Anyone with experience with sugar dating in Ottawa? Are there any legit platforms that particularly cater to audience looking for such an arrangement? Doesn’t necessarily need to be an escort. Thanks in advance.
Sugar dating in Ottawa
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So In my experience as a SB, I used to use seeking arrangements but it’s honestly HORRIBLE
the best arrangements I have had are from clients who meet me a couple times and make sure we have a good connection
the best arrangements I have had are from clients who meet me a couple times and make sure we have a good connection
Thank you for sharing your experience.
Maybe my understanding of sugar dating is wrong or I’m thinking of something else. Please tell me if I’m wrong.
I don’t think the guy has to be super crazy rich, just enough to come to an arrangement with someone where both can mutually benefit. Something like covering rent or school fees/loans etc. I would imagine there would be girls out there who would be interested in this because it allows them to earn without having to have sex with a different guy every day/week/month, have a stable and predictable schedule, they won’t have to be hunting clients all the time, all while having fun and building intimacy with someone. Not to say it would be safer as well.
And yes I’m very well aware that this is not a typical husband/wife relationship.
I feel like full time escorts are maybe not the right fit because they’ll always know that they can make more if they see more people. I guess?
So is there any platform where you can possibly find such an arrangement or am I daydreaming?
Maybe my understanding of sugar dating is wrong or I’m thinking of something else. Please tell me if I’m wrong.
I don’t think the guy has to be super crazy rich, just enough to come to an arrangement with someone where both can mutually benefit. Something like covering rent or school fees/loans etc. I would imagine there would be girls out there who would be interested in this because it allows them to earn without having to have sex with a different guy every day/week/month, have a stable and predictable schedule, they won’t have to be hunting clients all the time, all while having fun and building intimacy with someone. Not to say it would be safer as well.
And yes I’m very well aware that this is not a typical husband/wife relationship.
I feel like full time escorts are maybe not the right fit because they’ll always know that they can make more if they see more people. I guess?
So is there any platform where you can possibly find such an arrangement or am I daydreaming?
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It doesn’t work in Ottawa. I’ve tried twice and gave up. It’s not just the guys who are disappointing. Almost all the women are scammers from another country. The rest are scammers hoping to get quick cash with no intention of mutually beneficial relationships.
“Platonic” sugar baby? No thanks.
“Platonic” sugar baby? No thanks.
You likely already know about them, but there are websites where you can create a profile similar to a dating site to meet potential ‘sugar babies’.
www.sugardaddymeet.com/ca
www.seeking.com
www.sugardaddymeet.com/ca
www.seeking.com
From what I was reading online about these websites that they are mostly scams. Which is why I was hoping to learn from someone’s firsthand experience.
So in the past, I tried the SA website (not any longer) and I actually met some nice women after matching and messaging. My criticism of it was that it’s a time intensive process- lots of messaging, trying to meet up, some ghosting, etc. Plus you need to align yourself and your expectations. Eg. Some women would only be comfortable with companionship (so platonic) so if you’re looking for a physical/intimate part, then you wouldn’t be a match. Also the compensation expectations vary a bit requiring lots of discussion. So all to say, not scammers on there as you can meet some great women, it just takes time to find and make those connections.
PM me if you want me to share my experiences with you. It's all depends what you are looking for...
I am curious about people’s understanding and/or definition of sugar babies ……and the difference from escorts…
I have read that sugar babies are the modern day equivalent of a courtesan… and my understanding of that is a paid companion.
I understand there is an arrangement between consenting adults for some time - platonic or intimate - in exchange for something material be it gifts or jewellery or paying bills BUT how does this differ from being a regular client of an MA or SP???
Would enjoy reading people’s opinions on what the difference is tbh
I have read that sugar babies are the modern day equivalent of a courtesan… and my understanding of that is a paid companion.
I understand there is an arrangement between consenting adults for some time - platonic or intimate - in exchange for something material be it gifts or jewellery or paying bills BUT how does this differ from being a regular client of an MA or SP???
Would enjoy reading people’s opinions on what the difference is tbh
I said it in other threads but the best Sugar dating times are over. SA used to be filled with tons hot girls until 2021 and now it’s just 90% average or below average girls. Most of the other 10% want an allowance, plus rent, plus shopping, plus car payments, plus plus plus. Too much of a headache.
Only Fans has killed the SB scene cause most of all the hot ones don’t have to put out anymore and desperate guys will pay just to look at them on that site.
Only Fans has killed the SB scene cause most of all the hot ones don’t have to put out anymore and desperate guys will pay just to look at them on that site.
My experience is very similar to what Nadia mentioned above. I saw mine as a SP for 2- 3 years, and then we just decided to make it exclusive. We enjoy playing sports like tennis, squash and badminton. So we agree to do one sport activity and one fun time per week, and I pay her for these two dates. It's been over 7 years since.the best arrangements I have had are from clients who meet me a couple times and make sure we have a good connection
I was able to get into an arrangement with a SW and it was going great, but unfortunately we ran into something that was none of ours fault but our relationship wasn’t mature enough to navigate the miscommunication. It was going so well, much better than seeing a provider on a per appointment basis.
I guess I’ll try SA now. Not sure what SB is because all the links shared above keep on taking me to AM’s website.
I guess I’ll try SA now. Not sure what SB is because all the links shared above keep on taking me to AM’s website.
Yes it was a monthly stipend against a predetermined schedule of intimate time, public dates, phone calls, etc.
Seeking Arrangement probably not worth time and money , not to mention all the fake profiles.
I have had a 4 arrangements over the past 5 years. I prefer that to seeing many different girls every month but that's me. There are some different hurdles to be aware of which you learn from experience
I have had a 4 arrangements over the past 5 years. I prefer that to seeing many different girls every month but that's me. There are some different hurdles to be aware of which you learn from experience
Seeking Arrangements is expensive, I can't remember how much but you have no choice to come a member if you want to message and avoid all the scammer. Once a member it is easy to navigate and you are approach by the women if you have a decent profile.
There is alot of SPs and MAs on the site... I had good and bad experience, but nothing regular
I had few arrangements awhile back. All of them were via referrals.
@ottawabeekeeper i saw your thread before deletion. The situation affects both of you. If the connection is mutual and meaningful as you claim, she may come back after the situation is rectified for her. In the meantime, please find some peace. The internet can be loud and lonely at the same time. Take care.
@ottawabeekeeper i saw your thread before deletion. The situation affects both of you. If the connection is mutual and meaningful as you claim, she may come back after the situation is rectified for her. In the meantime, please find some peace. The internet can be loud and lonely at the same time. Take care.
Thanks for the kind words, also good to know you’re still around. Hope all is well.
I think it’s just best to move on from that arrangement now for me and look for something else. Once you’re back I’d love to know how you’ve done similar stuff in the past and what worked best for you.
it really depends on the SPs end goals, to be honest, I met an amazing man and SB for him from the age of 23-25 - he wanted me just for himself, so we agreed on a monthly amount which would be an average of how much I made exclusively servicing. He was a wonderful man - and I found myself become super dependant especially during my prime years of servicing - anyways, he ended up passing away. I found out because his daughter had called me I guess through finances and just my number in his phone. and essentially explained to me what had happened but it surprinsingly I thought I was going to get slandered she just told me what I already knew, that there is no longer and arrangement… so I found myself back in Kanata trying to rebuild my business. I don’t know if I’d go back to it - maybe in my older years. He doesn’t have to be rich, just to be able to afford the price tag! it had its up and downs but overall a pleasant experience
it had its up and downs but overall a pleasant experience
