Recent content by rtc188

I see. My question is whether you tell her you only do PPM when you meet her in person for coffee, or if you tell her before you even meet her (i.e. when you're just messaging her initially) in case she isn't interested in PPM. My understanding is that some SB's don't like PPM.

Guys, do you ask them if they are willing to do PPM over text when you first start talking to them, or do you wait until you meet them in at the coffee date? I don't want to offend them and have them ghost me, but at the same time I would prefer not to waste my time going to a coffee date only...

The times I'm seen an SP, they always gesture for me to take the shower alone while they wait in the bedroom. However, most of the stories I read here start with a SF2 almost as a foregone conclusion. Are you guys explicitly asking the girl to step into the shower with you? I kind of feel bad...

Thanks, this is very helpful. I am vaccinated against HPV and Hep. I am aiming to get on PrEp too (it also offers some protection against genital herpes). I will try oral dams and CBJ for the first time with these girls.

Knowing the risk tolerance of more experienced people and their thinking behind it can only help me. All good if you don't want to share it though.

Actually the dedicated topic is not a bad idea. It's easier than sifting through hundreds of posts in search.

What’s yours? I’m curious. Thanks.

Hi there, I'm very new to SPs and one of my concerns is STIs. Reading reviews, I notice that many guys indulge in skin-to-skin DATY and DATO, aside from kissing of course. I'm looking at this as a numbers game. Kissing, DATY and DATO seems like playing russian roulette with your health. What am...

Hi Gator, Understood. Just some follow-up questions: 1. Why do you avoid independents? 2. Any chance you can recommend the agencies you use? 3. What do you like about those agencies? Thanks.

Hi guys, I'm new to the forum and have never hired SPs before. I'm interested in starting, but there is one special consideration for me: I deal with a somewhat advanced case of erectile dysfunction. My case requires me to inject my penis with medication (alprostadil) between 5 and 20 min...