If you only knew how sex workers talk about johns, especially ones like yourself.
Andddd i have a crush on my MPA
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very true many people here that prefer the intimate connections and gifts if they caught a glimpse of how they are talked about would become strictly all business in and out
Yeah, guys post on these boards like they are big time Alpha's talking about their "sexual conquests". They talk like they are better than the girls they have to pay to fuck as well as better than the guys who like those girls when they would likely turn to jelly if any of these girls showed the slightest sign of interest in them
this lol. the rare unicorns who are doing this to help pay off school debt generally also offer only 100% safe service. otherwise all ladies i encountered in this hobby (mpa, sp, sb, etc.) had nothing to show for and behaviour issues that require therapy and meds. most couldnt even keep their place in order or lacked staying at a job or further themself at work.
the smart ladies dont talk crap about johns online and lure more clients to gain more. these other ladies on socials yapping their gums about johns/men ruin their careers in this industry unless it's simps/subs that are attractive to them and those guys dont care about being shitted on. it actually turns them on.
ive only paid ladies for their time for the amount they wanted without gifting or tipping. its all business to me and i make sure if it's a hour session and such i get my money worth. ill get her to edge me for a long time then start up round 2 or so for another shot then leave.
u guys/johns on here thinking with ur "heart" are laughable instead of thinking with ur head. these ladies dont care about u at all it's all about $$$ to them. tell them ur net worth is $5 million and she'll be close to having u file for personal bankruptcy real fast because of her spending habits and how financially uneducated she is. the attitude and behaviour she brings alone will have u seeing a therapist and probably suicidal because u wanna somehow win her over and change her or something lol.
ive added a few ladies to snap or a texting app and give it a few days and she'll be venting to u about her problems and how she needs more $$$ and she'll tell u a bunch of sad stories so u etransfer her funds to help her and if u dont etransfer she'll push u to the side or rage at u. u can easily tell if she really likes u with how she acts towards u through chat/text. if you aren't feeding into her she just moves on to the next person in line and u have no idea what her phone even looks like lol. ive always just played along for laughs. ive had some i added and a few days later they start sending me morning msges so i play back on purpose without them knowing sayin stuff like omg ur soo sweet hun that meant the world to me and after like 2 or 3 days they stop sending msges unless ur like etransfering them more funds and some of them rahter make easy money that way than even see u in person cuz most dont deep down wanna even encounter u lol.
i generally only see 3 or 4 ladies a year and do the odd 2 or 3 sugar babies a year and the sbs get stale real fast that i more so just dont care about having a sb.
honestly i'd be content if we hung out and had a FWB type thing. don't think i could ever be in a relationship with any provider.
Everyone here has already provided all the reasons why you should kill that crush and not let it get past the fantasy that it clearly is. That being said, I have had 3 separate instances where a casual suggestion of off-the-clock time has been hinted at, all stemming from a massage I started the paid part of our date with. One I didn't pick up on until I was driving away (idiot!). One was just another massage, boundaries clearly set, and I was happy to provide. One was a massage that led into a second round (that ended up being way hotter than the initial one). If she's dropping hints, there's no harm in asking about them with the express understanding that you shouldn't expect it to go further.
Go do it but with the intention , and mind set that this is only a Game or a Fantasy. As soon as she ask for money Bail. And yes the relationship is over.
Have fun with it.
Then one day down the road someone will post the same thread here as you did and you can give a great advice to a novice. Like some of the other posters here have done for you.
Tell her you have a crush on her. She'll be thrilled. She'll know she has her hooks into you. She's selling a service and she wants happy, repeat customers, like any business person. You can ask to see her for unpaid time. Most likely she'll politely decline but will still want your business. Just remember, you're a customer. It's all a fantasy. Bring her a gift.. tip her generously.. if you're happy with the product she's offering, let her know. Nothing wrong with any of that.
