but the few I keep I value deeply.
 

lanaorg

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Started when i was 18, i was single, lots of time and energy. Now over 30, running business, everyday stress, lots of bills to be paid. I can get excited after seeing hot girl touring or some new pawg but i when I estimate that i have to drive, manage time, for squeezing that pawg ass for 20mins. I always feel lazy to go when it comes to the day of appointment.

I even prebook a few last times and had to cancel cuz after tough morning I wasn't in mood to see anyone and not horny to be honest at all. Also last few times after finishing I was feeling like leaving having 40 more mins left.

It was fun years back but I don't find it that much fun anymore. It should be really someone outstanding in terms of look and close, definitely not driving to Richmond hill or downtown for an hour date.
 

corrie fan

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Back in "97 a hottie in my small town - she looks a lot like Natalie Wood, great ass - was advertising that she did relaxational massage, I knew it was strictly legit but it started me thinking massage was something I would like to try. Went to a massage place in London and met a nice young woman named Cathy. It was a great experience and have been hobbying every since. Mostly MPs but a few indy SPs along the way. Have had some great regulars over the years that I repeated with many times so my body count isn't huge, maybe about 100.
 

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Been seeing SPs for 23+ years and estimate I've seen about 230, (agencies & indies), with lots of repeats with some of them but first started with MPs when I lived in London. Switched to SPs because it was a better option after I left London and don't regret it at all. Reason I started was I had to do something in my spare time.

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Muchadoaboutnothing

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In the late 90s, were stings a big worry back then? How taboo was hobbying for regular dudes compared to now? You must have witnessed multiple, multiple generations of girls come and go. The girls from 2007 - 2011 are probably married, kids, normal life now.
There’s ladies you’re seeing who likely have kids and a relationship or some sort they just don’t reveal it lol
stings were more in nature or cops coming to your foggy car window.
 
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