Recent content by MelaniCarmelo

Really? You're resorting to an ad hominem fallacy? What a truly disappointing comment... I don't need to disclose any in depth details to you just to prove some kind of point or satisfy your need to be right. I'm agreeing to disagree here, because you're making it clear that there was no point...

People who don't care don't reply in length to things they don't care about. I think you care to some degree but also wanted to make a jab at him for not dealing with his addiction how you feel an addict should and then disguise it as help. lol Now that you got your distaste for his addiction...

When you put it like that I can understand where you are coming from and your intention to tough love the situation. However the one thing I just can't agree with is saying, " Clearly your family isn't everything for you if you are coming here asking for advice. If it was, you would of stopped...

When you get those urges do you ever think of ways to redirect that towards your wife? Or if the spark is gone have you guys talked about how to make it exciting again? Have you tried roleplay? Have her pretend to be an escort and after work show up to her "incall", pay her and you know the rest...

That's not how addiction works my friend! :) If people could just stop after being in so deep there would be no such thing as addiction and rehab would be non-existent! Addiction is both mental and physical torment and asking for help isn't a bad thing if you find you're genuinely having a hard...