Question For Handsome Men That See Escorts.
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This is an interesting question, and at the risk of sounding conceited, I will share what I believe to be true. Even though I'm in my 30s now, I still receive a fair amount of praise/attention for whatever reason. It is flattering, however, when you weigh the pros and cons of engaging in a long term relationship, some may feel it isn't worth it. I normally engage in polite pleasantries and move on even if I do find them attractive. I think most could relate to the fact there are a lot of stressors in long term relationships and they are unpredictable due to the vast number of exogenous variables that cannot be accounted for.
With that said, I think this is why a "handsome man" segment of the market exists in this particular marketplace. It satisfies the physiological needs, and that may be enough for some individuals.
With that said, I think this is why a "handsome man" segment of the market exists in this particular marketplace. It satisfies the physiological needs, and that may be enough for some individuals.
I think your response provides the most insightful rationale to the OP's question.
I did not see SPs until I was in my fifties, but I will add my two cents. More than anything else, being in the hobby is an adventure. It is a whole different world, full of surprises and along the way you occasionally meet someone you connect and work well with. And if the magic wears off, because you do not have emotional and financial entanglements, you just mourn for a bit and then move on. I love the infatuation phase of a relationship, which for me has never lasted longer than two years with a civilian. GFE seems to be the answer for me for the foreseeable future.
She ain't in Markham.damnn bro dont gatekeep aunty in this economy pleasee
I've been hobbying for 4 years, and I have had 3 romantic relationships with SPs. At the peak of each relationship, the feeling and intensity was unlike any relationship with a civie I have ever had. Best sex I have ever had. Unforgettable experiences and memories, but coming with a lot of psychological mind-fucking. Occasionally seeing their names in the reviews gets me reminiscing and depressed when I'm trying to move on.
"and it felt like the universe was trying to tell me something."
Mr. Universe is trying to tell you something
Similar to what others have said, men see escorts primarily for the lack of hassle . “Civilian sex” is complicated. There are expectations, emotional attachment, games, power struggles, jealousy….. I could go on. Having non paid sex is great. It’s an ego boost. It’s unpredictable, and if there is a true mutual attraction, it engages parts of your brain that enhance the experience. But it comes with a cost, and for some guys that cost (in terms of shortage of time, being married / attached) is too high. Paid sex fills a need for physical contact, sex, companionship, and if you are lucky, a bit of an ego boost, with minimal hassle.
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I agreed to a point... Just the fact that you don't need to worry about your "wild side" or lacking of, this is a huge pressure off your mind and dick. You fuck the way you want to.
I always remind myself and her that I am just here to fuck. So, I don't have the same attachment that I need to reminiscing or depress over it. If I want, I stop seeing her for months or years. Or, just popping in weekly for a good uncomplicated fuck.
