Can anyone vouch for an unscented deodorant that is both **actually unscented** and actually works. There are a lot of brands that have an "unscented" formula but they smell like fake cucumber and generic "flowers"
TO ALL SERVICE PROVIDERS!
- Thread starter Mr.Gr33k
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Posting some thread on TERB is not going to do anything. Take responsibility yourself and request no scented products. That is the standard. You can gripe all you want or you can take action yourself.
Do you have to post that your customers should be polite and respectful or does it go without saying?
Many providers browse TERB regardless if they're agency ladies or independents. Hopefully they stumble across this thread and get a hint. I don't have many expectations beyond that. Thanks for reading and understanding
Fuck. Glitter is the worst.
I had to toss a shirt because of glitter from a stripper.
So you’re comparing being respectful to no wearing scented products???Do you have to post that your customers should be polite and respectful or does it go without saying?
Many providers browse TERB regardless if they're agency ladies or independents. Hopefully they stumble across this thread and get a hint. I don't have many expectations beyond that. Thanks for reading and understanding
You will reach maybe 5% of escorts. Maybe. I bet even less. So like I said - just speak up to the actual provider. It is standard practice to make the request. You are not going to change that.
I can’t be the only one who enjoys the scent of woman. Natural scent + a tasteful perfume is a wonderful cocktail to bask in after a romp.
Us single guys shouldn’t have to suffer because some of you attached fellas aren’t careful enough. Hobby smart or face the consequences. Not my problem.
Us single guys shouldn’t have to suffer because some of you attached fellas aren’t careful enough. Hobby smart or face the consequences. Not my problem.
No perfume? What? Women + perfume are great combination.
Keep putting it on girls.
Keep putting it on girls.
Just use common sense when booking with SPs. IF you have intolerance to perfumes and/or strong fragrances then mention it to the SP (indy) or agency booking agent so the agency SP is fragrance free. And confirm with each if there's a specified confirmation time. And if that's not met when you arrive for your appointment, mention it and walk away and call the agency as your walking away and tell them why.
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You're not the only one. If you ask me,
yes to perfume, yes to scented lotions, yes to scented condoms, yes to scented lube, yes to scented candles and incense, you get the idea lol.
A reaction of a single, selfish man is understanding. "I have nothing to lose. Let the world revolve around me".
A reaction of SPs who'd rather burn a client rather than consider a No Scent option is fascinating.
I do love a scent of a woman, some perfumes and scented products. Nothing wrong with it per se. It does become problematic when a scent lingers.
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key word is “option.” I don’t disagree with offering scentless as an option. I disagree with careless dudes getting angry and imposing their needs on everyone else. Scentless should not be the default. It should be an option requested for. Let the ladies doll themselves up however they want by default.
I believe in this industry No Scent should be the default. No glitter. No body products that can burn a client.
Discretion is paramount!
Unless of course you're single and couldn't care less, but like I said, I expect selfish behavior from johns. I do expect better judgement and higher standards from Providers.
It's the best way to see it!
I am sure @mrgr33k can take 3.7 sec and send a short message to reassure himself.
Better safe than sorry. While most of us are already conscious to offer unscented soap and cream for our clients, I am sure if you send her a text ahead of time, she will kindly oblige.
Something nice like: my sweetheart. I cannot wait to see you. Unfortunately, you are not my only sweetheart, and the one I already have posses a very developed sense of smell. Would you be kind enough to not wear any perfume or glitter please for our rendez-vous? It would put my mind at ease.
Boom! No smell and open legs. Feel free to copy paste guys.
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Ages ago when I was away on business, I had a girl over, we had a great time and she left. Then I look at the bed, and there were streaks of orangey, brown all over my white sheets. From the self tanner she had on her skin. The problem was, I was hopefully going to have someone else over later. I made a coffee, and chucked it on the sheets and called housekeeping for new bedding.
I will personally try to accommodate but I'm not going to NEVER wear those things to accommodate a cheater. I would prefer if my clients were single and unattached. I sleep better at night knowing I had fun with someone who wasn't cheating on someone.
I really don't appreciate that the bulk of my clients are cheaters and I don't like when they disclose that.
You could just as easily tell them you're single. It's probably better if you don't disclose that you're married because some people will get angry with with you and purposely leave underwear behind or something to let your partner know she was there. Sometimes it's totally by mistake, and sometimes it's malicious. I knew a woman who used to do this (shes not an escort anymore). She would leave condom wrappers and underwear behind or leave a lipstick print somewhere the wife would find it.
Someone actually accused me of doing this, but they hired so many prostitutes they lost track of who was at their house. Their partner caught them because an escort deliberately stuck a used condom and wrapper outside of the garbage. It was in a place that would not be seen unless you were really cleaning down there. Anyway, he confronts me and tells me to be more careful next time (I'm always carful and i'll even bring the garbage with me in some instances. I bring mini garbage bags)
Anyway, not only did this person disclose that they were cheating on a long term partner, they let me know i was not the only one they had in their house. The condom did not belong to me. I only have one brand because of allergy and this condom would have sent me to the hospital. I explained that it wasn't mine, but he had already made up his mind about it lol. He was just a constant bullsh*tter. He had something negative to say about every girl he saw. I'm sure he stopped seeing me as a result of this condom fiasco, but then continued to see the person that left the condom there in the first place
the man described to me where it was left and it was in such a strange location that this woman left it there to be found and it was found. I walked away from that situation grateful to be able to just wash my hands of that person and his little circus.
Men, for some reason, forget that we're women and we don't like cheaters and we don't like dishonesty and we get jealous.
It's so funny when a guy will talk to an escort and then be confused why she got angry. They will disclose sleeping with multiple escorts and cheating on a spouse and then ask a girl for a recommendation for another escort. They forget they're talking to women.
It's so funny watching them put their own foot in their mouth. Sometimes they ask me for advice, and they ask me what they did wrong, and it's so clear to me what happened and they're totally oblivious.
You guys might all want to pretend that we don't care and that everyone wants to protect your secret, but we are at our very basic foundation WOMEN before anything else. It bothers us even if we don't say it. An escort a hundred percent isn't going to tell you the truth because that's not what you want to hear.
Your best bet is to simply ask that they not wear those things or if they can accommodate you DO NOT say you're married. Tell them you have sensitive skin and an allergy to perfumes.
Men are way too comfortable admitting to WOMEN they're cheating on a WOMAN like we get off on it. It's hard listening to that and going back to our normal relationships and understanding that men do this all the time.
In fact, there's an entire forum about it
An escort doesn't owe you anything. Some might even prefer if someone like you did not reach out to them. I personally have a "not my circus, not my monkeys" policy. I also have a "don't ask, don't tell".
I don't want to know, it's none of my business.
I'm also not going to live my life according to accommodate people cheating on their spouses. Sorry not sorry.
I like money, but I also like being able to sleep at night with the clean conscience.
Lots of people don't care, and that's great for them.I'm happy for them. Lots of people do, and i'm not the vindictive type but I have spoken to people that will go out of their way to make sure the wife knows.
It's pretty bold to assume that everyone is comfortable with your situation. Most people have the understanding that they're mostly seeing married men, but some people don't.
What I personally like about doing outcalls only is that the bulk of the people that I see are single. I still see married people. I don't want to know that they're married, but they usually want to tell me. It's not my job to figure out their marriage i just tell myself I'm "there to get paid" and I move on.
To be clear, I am not talking about myself. I don't care what anyone is doing. I don't like it, but I don't really care that much. If I don't do it, someone else is going to. I can only have control over my own life and as long as things are good for me at home i don't care who else's home is having problems.
If my house isn't on fire, I don't care if yours is and I say that as respectfully as possible. I don't care what goes on in your life, it doesn't affect me personally. I may or may not accommodate a cheater I guess it just depends on my mood
I really don't appreciate that the bulk of my clients are cheaters and I don't like when they disclose that.
You could just as easily tell them you're single. It's probably better if you don't disclose that you're married because some people will get angry with with you and purposely leave underwear behind or something to let your partner know she was there. Sometimes it's totally by mistake, and sometimes it's malicious. I knew a woman who used to do this (shes not an escort anymore). She would leave condom wrappers and underwear behind or leave a lipstick print somewhere the wife would find it.
Someone actually accused me of doing this, but they hired so many prostitutes they lost track of who was at their house. Their partner caught them because an escort deliberately stuck a used condom and wrapper outside of the garbage. It was in a place that would not be seen unless you were really cleaning down there. Anyway, he confronts me and tells me to be more careful next time (I'm always carful and i'll even bring the garbage with me in some instances. I bring mini garbage bags)
Anyway, not only did this person disclose that they were cheating on a long term partner, they let me know i was not the only one they had in their house. The condom did not belong to me. I only have one brand because of allergy and this condom would have sent me to the hospital. I explained that it wasn't mine, but he had already made up his mind about it lol. He was just a constant bullsh*tter. He had something negative to say about every girl he saw. I'm sure he stopped seeing me as a result of this condom fiasco, but then continued to see the person that left the condom there in the first place
the man described to me where it was left and it was in such a strange location that this woman left it there to be found and it was found. I walked away from that situation grateful to be able to just wash my hands of that person and his little circus.Men, for some reason, forget that we're women and we don't like cheaters and we don't like dishonesty and we get jealous.
It's so funny when a guy will talk to an escort and then be confused why she got angry. They will disclose sleeping with multiple escorts and cheating on a spouse and then ask a girl for a recommendation for another escort. They forget they're talking to women.
It's so funny watching them put their own foot in their mouth. Sometimes they ask me for advice, and they ask me what they did wrong, and it's so clear to me what happened and they're totally oblivious.
You guys might all want to pretend that we don't care and that everyone wants to protect your secret, but we are at our very basic foundation WOMEN before anything else. It bothers us even if we don't say it. An escort a hundred percent isn't going to tell you the truth because that's not what you want to hear.
Your best bet is to simply ask that they not wear those things or if they can accommodate you DO NOT say you're married. Tell them you have sensitive skin and an allergy to perfumes.
Men are way too comfortable admitting to WOMEN they're cheating on a WOMAN like we get off on it. It's hard listening to that and going back to our normal relationships and understanding that men do this all the time.
In fact, there's an entire forum about it
An escort doesn't owe you anything. Some might even prefer if someone like you did not reach out to them. I personally have a "not my circus, not my monkeys" policy. I also have a "don't ask, don't tell".
I don't want to know, it's none of my business.
I'm also not going to live my life according to accommodate people cheating on their spouses. Sorry not sorry.
I like money, but I also like being able to sleep at night with the clean conscience.
Lots of people don't care, and that's great for them.I'm happy for them. Lots of people do, and i'm not the vindictive type but I have spoken to people that will go out of their way to make sure the wife knows.
It's pretty bold to assume that everyone is comfortable with your situation. Most people have the understanding that they're mostly seeing married men, but some people don't.
What I personally like about doing outcalls only is that the bulk of the people that I see are single. I still see married people. I don't want to know that they're married, but they usually want to tell me. It's not my job to figure out their marriage i just tell myself I'm "there to get paid" and I move on.
To be clear, I am not talking about myself. I don't care what anyone is doing. I don't like it, but I don't really care that much. If I don't do it, someone else is going to. I can only have control over my own life and as long as things are good for me at home i don't care who else's home is having problems.
If my house isn't on fire, I don't care if yours is
and I say that as respectfully as possible. I don't care what goes on in your life, it doesn't affect me personally. I may or may not accommodate a cheater I guess it just depends on my mood
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Some one gets it.
I believe myself to be a considerate companion. I have two soaps in the bathroom and I tell every guy to use the blue one because it doesn't smell like the one I personally like. I put no pet allergies in my ads for crying out loud. I offer multiple different body washes for clients to choose from. All standard brands that most guys would be using anyways, I don't wear anything scented accept deodorant. I use mild laundry detergent, nothing like Gain that you can smell a mile away.
I personally do what the OP suggests as my personal standard but that is not industry standard and I certainly don't expect other SPs to be like me.
Non-scented is an option request. Not a standard. Period. It is the clients responsibility to ask.
