Update, she was out of town for a few weeks and reached out to me.
Saw her, all good, great service.
Turns out she wasn't avoiding, like the name implies, give your head a shake
Yes! Wtf!!
She said it so non chalant too.
"Babe, can you put a finger in my bum"
Followed by can you choke me.
It was so weird. I did neither.
Idk if I'll ever be the same after that lol