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If you can change 3 things in the industry?

SlickRickBBD

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Very interested In hearing what people think could improve in the industry. What would you change if you had the power to do so? Could be anything, but let’s not make this a bitch fest. Productive changes you’d like to see. Please try to state what and possibly a little reason as to why. Everything open for debate but just please be respectful to other opinions and takes.I Would love to also hear from SPs as well. I’m sure there’s a lot of things they would wish clientele would do differently.

Hope you all chime in!

Slick
 

Josephine

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- Any type of violence made to sex workers. Wether it is physical, psychological, financial, online bullying, ect.

- Financial discrimination

- The whole stigma around the profession. We offer a valuable service to the world. It should be accepted by now. It's 2025.
 

jeff2

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Transparency. In a red light district, the service provider could see the client and the customer could be assured that the service provider is real and not have to engage in financial gymnastics with deposits. I suppose that some may say agencies fulfill this role. Leolist does not.
 
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Sarge2145

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1.The stigma. Both on the workers and the clientele. Providers should not ever feel less than for providing a service and clients should not feel as they must hide seeking out such service. Providers in this industry help clients in more ways than just sex.

2.Better way to ensure safety for providers. Both physically and financially. I know folks hate paying deposits but I understand why providers request them. Having a better method that works for both parties would be huge.

3. Schedules. More agency based. I know it’s incredibly hard for agencies to track down so many providers schedules. But I tend to check out the schedules of agencies on Sunday with the mindset of planning potential visits during the week. Some agencies don’t post their new schedule til Late Sunday night - Monday Morning. I understand the obstacles and hell it’s the weekend, but getting the schedule out earlier on Sunday (whether it’s in the morning or midday) I think would be more beneficial for the agency, providers and clientele.
 

SchlongConery

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A reputable advertising website that is form based that advertisers have to fill out completely, so that clients can check off whatever is important to them to search. This feature is available in a lot of European websites.

Identity verification of advertisers for age and corresponding to their photos.

A macro within the advertising submission process that will run the images through all or some reverse image search engines to check for fakes. As it stands, an innocent victim of a picture theif would likely be successful in a defamation lawsuit against, say Leolist, if their pictures are published to (falsely) identify them as prostitutes. The reason I think it would be successful is that with all the FREE reverse image searching resources available, and the regular and AI abiliites to automate the uploaded images, that the publisher (Leolist) was wilfully negligent in not doing so.

A neutral third party mutual identification verification service that is somehow protects the identity of the parties unless a police report is filed and a warrant for the specific records of the specific parties involved is served.

Biggest and most important change would of course be the decriminalization of the work, if not outright legalization with basic rules that would inform prospective providers of the mental, physical, biological and long term implications of sex work. And more than cursory rolling-a-condom-on-a-banana education on the specifics of all the various STD's so that they can better spot them etc.
 

dotdotdot69

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Many SPs need to learn how to properly service a guy for HH or H than some who try and be way to talkative. Learn to make sure during that timeframe he's the only person you know, make eye contact and do some decent massage/lap dance and slow and steady teasing than trying to rush service.
 

The Options Menu

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Many SPs need to learn how to properly service a guy for HH or H than some who try and be way to talkative.
Speak for yourself my dude. Some of us like a chat. You wanting to keep the action going is fine, but don't assume everyone wants that. A SP trying to run the clock with chat is bad, but book ending a session with banter can be nice. Banter and a cuddle that leads back into foreplay after a SOG can also be nice. Both can enhance a session for me, and many other folks (I suspect).
 

Sarge2145

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A database that takes every scammer and shitty SP that has fucked over Johns and takes their pics, IP’s, everything associated with that SP and then red flags them and black lists them
This is an interesting. Lots of providers that fuck over clients don’t even use their own pics. But those that do, this would definitely be useful. I’m sure SPs would like the same for shitty clients as well.
 
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kherg007

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I must admit I like the dick check. In Oz in the legal brothels they give the bits a good once over under a decent light.
They used to post the clean health checks of each lady at the front desk there too. Depending on state they must submit to health checks every month or fortnight.
Thus i reckon this means a prioritization of the health angle for both client and escort.
 
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Jenesis

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- All violence against any party participating in the industry. So no robbing men or beating women.

- removal of all true trafficking.

- decriminalization (not legalization - I don’t want the government to now be my pimp). If it is decriminalized, the stigma should be removed and it should be a safer and freer market for all parties involved.
 

dotdotdot69

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Speak for yourself my dude. Some of us like a chat. You wanting to keep the action going is fine, but don't assume everyone wants that. A SP trying to run the clock with chat is bad, but book ending a session with banter can be nice. Banter and a cuddle that leads back into foreplay after a SOG can also be nice. Both can enhance a session for me, and many other folks (I suspect).
Learn to read. "way to talkative". As in those SPs out there who try and bust someone's nut in a min and waste most of the session with overly chat. I enjoy the banter the comes along with the session.
 

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Learn to read. "way to talkative". As in those SPs out there who try and bust someone's nut in a min and waste most of the session with overly chat. I enjoy the banter the comes along with the session.
Learn to read. I said running the clock by talking is bad, and people are entitled to their own preferences. What is the definition of, "Way too much"? That's whatever magic amount of time you have in your head is. You also made assumptions about what everyone wants in their non-play time. That came off as a bit presumptive (on my reading), and would require psychic sex workers. That's despite us largely agreeing.

See, I can be rude too. ;)
 

Mr.Gr33k

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- Legalize the industry
- Crash course for into an etiquette for providers and clients alike
- Provide safe environment for everyone
- More competition = better talent
- More Transparency: face pics, true age, sizes, likes etc
- and last, but not the least, this hobby should be covered by OHIP!!!
 

Massivo

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Very interested In hearing what people think could improve in the industry. What would you change if you had the power to do so? Could be anything, but let’s not make this a bitch fest. Productive changes you’d like to see. Please try to state what and possibly a little reason as to why. Everything open for debate but just please be respectful to other opinions and takes.I Would love to also hear from SPs as well. I’m sure there’s a lot of things they would wish clientele would do differently.

Hope you all chime in!

Slick
Many great suggestions in this thread.

I'd like the agencies to list any type of enhancement an SP has had. Especially lips. I can't do fillers.

This will sound silly, but I want to know the provider's horoscope sign lol...
 

Mr Deeds

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Make it completely legal and regulated
Change public perception between trafficking and prostitution
Prices, with all due respect to the ladies prices are Out Of Reach for a very large segment of your Market.
 
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