Quest4Less said:
I'm trying to behave - really I am - trying to 'quit' the hobby - but sometimes I just get so damn horny - and tossing one off doesn't really help - just makes me want it even more.
Any suggestions out there?
A relationship will definately help as it will take your mind off of this hobby and also allow you to replace it and focus on one woman. Additionally, temptation may also give in if you are bombarded by all the things around you that remind you of this hobby. Try and eliminate them all. Additionally, I recently read a book (Eckhart Tolle. The New Earth) that teaches the following in eliminating temptation to anything (may work for you, may not):
1. When urge occurs. Close eyes and Take 3 deep breaths
2. Let the urge be there and feel it for 3-5 minutes. Don't fight it
3. Take 3 deep breaths again
4. Now ask yourself, Who is talking? Who is feeding my mind? Who is in control here?.
I've found this helps me. Hope you can use it.