My updated Sugar dating progresses

[RobI]

Interesting. Has anyone spoken to the girls they see about a rise in the slut shaming from their peers?

My experience has been that the girls are much more open with their friends than I ever thought they would be. My current SB seems to talk with her friends about it often, and several have had sugar daddies in the past or are intrigued by the idea. She gets no shame at all apparently.

Always assumed that most of these girls get into it because they have friends who have tried it. But I don't know if it's that always the case anymore, a lot probably get the idea though social media.

There was a survey a few years ago in the UK that 20% of students were interested in "sex work" (they defined it pretty much everything from phone-sex operators, escorts, to massage parlours to sugar babies).

22% of students consider sex work - Swansea University study

More than a fifth of students think about being involved in the sex industry, according to a major research project.

www.bbc.com

What does Britain think of sex work and sex workers? | YouGov

Most Britons say paying for sex should be legal, but there is clear stigma against sex work

yougov.co.uk

 

[Liam011]

True. Both SBs that I am seeing right now had it suggested to them by friends. That's in the late 30s demographic.

 

[speakercontrols]

True. Both SBs that I am seeing right now had it suggested to them by friends. That's in the late 30s demographic.

Mid-late 20s demographic, same.

 

[superman12]

Always assumed that most of these girls get into it because they have friends who have tried it. But I don't know if it's that always the case anymore, a lot probably get the idea though social media.

From my experience most sb's I have met got introduced to the world through friends and then they also went on and introduced other friends. I think attractive girls are beginning to realize how lucrative the sb world can be for them for what might be very minimal work compared to the alternative of having a part time job elsewhere.

 

[Leimonis]

From my experience most sb's I have met got introduced to the world through friends and then they also went on and introduced other friends.

that’s what they claim but how accurate is it? I was introduced to it by a terb poster 15 years ago yet this is not what I tell the ladies

 

[RobI]

that’s what they claim but how accurate is it? I was introduced to it by a terb poster 15 years ago yet this is not what I tell the ladies

So..becasue you're lying to them, you assume all women are lying to you? lol

Kidding, I'm just fucking with you

 

[RobI]

From my experience most sb's I have met got introduced to the world through friends and then they also went on and introduced other friends. I think attractive girls are beginning to realize how lucrative the sb world can be for them for what might be very minimal work compared to the alternative of having a part time job elsewhere.

That makes sense to me, too. We've all heard stories of girls getting into escorting because they have friends or family members in the business.

 

[sexyyasmin]

I’ve always used seeking.

 

[speakercontrols]

I’ve always used seeking.

I read you get banned if you text about $ or PPM there. True?

 

[Leimonis]

I read you get banned if you text about $ or PPM there. True?

Yes this is one of the most annoying things about it. Fucking Americans with their fucking Puritanism

 

[sexyyasmin]

I read you get banned if you text about $ or PPM there. True?

gotta get off line and text on a phone

 

[superman12]

that’s what they claim but how accurate is it? I was introduced to it by a terb poster 15 years ago yet this is not what I tell the ladies

As an sb I don't know what they would gain by lying about being introduced to the world by friends? As a guy I can understand why you might not want to mention terb since most people wouldn't even know what it is and a lot of girls would find it weird and kind of demeaning that there is a review site out there where men review escorts they have been with.

 

[RobI]

Yes this is one of the most annoying things about it. Fucking Americans with their fucking Puritanism

There's a lot of left-leaning folks who are against women making money based on their looks or bedroom kung-fu

After Harper brought in the Noric model, the Liberals had 10+ years to reform sex work, and they did nothing because their base has a strong puritan vibe...as you'd expect from dumpy 50yo+ grey-hairs

 

[RobI]

I read you get banned if you text about $ or PPM there. True?

On Seeking? Yes. Private messages are monitored too. If you're going to use Seeking, try to get the girl off the platform before talking too many details.

Other sites like SDM are much more lenient but don't have Seeking's size.

 

[RobI]

As an sb I don't know what they would gain by lying about being introduced to the world by friends? As a guy I can understand why you might not want to mention terb since most people wouldn't even know what it is and a lot of girls wouldn't find it appealing that there is a review site out there where men review escorts they have been with.

That's the thing - what do they gain by lying to you exactly?

 

[Leimonis]

That's the thing - what do they gain by lying to you exactly?

Maybe it’s simply convenient for her to then be able to tell you what she wants by way of mentioning that her friend is or was getting that. It must be a lot easier fir a girl to say “my friend sold her pussy for XYZ “ rather than say, I thought about it and I estimate my pussy is worth XYZ.

People on that site lie when they open their mouth. Or so you should expect to avoid disappointment. I didn’t really think it would be a subject of a dispute.

Also, what difference does it make if they were told by their friends or not? All we can do is pray that more friends would tell more friends.

 

[GeeBee]

On Seeking? Yes. Private messages are monitored too. If you're going to use Seeking, try to get the girl off the platform before talking too many details.

Other sites like SDM are much more lenient but don't have Seeking's size.

Weirdly Seeking also warn girls, in their tips section, NOT to take the conversation off site too soon. Which is very frustrating when you’re engaging with a girls who’s new to the sugar game.

Now I mention the rules about no monetary discussion pretty early on in our chat so they know I’ll want to chat elsewhere. I once had a girls profile completely disappear during a chat less than a minute after she mentioned a dollar figure. Freaking annoying. They can also get quick temporary suspensions and have to go through a weird training type session before they get their profile access back.

 

[RobI]

Weirdly Seeking also warn girls, in their tips section, NOT to take the conversation off site too soon. Which is very frustrating when you’re engaging with a girls who’s new to the sugar game.

Now I mention the rules about no monetary discussion pretty early on in our chat so they know I’ll want to chat elsewhere. I once had a girls profile completely disappear during a chat less than a minute after she mentioned a dollar figure. Freaking annoying. They can also get quick temporary suspensions and have to go through a weird training type session before they get their profile access back.

Yeah, I get the position Seeking is in, but it does mean you have to beat around the bush a lot longer. Honestly, given their whole "hypergamy" (surprisingly, a real (old) word for basically hooking up with someone above your "station in life") push, it makes sense, but for guys like us looking for casual fun, it's more time-consuming.

"training type session"? Like some Sensitivity training?