Whenever I meet a lady, I always have a quick chat to start. Let her know what I like and learn what her restrictions are. Usually, I already know about restrictions through reviews on here, but I like to confirm; as always ymmv. Before I have that conversation, I need to have one with the booker. I usually beat around the bush and use words like friendly or open minded. I never come out and say I want daty or cim or facefuck. It is not that I am embarrassed, but I am concerned about laws and about how open you can be over the phone. Do you guys ask directly or are there words or phrases you use?
How do you ask booker about services
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Hmmm....Maybe we could all say instead of COF, we'd like to glaze the donuts...
This is a good question. As someone who uses agencies infrequently I’d like to know where the line is between acceptable and inappropriate questions with a booker. Like the OP I like to be aware of restrictions etc… before I book someone, but I also don’t want to get shut out from an agency if I’m asking too many questions.
Agency regulars, what’s your experience? And does it differ from one agency to another?
Agency regulars, what’s your experience? And does it differ from one agency to another?
The more often you use an agency the booker(s) get to know you and may become more willing to provide details regarding an SPs services. I'd say about 95%+ for myself. If you only use an agency occasionally the odds are against you for getting any detailed info regarding services.
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“I know YMMV but can I be a little direct in asking about certain services that I like since they are not listed on your website or ads. In the most respectful way of course. Can I use some acornyms, would that be acceptable?”
The booker will either say yes or no and you can go from there.
Don’t say, does she do……
Say “I like BBBJ with CIM and I really enjoy DATY with some DFK. Do you think so-n-so would be a good fit for me? Are any services extra? What can you tell me? ”
The booker will either say yes or no and you can go from there.
Don’t say, does she do……
Say “I like BBBJ with CIM and I really enjoy DATY with some DFK. Do you think so-n-so would be a good fit for me? Are any services extra? What can you tell me? ”
They won’t disclose details just say she’s popular amazing and great feedback.
I just had a thought....What if you asked the booker....Would they asked the provider and get back to you? And, since this is always a YMMV situation, the booker could say yes, and the girl could say no....Would you get angry at the booker?
Ask politely and do not use any vulgar slang words. Being considerate of the lady instead of simply demanding, eg "would (name) be open to providing greek?" Is fine "I want to fuck (name) up the ass" is not. Same question but the attitude says it all. Asking about upcharges beforehand also helps in case its not mentioned.
I am very basic with needs and/or expectations, so inly ever asked one question. Obviously politeness and carefulness are a good idea - I find that using industry terms helps, my question was: "would 2 SOG be allowed in a 1 hour booking"? Once I had to call to get the answer booker said service details are not discussed in text and all other times text was just fine.
I always ask if I can discuss services over text. Each booker/agency is different regarding how they go about this. Hpl told me they do not discuss services at all and recommended that I refer to reviews. DD would only discuss services via call. Sft sent me an SP’s entire menu over text.
@lir2016 pretty much nailed it, as far as I can tell.
The other consideration is that if you're using your real number or email you may want to be somewhat circumspect in your communications. It's one thing to have a communications chain that's pretty easy to figure out if someone looks at it, it's another thing to spell things out in plain as day in writing. Deniability, even if it's with a wink and a nod, is never a bad idea.
Save the details for over the phone if they're important to you (IMO).
The other consideration is that if you're using your real number or email you may want to be somewhat circumspect in your communications. It's one thing to have a communications chain that's pretty easy to figure out if someone looks at it, it's another thing to spell things out in plain as day in writing. Deniability, even if it's with a wink and a nod, is never a bad idea.
Save the details for over the phone if they're important to you (IMO).
To get around the C-36 law, you can not solicit services. To get around that you have to mime the act.
